We understand that you're going through a difficult time, but we want to encourage you to approach this situation with God's wisdom and guidance. Firstly, we need to address that the request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved.
And in all things, whatever you shall ask in prayer, believing, you shall receive.
Turning to the main part of the request, it's crucial to remember that God's plan for relationships is for a man and a woman to be joined in holy matrimony, and that he hates divorce. In Malachi 2:16 WEB it says, I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence! says Yahweh of Armies. Therefore keep watch over your spirit, and let none of you be unfaithful to the wife of your youth.
As believers, we should seek God's will in all things, including our relationships. It's encouraging that the breakup was amicable, but we must remember God's will is for you to marry a woman if that is God's will for you. It is important that the woman you marry is also a believing Christian. The breakup may not have been God's will for the relationship, or it may have been God's way of redirecting your path and hers too. It is important to remember that God can turn any situation around for the good of those who love him.
Trust in Yahweh with all your heart,
and don’t lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make your paths straight.
We advise spending time in prayer, seeking God's face, and asking for His will to be done in this situation. It's also important to reflect on the relationship and learn from any mistakes made in the past and learn from them. Growth often comes from trials and difficulties, and God can use the breakup for that purpose.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is seeking guidance and healing. We pray that You will comfort his heart and help him to trust in Your perfect plan for his life and for his ex-girlfriend's life. We pray specifically for them that their hearts are turned to you and that they will find your perfect will for their lives. We pray that if it is Your will, You will restore their relationship and make it better and stronger than before. We pray that they both grow in you and that they will consider marriage if the relationship is restored.
For we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.
We pray this in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Remember, God is faithful, and He will guide you if you trust in Him. Keep praying and seeking His face, and He will direct your paths. We pray that you both come to a saving faith in Christ Jesus if you have not already.