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We hear the deep ache in your heart, and we grieve with you over the pain of longing for love that feels unreturned or uncertain. The cry of your soul is one the Lord understands well, for He Himself is love (1 John 4:8), and He collects every tear you shed (Psalm 56:8). Yet we must first address something critical: your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Ephesians 2:18). There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through faith in Him—His death for our sins and resurrection—that we can boldly approach God’s throne (Hebrews 4:16). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ as Lord, we urge you to do so today, for apart from Him, even our deepest longings will never be fully satisfied.
Now, let us speak truth into your situation with both compassion and clarity. The pain you describe reveals how deeply you desire to be cherished, and that desire is not wrong—God Himself placed it in you. However, we must examine whether this relationship aligns with His design. Scripture warns us not to be "unequally yoked" with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), for how can light live in harmony with darkness? If the person you are pursuing does not share your faith in Christ—or if this relationship has strayed into emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage—it is not a union the Lord can bless. Fornication (sex outside marriage) and emotional entanglements that mimic marriage without covenant are sin (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, Hebrews 13:4), and they will only bring deeper wounds. If this applies to your situation, we lovingly but firmly urge you to repent and step away, trusting God to redeem your heart.
If, however, this is a courtship between two believers seeking marriage, then we pray for clarity and godly love to grow. But even here, we must ask: Are you seeking this person’s love *more* than you seek Christ? The Lord jealously longs for you to find your ultimate satisfaction in Him (Psalm 73:25-26). If this relationship is causing you to idolize another person—or if it is marked by anxiety, control, or desperation—it is not healthy. Love is patient and kind (1 Corinthians 13:4-7), not a source of torment. The Lord may be allowing this pain to draw you closer to Himself, to teach you that human love, no matter how deep, will never fill the void only He can fill.
As for your request about a "memorable ending"—be careful. Our hearts can romanticize even pain, but God’s will is not for you to cling to fleeting emotions or settlements that fall short of His best. If this relationship is not His plan, He will provide the grace to let go *completely*, not just with a poetic farewell. Trust Him to write your story, even if the next chapter feels unknown.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift this precious soul before You, asking first that You reveal Yourself as their greatest love. If they do not know Jesus as Savior, Lord, open their eyes to see His beauty and surrender to Him today. Forgive them for any sin in this relationship—whether idolatry, fornication, or emotional compromise—and cleanse them by the blood of Christ. Break every ungodly soul tie and restore their heart to wholeness in You.
If this relationship is not Your will, give them the strength to release it with finality, not looking back like Lot’s wife (Genesis 19:26). Remove the pain of longing and replace it with a hunger for Your presence. If this *is* a godly courtship You intend for marriage, then knit their hearts together in purity, patience, and selfless love. Let them seek You *first* (Matthew 6:33), and trust You to align their desires with Your perfect plan.
Heal their wounds, Lord. Teach them to find their identity in being Your beloved child, not in another person’s affection. Surround them with godly community who will speak truth and pray for them. And if they must walk away, let them do so with dignity, knowing You are preparing something far greater than they can imagine.
We rebuke the enemy’s lies that say they are unlovable or that their worth depends on this person’s choice. You, Lord, have called them *chosen* (1 Peter 2:9), and no human rejection can revoke Your love. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses understanding, and guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray—*the only name by which we are saved*—Amen.
Finally, dear one, we leave you with this promise: *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this"* (Psalm 37:4-5). Wait on Him. His timing is perfect, and His love for you is everlasting.
Now, let us speak truth into your situation with both compassion and clarity. The pain you describe reveals how deeply you desire to be cherished, and that desire is not wrong—God Himself placed it in you. However, we must examine whether this relationship aligns with His design. Scripture warns us not to be "unequally yoked" with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), for how can light live in harmony with darkness? If the person you are pursuing does not share your faith in Christ—or if this relationship has strayed into emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage—it is not a union the Lord can bless. Fornication (sex outside marriage) and emotional entanglements that mimic marriage without covenant are sin (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, Hebrews 13:4), and they will only bring deeper wounds. If this applies to your situation, we lovingly but firmly urge you to repent and step away, trusting God to redeem your heart.
If, however, this is a courtship between two believers seeking marriage, then we pray for clarity and godly love to grow. But even here, we must ask: Are you seeking this person’s love *more* than you seek Christ? The Lord jealously longs for you to find your ultimate satisfaction in Him (Psalm 73:25-26). If this relationship is causing you to idolize another person—or if it is marked by anxiety, control, or desperation—it is not healthy. Love is patient and kind (1 Corinthians 13:4-7), not a source of torment. The Lord may be allowing this pain to draw you closer to Himself, to teach you that human love, no matter how deep, will never fill the void only He can fill.
As for your request about a "memorable ending"—be careful. Our hearts can romanticize even pain, but God’s will is not for you to cling to fleeting emotions or settlements that fall short of His best. If this relationship is not His plan, He will provide the grace to let go *completely*, not just with a poetic farewell. Trust Him to write your story, even if the next chapter feels unknown.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift this precious soul before You, asking first that You reveal Yourself as their greatest love. If they do not know Jesus as Savior, Lord, open their eyes to see His beauty and surrender to Him today. Forgive them for any sin in this relationship—whether idolatry, fornication, or emotional compromise—and cleanse them by the blood of Christ. Break every ungodly soul tie and restore their heart to wholeness in You.
If this relationship is not Your will, give them the strength to release it with finality, not looking back like Lot’s wife (Genesis 19:26). Remove the pain of longing and replace it with a hunger for Your presence. If this *is* a godly courtship You intend for marriage, then knit their hearts together in purity, patience, and selfless love. Let them seek You *first* (Matthew 6:33), and trust You to align their desires with Your perfect plan.
Heal their wounds, Lord. Teach them to find their identity in being Your beloved child, not in another person’s affection. Surround them with godly community who will speak truth and pray for them. And if they must walk away, let them do so with dignity, knowing You are preparing something far greater than they can imagine.
We rebuke the enemy’s lies that say they are unlovable or that their worth depends on this person’s choice. You, Lord, have called them *chosen* (1 Peter 2:9), and no human rejection can revoke Your love. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses understanding, and guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray—*the only name by which we are saved*—Amen.
Finally, dear one, we leave you with this promise: *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this"* (Psalm 37:4-5). Wait on Him. His timing is perfect, and His love for you is everlasting.
We're here for you, dear friend. We feel your heart's ache, the longing for love that seems uncertain or unreturned. It's a pain we've all known, and it's okay to feel it. But remember, God is love (1 John 4:8), and He understands your tears (Psalm 56:8). He's right there with you, every step of the way.
We want to encourage you to keep Jesus at the center of your prayer. Through Him, we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Ephesians 2:18). There's no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and it's only through faith in Him that we can approach God's throne (Hebrews 4:16).
Now, let's talk about your situation. It's clear that you deeply desire to be cherished, and that's not wrong - God placed that desire in you. But we need to examine if this relationship aligns with His design. If the person you're pursuing doesn't share your faith in Christ, or if this relationship has strayed into emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage, it's not a union the Lord can bless (2 Corinthians 6:14). Fornication and emotional entanglements outside of marriage are sin (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, Hebrews 13:4), and they'll only bring deeper wounds.
If this applies to your situation, we urge you to repent and step away, trusting God to redeem your heart. But if this is a courtship between two believers seeking marriage, we pray for clarity and godly love to grow. Even here, we must ask: Are you seeking this person's love more than you seek Christ? The Lord jealously longs for you to find your ultimate satisfaction in Him (Psalm 73:25-26). If this relationship is causing you to idolize another person, or if it's marked by anxiety, control, or desperation, it's not healthy.
As for your request about a "memorable ending," be careful. Our hearts can romanticize even pain, but God's will isn't for you to cling to fleeting emotions or settlements that fall short of His best. If this relationship isn't His plan, He'll provide the grace to let go completely, not just with a poetic farewell. Trust Him to write your story, even if the next chapter feels unknown.
Let's pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift this precious soul before You. First, reveal Yourself as their greatest love. If they don't know Jesus as Savior and Lord, open their eyes to see His beauty and surrender to Him today. Forgive them for any sin in this relationship - whether idolatry, fornication, or emotional compromise - and cleanse them by the blood of Christ. Break every ungodly soul tie and restore their heart to wholeness in You.
If this relationship isn't Your will, give them the strength to release it with finality, not looking back like Lot's wife (Genesis 19:26). Remove the pain of longing and replace it with a hunger for Your presence. If this is a godly courtship intended for marriage, knit their hearts together in purity, patience, and selfless love. Let them seek You first (Matthew 6:33) and trust You to align their desires with Your perfect plan.
Heal their wounds, Lord. Teach them to find their identity in being Your beloved child, not in another person's affection. Surround them with godly community who will speak truth and pray for them. And if they must walk away, let them do so with dignity, knowing You're preparing something far greater than they can imagine.
We rebuke the enemy's lies that say they're unlovable or that their worth depends on this person's choice. You, Lord, have called them chosen (1 Peter 2:9), and no human rejection can revoke Your love. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7), and guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray - the only name by which we are saved - Amen.
Finally, dear one, we leave you with this promise: "Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust also in him, and he will do this" (Psalm 37:4-5). Wait on Him. His timing is perfect, and His love for you is everlasting.
We want to encourage you to keep Jesus at the center of your prayer. Through Him, we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Ephesians 2:18). There's no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and it's only through faith in Him that we can approach God's throne (Hebrews 4:16).
Now, let's talk about your situation. It's clear that you deeply desire to be cherished, and that's not wrong - God placed that desire in you. But we need to examine if this relationship aligns with His design. If the person you're pursuing doesn't share your faith in Christ, or if this relationship has strayed into emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage, it's not a union the Lord can bless (2 Corinthians 6:14). Fornication and emotional entanglements outside of marriage are sin (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, Hebrews 13:4), and they'll only bring deeper wounds.
If this applies to your situation, we urge you to repent and step away, trusting God to redeem your heart. But if this is a courtship between two believers seeking marriage, we pray for clarity and godly love to grow. Even here, we must ask: Are you seeking this person's love more than you seek Christ? The Lord jealously longs for you to find your ultimate satisfaction in Him (Psalm 73:25-26). If this relationship is causing you to idolize another person, or if it's marked by anxiety, control, or desperation, it's not healthy.
As for your request about a "memorable ending," be careful. Our hearts can romanticize even pain, but God's will isn't for you to cling to fleeting emotions or settlements that fall short of His best. If this relationship isn't His plan, He'll provide the grace to let go completely, not just with a poetic farewell. Trust Him to write your story, even if the next chapter feels unknown.
Let's pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift this precious soul before You. First, reveal Yourself as their greatest love. If they don't know Jesus as Savior and Lord, open their eyes to see His beauty and surrender to Him today. Forgive them for any sin in this relationship - whether idolatry, fornication, or emotional compromise - and cleanse them by the blood of Christ. Break every ungodly soul tie and restore their heart to wholeness in You.
If this relationship isn't Your will, give them the strength to release it with finality, not looking back like Lot's wife (Genesis 19:26). Remove the pain of longing and replace it with a hunger for Your presence. If this is a godly courtship intended for marriage, knit their hearts together in purity, patience, and selfless love. Let them seek You first (Matthew 6:33) and trust You to align their desires with Your perfect plan.
Heal their wounds, Lord. Teach them to find their identity in being Your beloved child, not in another person's affection. Surround them with godly community who will speak truth and pray for them. And if they must walk away, let them do so with dignity, knowing You're preparing something far greater than they can imagine.
We rebuke the enemy's lies that say they're unlovable or that their worth depends on this person's choice. You, Lord, have called them chosen (1 Peter 2:9), and no human rejection can revoke Your love. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7), and guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray - the only name by which we are saved - Amen.
Finally, dear one, we leave you with this promise: "Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust also in him, and he will do this" (Psalm 37:4-5). Wait on Him. His timing is perfect, and His love for you is everlasting.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We have been lifting you and this tender relationship before the Father’s throne, asking Him to move in ways only He can. The ache of feeling unloved is one He understands deeply—He sees your heart and collects every tear you’ve shed over this. We’ve prayed for His healing touch to soften both of your hearts, that love would grow where there is doubt, and that His perfect will would unfold in this season, whether through restoration or redirection.
If the Lord has begun to mend this bond or reveal His purpose in a new way, we’d love to rejoice with you—please share your praise so we can give Him glory together. And if the weight of waiting still feels heavy, know we are here to keep interceding with you. You are not alone in this, and neither is your loved one; God is at work even when we cannot yet see it.
May you both be covered in His peace as you trust Him, step by step. We continue to ask for His wisdom to guide you, His comfort to sustain you, and His love to fill every broken place. In Jesus’ name.
If the Lord has begun to mend this bond or reveal His purpose in a new way, we’d love to rejoice with you—please share your praise so we can give Him glory together. And if the weight of waiting still feels heavy, know we are here to keep interceding with you. You are not alone in this, and neither is your loved one; God is at work even when we cannot yet see it.
May you both be covered in His peace as you trust Him, step by step. We continue to ask for His wisdom to guide you, His comfort to sustain you, and His love to fill every broken place. In Jesus’ name.
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