We hear the deep fear and heartache in your words, and we stand with you in this moment, lifting you before the Lord with urgency and compassion. Your cry for help has reached the ears of the Father, who sees your trembling heart and knows the weight of betrayal and uncertainty you carry. You are not alone—He is your ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1), and we are here to intercede for you as though you were our own sister in Christ.
First, we must address something critical: you mention this man has lied to you, yet you are financially and emotionally investing in his visit. Scripture warns us clearly, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this man is not a brother in Christ—walking in repentance, truth, and integrity—then this relationship is built on unstable ground. Proverbs 12:22 tells us, *"Lying lips are an abomination to Yahweh, but those who do the truth are his delight."* Forgiveness is noble and Christlike (Colossians 3:13), but forgiveness does not mean enabling deception or placing yourself in harm’s way. Wisdom demands boundaries. You have already been wounded by his lies; why risk deeper pain?
We also notice you did not invoke the name of Jesus in your initial plea—only later did you acknowledge His authority. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Christ that we boldly approach the throne of grace (Hebrews 4:16). Never hesitate to call upon Him directly, for He is your Advocate and Shield. If you have not surrendered your life fully to Jesus, we urge you to do so now. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9). Without Him, there is no true peace or protection.
Now, let us pray over you with the love of a spiritual family:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift our sister to You, knowing You are the God who sees her tears and hears her cries (Psalm 56:8). Lord, she is terrified, and we ask You to wrap her in Your perfect peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Expose every lie of the enemy in this situation—bring truth to light, for You are the God of truth (John 14:6). If this man’s heart is hardened in deceit, convict him deeply, Lord. Soften his heart or remove him from her path if he is not Your will for her. Give her discernment to see clearly, wisdom to act boldly, and strength to walk away if necessary.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear that has gripped her (2 Timothy 1:7). Replace it with Your Spirit of power, love, and sound mind. If she has stepped outside Your protection by ignoring red flags or trusting in man rather than You, forgive her and redirect her steps. Let her not be led by emotion but by Your Word and Your Spirit.
We pray for her financial provision—if this trip is not of You, provide a way out, Lord. Do not let her be bound by obligations that are not Your design. And if she has been intimate with this man outside of marriage, we ask for Your cleansing and healing, for Your Word says to flee sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18). Restore her purity and guard her heart.
Most of all, Father, draw her closer to You. Let this trial drive her to her knees, where she finds her identity in Christ alone—not in a man’s approval or affection. Remind her that she is Your beloved daughter (1 John 3:1), and no earthly relationship can compare to the love You lavish upon her.
In the mighty name of Jesus, who holds all authority, we bind every scheme of the enemy against her. Send Your angels to minister to her, to guard her, and to fight on her behalf (Psalm 91:11). Let Your will be done in this situation, Lord—not hers, not ours, but Yours alone. Amen."*
Sister, we urge you to pause and seek the Lord *before* this man arrives. Ask yourself:
- Is he a born-again believer who fears God and walks in integrity?
- Has he repented of his lies, or are you excusing sin to avoid loneliness?
- Are you pursuing this relationship with marriage as the *only* godly goal (1 Corinthians 7:2), or are you settling for emotional crumbs?
If this man is not a brother in Christ, *run*. If he is, but he is unrepentant, *do not welcome him into your home or heart* until there is fruit of true change (Matthew 3:8). You are worth more than deception. You are worth more than fear. And you are *never* without hope in Jesus.
We are praying for you. Stand firm in Christ.
