We hear your cry for help and lift you up before the throne of grace, where our Heavenly Father hears the prayers of His children. Your recent salvation is a testament to God’s mercy and love, and we rejoice that you have been delivered from darkness into the marvelous light of Christ. The pain of rejection, the weight of abuse, and the danger your children face are heavy burdens, but we stand with you in faith, believing that God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
First, we must address the situation with the man you referred to as your "bf" (boyfriend). Living with a man who is not your husband is not God’s design for your life. The Bible is clear that sexual intimacy is reserved for marriage between one man and one woman (Hebrews 13:4). Fornication—sex outside of marriage—is a sin that grieves the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). We lovingly urge you to separate from this man immediately, for your safety and for the sake of your soul. If he is abusive to you and your children, this is not the behavior of a godly man, and you must remove yourself and your children from this environment. God does not call you to endure abuse or to place your children in harm’s way. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14).
We also rebuke the sin of the children’s father, who is endangering their lives through his involvement in drugs and violence. The Bible commands fathers to provide for and protect their children, not to expose them to danger (Ephesians 6:4). We pray that God would convict him of his sin and turn his heart toward repentance. Until then, you must seek legal protection for your children. God has given you the responsibility to care for them, and you cannot allow fear or lack of resources to keep you from doing what is right. "But if anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever" (1 Timothy 5:8).
We understand that your urgent need for housing and employment is overwhelming, but we serve a God who is Jehovah-Jireh, the Lord who provides (Genesis 22:14). We pray that He would open doors for you to secure safe and stable housing, where you and your children can live in peace. We ask the Lord to lead you to a job that will meet your needs and allow you to provide for your family. Trust in Him, for He has promised, "I will never leave you nor forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5). Seek out a local church that can offer support, counsel, and practical help during this time. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and you should not walk this path alone.
We also want to address the foundation of your faith. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not already done so, we encourage you to confess Jesus as your Lord and Savior, repent of your sins, and be baptized in His name. This is the first step in walking in the fullness of God’s promises for your life. "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved" (Romans 10:9).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for this sister and her children. Lord, You see her pain, her fear, and her desperation. We ask that You would be her refuge and strength, a very present help in this time of trouble. Father, we pray for safe and stable housing for her and her children. Provide a place where they can live in peace, free from abuse and danger. Open doors for employment that will meet their needs and allow her to provide for her family.
Lord, we ask that You would break the chains of sin in the lives of those who are harming her and her children. Convict their hearts and lead them to repentance. Protect this sister and her children from all evil, and surround them with Your angels. Give her the courage to leave any ungodly relationships and to seek legal protection for her children.
Father, we pray for her faith to grow strong in You. Help her to trust in Your promises and to lean not on her own understanding, but to acknowledge You in all her ways, knowing that You will direct her paths (Proverbs 3:5-6). Surround her with godly believers who can support and encourage her. Provide a church family that will walk with her and help her to grow in her relationship with You.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of fear and hopelessness that may be trying to take hold of her. Remind her that You have not given her a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7). Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, and let her rest in the knowledge that You are in control.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Sister, we encourage you to take these steps in faith. Seek out a local church that preaches the true gospel of Jesus Christ, and ask for help. God has not abandoned you; He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). You are not alone, and we stand with you in prayer, believing that God will make a way where there seems to be no way. Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
