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Humble Prayer Warrior
Please help my daughter forgive me and understand what I was going through before she goes and passes judgement on me or ignores me. I reach out to them for help when I am sick or hurt and get ignored yet they cut up when I react or have bad days. Please take away the desire I have to want my family to treat me better. Help me to accept it is never going to happen. Help me accept the shallowness and lack of acceptance for my neurodivergence.
 
We lift you up in prayer, dear sister, knowing how deeply the pain of broken relationships and unmet longings can wound the heart. The cry of your soul echoes the psalmist’s lament: *"My tears have been my food day and night, while they continually ask me, 'Where is your God?'"* (Psalm 42:3, WEB). Yet even in this valley, God sees you, and His heart breaks with yours. He is the Father who *collects every tear in His bottle* (Psalm 56:8) and who promises, *"I will never leave you nor forsake you"* (Hebrews 13:5). Your daughter’s forgiveness and understanding may feel impossible, but with God, *all things are possible* (Matthew 19:26). Still, we must surrender even this desire to Him, trusting His timing and His ways—whether He softens her heart or sustains you in the waiting.

Your raw honesty about the desire for your family to treat you better reveals a longing for love that reflects how God designed us: to be known, cherished, and accepted. But sin has twisted relationships, and neurodivergence—though part of God’s sovereign design in you—can become a stumbling block for those who lack compassion or patience. The apostle Paul reminds us, *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18). Yet peace does not always mean reconciliation in this life. Jesus Himself was *"despised and rejected by men"* (Isaiah 53:3), and He understands the ache of being misunderstood. He calls you to release the weight of their approval, for *"if I were still trying to please man, I wouldn’t be a servant of Christ"* (Galatians 1:10).

The bitterness you feel toward their shallowness is valid, but we gently urge you: *guard your heart against rooting in resentment*. Ephesians 4:31–32 commands, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* This does not mean excusing their sin or pretending the pain isn’t real. It means choosing, daily, to release them to God’s justice and mercy, trusting that He will either convict their hearts or vindicate you in His time. Your neurodivergence is not a flaw in God’s eyes—it is part of how He fearfully and wonderfully made you (Psalm 139:14). Their rejection does not define your worth; *Christ’s acceptance of you does*.

As for your reactions on "bad days," we encourage you to examine whether your responses align with the Fruit of the Spirit: *"love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control"* (Galatians 5:22–23). If outbursts or harsh words have marked these moments, ask God to refine you. Not because your family "deserves" better, but because *you are called to reflect Christ*, even in suffering. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* This is not to blame you—grief and frustration are natural—but to invite you into the sanctifying work of the Holy Spirit, who can give you *"beauty for ashes"* (Isaiah 61:3) even in relational brokeness.

Now, let us pray for you:

*Heavenly Father, we lift our sister before Your throne of grace, where mercy flows like a river. Lord, she is weary—weary of reaching out and being met with silence, weary of being judged instead of understood, weary of the loneliness that neurodivergence can bring in a world that demands conformity. But You, O God, are her *ever-present help in trouble* (Psalm 46:1). We ask that You meet her in this place of raw need.

Softens her daughter’s heart, Lord. Open her eyes to see the battles her mother has fought, the love beneath the struggles, and the grace You extend to all who repent. But even if her daughter’s heart remains hardened, *give our sister the supernatural strength to release this desire for her approval*. Teach her to find her validation in You alone, for You have called her *"beloved"* (1 John 3:1) and *"more than a conqueror"* (Romans 8:37).

Break the cycle of reaction and regret in her relationships. Fill her with Your Spirit so that even on her worst days, Your peace guards her tongue and Your love covers her responses. Heal the wounds of rejection, Lord, and replace the longing for earthly acceptance with a deeper hunger for Your presence. Remind her that *Jesus was acquainted with grief* (Isaiah 53:3) and that He sits with her in every tear shed over her family’s indifference.

For the times she has reacted in ways she regrets, grant her repentance and the courage to seek forgiveness where needed. But also, Father, *protect her from false guilt*—the kind that says she must earn love or fix what only You can heal. You are the God who *binds up the brokenhearted* (Isaiah 61:1), and we trust You to do that for her now.

Finally, Lord, we rebuke the enemy’s lies that she is unlovable, too much, or not enough. She is *Your* daughter, fearfully and wonderfully made, and You have not forgotten her. Give her eyes to see the ways You are moving, even in the silence. Surround her with a community—even if just one or two faithful believers—who will reflect Your love when her family cannot.

In the name of Jesus, who was despised yet trusted You perfectly, we pray. Amen.*

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*Sister, we leave you with this: The cross of Christ is the ultimate answer to every rejection. He was forsaken so you would never be. Cling to Him. And if your family cannot love you as you long to be loved, let the church—His body—be the family that fills the gaps. You are not alone. We are praying with you.*
 
We're here for you, dear friend. We understand the ache of longing for understanding and acceptance, especially from those who should love us the most. It's like a deep, unquenchable thirst, isn't it?

We've been praying for you, asking God to soften your daughter's heart and to give you peace, no matter what happens. We've also been asking Him to help you find joy and contentment in His love, even when it feels like your family can't give you what you need.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's face, to pour out your heart to Him in prayer, and to trust that He sees you and cares for you. He promises in His Word, "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness" (Jeremiah 31:3). That love is real, and it's enough.

And remember, you're not alone. We're here, praying with you, and there are others in the body of Christ who will stand with you too. Let's keep lifting each other up in prayer, trusting that God will work all things together for our good and His glory (Romans 8:28).

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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