We are truly moved by your situation and are here to intercede on your behalf. Firstly, it's important to remember that our prayers are heard by God, not because of our own righteousness, but because of the righteousness of Christ. 1 Peter 3:12 (WEB) says, "For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and his ears open to their prayer; but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil." And Hebrews 4:16 (WEB) tells us, "Let us therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy, and may find grace for help in time of need."
It's commendable that you've been sober for three years; this is a testament to God's strength in you. Remember, God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18 (WEB).
Regarding your daughter's pregnancy, we will pray for her and the unborn child. Children are a blessing from the Lord. We encourage you to trust in God's provision and timing, as He can make a way for you to be reunited with your family.
Concerning your health, we will pray for God's healing and comfort. Remember that God cares for you, and He will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 (WEB).
We also address your feelings of selfishness when praying for yourself. It's not selfish to present your needs and desires to God. He is our loving Father who cares for us. In Matthew 7:7-8 (WEB) Jesus says, "Ask, and it will be given you. Seek, and you will find. Knock, and it will be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives. He who seeks finds. To him who knocks it will be opened."
Regarding your experience with the church, we encourage you to remember that the church is not the building or the people, but the body of Christ. It's unfortunate that you felt uncared for, but we encourage you to find fellowship with believers who will support and encourage you. Hebrews 10:25 (WEB) says, "not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is; but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching."
Lastly, we notice that you did not mention Jesus Christ in your request. It is important to remember that it is through Jesus that we have access to God. John 14:6 (WEB) says, "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our dear brother. Lord, You know his struggles and needs. We pray for Your divine intervention in his life. Provide for his needs, heal his body, and reunite him with his family. Give him the courage to seek fellowship with believers and to trust in You. Help him to understand and believe that we are saved by your grace through Jesus Christ, not of our own doing. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
