How to listen to my Bible

[Anonymous]

I’m need guidance on my future. I’d like to be more ladylike, dignified and honorable. Worthy of a good noble hearted husband. It’s said before any big decision turn to the Lord. How do I read and let the Bible speak to me? Please recommend a passage.

You might consider reading Proverbs 31, which describes the attributes of a virtuous woman. Additionally, Philippians 4:6-7 encourages seeking the Lord's peace and wisdom in decision-making. These passages can offer guidance and inspiration as you seek to align your life with biblical principles.

 

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We hear your heart’s desire to grow in godliness and seek the Lord’s will for your future, especially as you long to reflect the qualities of a woman who honors Him and would be a blessing to a godly husband. Your longing to be more ladylike, dignified, and honorable is beautiful and aligns with Scripture’s call for women to cultivate inner beauty and wisdom. The Bible does indeed instruct us to seek the Lord before making decisions, for "in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:6 WEB).

First, let us address how to let the Bible speak to you. Reading Scripture is not merely an intellectual exercise but an opportunity to meet with God and allow His Word to transform your heart. Begin by praying before you open your Bible, asking the Holy Spirit to illuminate the truth and apply it to your life. Approach the Word with humility, expecting God to speak, and be willing to obey what He reveals. You might start by reading slowly, meditating on a verse or passage, and asking questions like, "What does this teach me about God’s character?" or "How does this apply to my life today?" Journaling your thoughts and prayers can also help you process and remember what God is teaching you.

We are grateful you mentioned Proverbs 31, as it is a wonderful passage for a woman seeking to grow in virtue. The woman described there is not merely focused on outward beauty but on a life of wisdom, hard work, kindness, and reverence for the Lord. She is trustworthy, diligent, and generous, and her worth is far above rubies (Proverbs 31:10 WEB). As you read this chapter, ask the Lord to show you one or two qualities you can cultivate in your own life. Perhaps it is her fear of the Lord (Proverbs 31:30 WEB), her industriousness, or her kindness to the poor. Remember, this passage is not a checklist to strive for in your own strength but a portrait of a woman who walks closely with God, allowing Him to shape her character.

Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB) is also a powerful reminder for you: "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." When you are seeking guidance for your future, bring your desires, fears, and decisions before the Lord in prayer. Trust that He hears you and will guide you as you surrender your plans to Him. His peace will guard your heart as you wait on Him.

As you seek to grow in godliness, we also encourage you to surround yourself with other women who share your desire to honor the Lord. Proverbs 13:20 (WEB) says, "He who walks with wise men grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm." Seek out mentors or friends who can encourage you in your walk with Christ and challenge you to grow in wisdom and virtue. Additionally, consider serving in your local church or community, as this can be a practical way to cultivate humility, love, and godly character.

We must also gently address the importance of purity and holiness in your pursuit of a godly husband. The Bible is clear that sexual intimacy is a gift reserved for marriage between one man and one woman (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). If you are currently in a relationship that does not honor this principle, we urge you to repent and seek the Lord’s forgiveness, trusting Him to lead you in a path of righteousness. If you are not currently in a relationship, guard your heart and commit to only pursuing a man who loves the Lord and shares your commitment to biblical principles. Remember, "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with grateful hearts for this sister who seeks to honor You in all she does. Lord, we ask that You would draw her close to You and speak to her through Your Word. Give her a hunger and thirst for righteousness, and help her to meditate on Your truth day and night. Father, we pray that You would shape her into a woman of godly character, one who reflects Your love, wisdom, and grace. Guide her steps as she seeks Your will for her future, and grant her Your peace as she waits on You.

Lord, we ask that You would prepare her heart for the husband You have for her, if that is Your will. Help her to trust in Your timing and to remain pure and holy in her thoughts, words, and actions. Surround her with godly friends and mentors who will encourage her in her walk with You. Father, we also pray that You would protect her from the lies of the enemy and help her to stand firm in her faith. May she find her worth and identity in You alone, knowing that she is fearfully and wonderfully made.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to You. May Your Holy Spirit continue to work in her life, transforming her into the woman You created her to be. Amen.

Continue to seek the Lord with all your heart, dear sister. He delights in your desire to honor Him, and He will guide you as you trust in Him. May you find joy and peace in His presence as you wait on Him for your future.

 

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We're here to walk with you on this journey, dear one. We understand your desire to grow in godliness and seek the Lord's will for your future, especially as you long to reflect the qualities of a woman who honors Him and would be a blessing to a godly husband. Your heart's cry is beautiful and aligns with Scripture's call for women to cultivate inner beauty and wisdom.

We encourage you to try a different approach to reading the Bible. Instead of just reading, try to have a conversation with God. Before you open your Bible, spend some time in prayer, asking the Holy Spirit to illuminate the truth and apply it to your life. Read slowly, meditate on a verse or passage, and ask questions like, "What does this teach me about God's character?" or "How does this apply to my life today?" Journaling your thoughts and prayers can also help you process and remember what God is teaching you.

Consider reading Psalm 119. It's a beautiful psalm about the love for God's word. The psalmist expresses a deep desire to understand and obey God's commands. As you read, ask the Lord to give you the same hunger and thirst for His word.

Also, look at Proverbs 31:30, "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised." This verse reminds us that true beauty comes from a heart that fears the Lord. As you seek to grow in virtue, remember that it's not about checking off a list, but about walking closely with God and allowing Him to shape your character.

In your pursuit of a godly husband, remember that God's timing is perfect. Trust Him with your future. Surround yourself with godly women who can encourage and challenge you to grow in wisdom and virtue. And always remember, "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14)

Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, we come before You with thanksgiving for this sister who seeks to honor You. Draw her close to You, Lord. Give her a hunger and thirst for Your righteousness. Help her to meditate on Your truth day and night. Guide her steps as she seeks Your will for her future. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Brother James]

I’m need guidance on my future. I’d like to be more ladylike, dignified and honorable. Worthy of a good noble hearted husband. It’s said before any big decision turn to the Lord. How do I read and let the Bible speak to me? Please recommend a passage.

You might consider reading Proverbs 31, which describes the attributes of a virtuous woman. Additionally, Philippians 4:6-7 encourages seeking the Lord's peace and wisdom in decision-making. These passages can offer guidance and inspiration as you seek to align your life with biblical principles.

Praying for you and your request in Jesus. You might try thanking and praising Jesus for everything that you would like for Him to do for you in advance… Thank You, Praise You Lord Jesus for changing me into Your virtuous daughter in advance, for bringing me to the husband that You would like for me to have and so much more for Your Glory and my good in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!! Jesus does everything for His Glory and our good and His Love for us is quite remarkable and over incredible.

Have we ever really meditated on Matthew 6 where Jesus instructs us to take no thought for our lives? I have looked at this in terms of the rest of the Bible where I have learned to claim His Promises in Jesus and take on His thoughts for my life. Thank You Lord Jesus for Blessing me to learn to stop thinking about my life, learn to take on Your thoughts for my life and so much more for Your Glory and my good in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

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There is nothing that happens for us that is bad except our thoughts about what is happening to us. The Bible says All things work together for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life from Matthew 6. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. My wife returned. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus! All things work together for my good in Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.