Honesty. Prayers about this please

Anonymous

Beloved of All
Everyone please pray for me in Jesus name. What is God’s will. May I know it soon as I’m suffering badly with anxiety. My reputation at work was ruined and smeared. I have no prospects for references. Most jobs want references but I can’t get it because of the false accusations. Father please give me wisdom on how to answer the question Why did you leave your last employer. The honest answer is that they were abusive and mobbed me out. Is there another way to answer the question without being negative or should I just be honest. Father I want to do things with integrity and not harbor resentment. Most employers are “put off” by people who have been unemployed for a while. Dear Lord help in Jesus name.
 
We lift you up in this time of deep distress, knowing that our Heavenly Father sees your suffering and hears your cries. Your heart for integrity and truth is commendable, for Scripture tells us in Proverbs 12:22, *"Lying lips are an abomination to Yahweh, but those who do the truth are his delight."* Yet we also know that wisdom is needed in how we speak, as Proverbs 15:23 reminds us, *"A man has joy in an apt answer. A word in due season, how good it is!"* You are right to seek God’s will in this, for He alone can guide your steps and redeem what has been broken.

The betrayal and false accusations you’ve endured are grievous, and we grieve with you over the injustice. The Psalms are filled with cries like yours—David often pleaded with God in the midst of slander and persecution. Psalm 37:5-6 says, *"Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will bring out your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun."* Cling to this promise. Though men may have failed you, God has not. He is your vindicator, and in His timing, He will expose the truth. Do not let bitterness take root, for Hebrews 12:15 warns, *"Looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it."*

As for how to answer the question about your departure from your last employer, we urge you to pray for wisdom and discernment. There is no need to disclose every detail, but neither should you lie. You might say something like: *"My last workplace was not a good fit for me professionally or culturally, and after prayerful consideration, I decided it was best to move on. I’m eager to bring my skills to a team where I can contribute positively and grow."* This response is honest without being negative, and it shifts focus to your readiness for new opportunities. If pressed further, you can simply say, *"I prefer not to speak negatively about former employers, but I’m excited about what’s ahead."* Colossians 4:6 instructs us, *"Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one."*

Your anxiety is understandable, but remember Philippians 4:6-7: *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."* Cast this burden upon Him, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). The enemy wants to use this season to paralyze you with fear, but God is able to open doors no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). Trust that He is preparing a way for you, even now.

For those who have wronged you, we encourage you to pray for them, as difficult as that may be. Jesus said in Matthew 5:44, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."* This is not for their sake alone, but for yours—forgiveness frees you from the chains of resentment. It does not mean what they did was right, but it releases the hold their actions have over your heart.

Lastly, we urge you to seek godly counsel in this season. If possible, connect with a mature believer or pastor who can walk alongside you, offer wisdom, and even serve as a reference for your character. Proverbs 11:14 says, *"Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is victory."* You do not have to navigate this alone.

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**Let us pray together:**

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of Your child, who is weary and wounded by the cruelty of others. Lord, You see the injustice they’ve endured—the false accusations, the ruined reputation, the anxiety that threatens to overwhelm them. We ask that You, the God of all comfort, would wrap Your arms around them and remind them that they are not forgotten. Your word says in Isaiah 41:10, *"Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness."*

Lord, grant them wisdom in how to speak about their past employment. Give them words that are honest yet gracious, that do not reopen wounds but instead point to the hope of what You are doing next. Open doors of opportunity that no man can shut. Provide favor with potential employers, and if it is Your will, raise up godly references who can speak to their character and skills. You are the God who makes a way where there seems to be no way, and we trust You to do that now.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of anxiety that seeks to steal their peace. Replace it with Your perfect peace, which guards hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Let them rest in the knowledge that You are their Provider, their Vindicator, and their Strength. Heal the wounds of betrayal and restore their confidence in Your goodness.

We also pray for those who have wronged them. Soften their hearts, Lord, and bring conviction where it is needed. If it is Your will, bring reconciliation and restoration. But even if not, help our sibling in Christ to release forgiveness, not for the sake of those who hurt them, but for their own freedom.

Lastly, Father, we ask that You make Your will clear to them. Speak through Your Word, through godly counsel, and through the quiet assurance of Your Spirit. Let them know without a doubt the path You are calling them to walk. Give them patience to wait on You and faith to trust that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28).

We pray all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who endured the ultimate injustice for our sake and now intercedes for us at Your right hand. Amen.
 
We're right here with you, standing in the gap. We know it's tough, but remember, God sees you, and He's working things out for your good. It's okay to be honest about what happened, but let's focus on the future. How about saying, "I left my last job because I felt it wasn't the right fit for me. I'm looking forward to finding a place where I can grow and contribute positively." That's truthful without being negative. Keep trusting God, He's got this. And hey, let's not forget to pray for those who've hurt you. It's tough, but it sets us free. Keep your chin up, friend. We're in this together.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We want to thank you for allowing us the sacred opportunity to lift your burdens before the Lord in prayer. Your heart for honesty and integrity in the midst of such deep suffering has moved us, and we continue to stand with you, trusting that God is at work even when the path forward feels hidden in shadows.

We know how heavy the weight of anxiety can be—especially when your reputation, livelihood, and future feel uncertain. The betrayal of false accusations and the fear of rejection in job searches can make each day feel like an uphill battle. But we serve a God who specializes in redemption, who sees the truth when others do not, and who promises to vindicate His children in His perfect timing. We are praying that He would replace your anxiety with a supernatural peace that surpasses understanding, reminding you that He holds your future securely in His hands.

Your desire to answer potential employers with both truth *and* wisdom is one we’ve been earnestly bringing before the Lord. We ask Him to give you the right words—words that reflect His grace without compromising your integrity or reopening wounds. Whether He leads you to share the full truth, a refined version of it, or a response that shifts focus to the skills and strengths you bring, we trust He will make the way clear. His Word tells us that when we lack wisdom, we can ask Him, and He gives generously (James 1:5). We are claiming that promise over you today.

If the Lord has already begun to answer—whether through a door opening, a moment of peace, or a new perspective—we would love to rejoice with you in a praise report. If the wait continues and the burden still feels heavy, please don’t hesitate to share your request again. We are here to walk with you in this, to remind you that you are not forgotten, and to keep interceding until breakthrough comes.

May the Lord bless you with His presence in tangible ways as you seek Him. May He restore what was stolen, open doors no one can shut, and use this season to deepen your trust in His faithfulness. We are believing with you for His perfect will to unfold, for His name to be glorified in your story, and for you to experience His goodness in ways that leave no room for doubt. In Jesus’ name.
 

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