Galoererarr
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I need help with a abusive husband he threatening to put his hands on me he has hurt me before
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We are deeply grieved to hear of the pain and fear you are enduring, dear sister in Christ. No one should ever have to live under the threat of violence or abuse, especially within the sacred covenant of marriage. The Lord hates the hands that shed innocent blood (Proverbs 6:16-17) and calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church—sacrificially, gently, and with honor (Ephesians 5:25, 28-29). Your husband’s behavior is not only sinful but a direct violation of God’s design for marriage.
First and foremost, we must address your safety. The Lord does not call you to remain in harm’s way. Scripture tells us, "God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control" (2 Timothy 1:7). If you are in immediate danger, we urge you to seek help from local authorities, a trusted pastor, or a Christian domestic violence shelter. You are not alone, and there are people who can help you take steps to protect yourself and any children involved. The Lord is your refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1), and He will guide you to safety.
We also rebuke the spirit of abuse and violence in the name of Jesus Christ. This behavior is not of God, and we stand against it with the authority given to us through Christ. "For though we walk in the flesh, we don’t wage war according to the flesh; for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds" (2 Corinthians 10:3-4). We pray that your husband’s heart would be broken by the Holy Spirit, that he would repent of his sin, and that he would seek godly counsel and accountability to change his ways.
However, we must also speak truthfully: repentance and change must come from him. You cannot carry the burden of his sin or his responsibility to change. If he is unwilling to seek help and turn from his abusive ways, you may need to consider separation for your safety and well-being. The Bible allows for separation in cases of unrepentant sin and danger (1 Corinthians 7:10-11), and your life and dignity are precious in the sight of God.
We pray for you now, lifting you up to the Lord who sees your tears and hears your cries:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear sister who is enduring such pain and fear. Lord, You are the God who sees the afflicted and hears the cries of the oppressed (Psalm 10:17-18). We ask that You would be her refuge and strength, a very present help in this time of trouble. Surround her with Your angels to protect her, and guide her steps to safety. Give her wisdom and courage to make the decisions she needs to make to protect herself and her children, if applicable.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of abuse and violence in this marriage. We declare that Your love casts out fear (1 John 4:18), and we ask that You would break the strongholds of anger, control, and violence in her husband’s heart. Soften his heart, Lord, and lead him to genuine repentance. Bring godly men into his life who can hold him accountable and help him walk in the ways of Christ. If he is unwilling to change, we pray that You would intervene to protect this sister from further harm.
Lord, we ask that You would heal her heart from the wounds of abuse. Pour out Your comfort and peace upon her, reminding her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image (Psalm 139:14). Restore her hope and fill her with Your strength. Provide her with a community of believers who will support and encourage her, and open doors for her to find safety and healing.
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who came to set the captives free and bind up the brokenhearted. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to seek out a biblical counselor or a trusted pastor who can walk with you through this difficult season. You do not have to face this alone. The Lord is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and trust that He will lead you to a place of peace and restoration. If your husband is willing to seek help and change, there may be hope for reconciliation, but it must be done under the guidance of godly counsel and with a commitment to biblical principles.
Lastly, we want to remind you of the hope we have in Jesus Christ. If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life fully to Him, for He is the only One who can truly heal and restore. "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved" (Romans 10:9). He is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6), and in Him, you will find the strength to endure and overcome.
First and foremost, we must address your safety. The Lord does not call you to remain in harm’s way. Scripture tells us, "God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control" (2 Timothy 1:7). If you are in immediate danger, we urge you to seek help from local authorities, a trusted pastor, or a Christian domestic violence shelter. You are not alone, and there are people who can help you take steps to protect yourself and any children involved. The Lord is your refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1), and He will guide you to safety.
We also rebuke the spirit of abuse and violence in the name of Jesus Christ. This behavior is not of God, and we stand against it with the authority given to us through Christ. "For though we walk in the flesh, we don’t wage war according to the flesh; for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds" (2 Corinthians 10:3-4). We pray that your husband’s heart would be broken by the Holy Spirit, that he would repent of his sin, and that he would seek godly counsel and accountability to change his ways.
However, we must also speak truthfully: repentance and change must come from him. You cannot carry the burden of his sin or his responsibility to change. If he is unwilling to seek help and turn from his abusive ways, you may need to consider separation for your safety and well-being. The Bible allows for separation in cases of unrepentant sin and danger (1 Corinthians 7:10-11), and your life and dignity are precious in the sight of God.
We pray for you now, lifting you up to the Lord who sees your tears and hears your cries:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear sister who is enduring such pain and fear. Lord, You are the God who sees the afflicted and hears the cries of the oppressed (Psalm 10:17-18). We ask that You would be her refuge and strength, a very present help in this time of trouble. Surround her with Your angels to protect her, and guide her steps to safety. Give her wisdom and courage to make the decisions she needs to make to protect herself and her children, if applicable.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of abuse and violence in this marriage. We declare that Your love casts out fear (1 John 4:18), and we ask that You would break the strongholds of anger, control, and violence in her husband’s heart. Soften his heart, Lord, and lead him to genuine repentance. Bring godly men into his life who can hold him accountable and help him walk in the ways of Christ. If he is unwilling to change, we pray that You would intervene to protect this sister from further harm.
Lord, we ask that You would heal her heart from the wounds of abuse. Pour out Your comfort and peace upon her, reminding her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image (Psalm 139:14). Restore her hope and fill her with Your strength. Provide her with a community of believers who will support and encourage her, and open doors for her to find safety and healing.
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who came to set the captives free and bind up the brokenhearted. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to seek out a biblical counselor or a trusted pastor who can walk with you through this difficult season. You do not have to face this alone. The Lord is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and trust that He will lead you to a place of peace and restoration. If your husband is willing to seek help and change, there may be hope for reconciliation, but it must be done under the guidance of godly counsel and with a commitment to biblical principles.
Lastly, we want to remind you of the hope we have in Jesus Christ. If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life fully to Him, for He is the only One who can truly heal and restore. "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved" (Romans 10:9). He is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6), and in Him, you will find the strength to endure and overcome.
We're here for you, sister. We're so sorry to hear about the pain and fear you're going through. It's never okay for anyone to threaten or hurt you, especially in the place where you should feel safest - your home. We want you to know that God sees you, He hears your cries, and He's right there with you.
First things first, your safety is paramount. If you're in immediate danger, please reach out to local authorities, a trusted pastor, or a Christian domestic violence shelter. You're not alone, and there are people who can help you take steps to protect yourself and any children involved. Remember, God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7).
We also stand against the spirit of abuse and violence in your marriage. This behavior is not of God, and we rebuke it in Jesus' name. We pray that your husband's heart would be broken by the Holy Spirit, leading him to genuine repentance and seeking godly counsel.
But sister, please hear this: you cannot carry the burden of his sin or his responsibility to change. If he's unwilling to seek help and turn from his abusive ways, you may need to consider separation for your safety and well-being. The Bible allows for separation in cases of unrepentant sin and danger (1 Corinthians 7:10-11), and your life and dignity are precious in God's sight.
We're praying for you right now, dear sister. We're asking God to be your refuge and strength, to guide your steps to safety, and to give you wisdom and courage to make the decisions you need to make. We're also praying for your husband, that God would soften his heart and lead him to genuine repentance.
Please, reach out to a biblical counselor or a trusted pastor. You don't have to face this alone. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and trust that He will lead you to a place of peace and restoration. There may be hope for reconciliation if your husband is willing to seek help and change, but it must be done under the guidance of godly counsel and with a commitment to biblical principles.
Lastly, we want to remind you of the hope we have in Jesus Christ. If you haven't already, we encourage you to surrender your life fully to Him. He's the only One who can truly heal and restore. He is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6), and in Him, you will find the strength to endure and overcome.
You are loved, sister. You are not alone. We're here for you, praying for you, and believing in you.
First things first, your safety is paramount. If you're in immediate danger, please reach out to local authorities, a trusted pastor, or a Christian domestic violence shelter. You're not alone, and there are people who can help you take steps to protect yourself and any children involved. Remember, God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7).
We also stand against the spirit of abuse and violence in your marriage. This behavior is not of God, and we rebuke it in Jesus' name. We pray that your husband's heart would be broken by the Holy Spirit, leading him to genuine repentance and seeking godly counsel.
But sister, please hear this: you cannot carry the burden of his sin or his responsibility to change. If he's unwilling to seek help and turn from his abusive ways, you may need to consider separation for your safety and well-being. The Bible allows for separation in cases of unrepentant sin and danger (1 Corinthians 7:10-11), and your life and dignity are precious in God's sight.
We're praying for you right now, dear sister. We're asking God to be your refuge and strength, to guide your steps to safety, and to give you wisdom and courage to make the decisions you need to make. We're also praying for your husband, that God would soften his heart and lead him to genuine repentance.
Please, reach out to a biblical counselor or a trusted pastor. You don't have to face this alone. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and trust that He will lead you to a place of peace and restoration. There may be hope for reconciliation if your husband is willing to seek help and change, but it must be done under the guidance of godly counsel and with a commitment to biblical principles.
Lastly, we want to remind you of the hope we have in Jesus Christ. If you haven't already, we encourage you to surrender your life fully to Him. He's the only One who can truly heal and restore. He is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6), and in Him, you will find the strength to endure and overcome.
You are loved, sister. You are not alone. We're here for you, praying for you, and believing in you.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Brother James
Beloved of All
Praying for you and your request in Jesus. Did you know there are promises all through the Bible that we can claim in Jesus, especially in the book of Hosea over our spouses?
Have we ever really meditated on Matthew 6 where Jesus instructs us to take no thought for our lives? I have looked at this in terms of the rest of the Bible where I have learned to claim His Promises in Jesus and take on His thoughts for my life. Thank You Lord Jesus for Blessing me to learn to stop thinking about my life, learn to take on Your thoughts for my life and so much more for Your Glory and my good in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!
Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?
Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!
We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!
You can copy and paste this to pray every day and share...
There is nothing that happens for us that is bad except our thoughts about what is happening to us. The Bible says All things work together for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!
Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.
Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.
I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life from Matthew 6. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. My wife returned. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.
Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus! All things work together for my good in Jesus!
Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!
Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.
Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.
Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.
Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.
Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.
Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.
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