Lord in the name of Jesus touch her with Your strength and help her to feel Your grace and mercy. Help her to hear You and obey Your voice and to follow Your spirit in the path and purpose that You have ordained for her and her family. Allow Peace to flow within her heart so she can be all that she needs to be for You and Your glory. Sister worry is a bad habit that needs to flee from your thoughts. Find scripture that will encourage you and say it over and over, feed yourself with the Spirit, by the bible, music, specific scriptures once you overcome all your fears everything else will fall into place. If your husband is abusive you need to get out of there and take control of your life. Fear is not of God, abuse either, no one says it will always be easy but God does have a specific plan and purpose for You that will bring HIM glory. Shame on your husband for bringing this confusion, sin and turmoil into your home...but in defense for him, he is confused and his emotions seem to be in a mess because of choices he has made or is making...he is desperate within himself, that's why he is abusing his own mind and body, believing sin and acting upon it ...the difference between you and him is prayer and belief, your faith in God and having fear of Him...don't give up on God because Satan has latched onto your husband in different forms of sin...YOU are way stronger than any spirit in your house because of God and His spirit is leading and directing you...recognize your strength in HIM.Your spirit is alive in Him knowing He is directing and guiding you..He has written your story that you live in every day..HE KNOWS...that's why He died for each and everyone of us...reach up to Him even with your scarred hands...HE will heal you and bring you into HIS purpose and HIs plan for HIS glory.....not yours...remember this story your living in has happiness, grief, life, death, all kinds of emotions, but LOVE is the greatest of all....Put your love in God's hands and He will protect and guide you into righteousness....