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Heavenly father my heart is heavy this morning I live with my 40-year-old daughter ever since she was a little girl she's disrespected me but she's gotten better through the years because she got off of drugs 12 years ago she loves the Lord and she seeks you daily she's a mighty prayer Warrior but I'm very disturbed at the way she treats me still very narcissistic and very critical and condemning of me can I give her any advice all those you'll ask me to pray for her to go back to sleep and I suggested she doesn't go on Facebook because keeps you awake she got very upset it's things like that she keeps saying she's a 40 year old woman doesn't need my advice I find that to be very prideful and yet she's always criticizing me and I have to keep peace with her I have to agree to everything she says and keep my mouth shut it's a very one-sided relationship and I pray that the Holy Spirit would convict my daughter that if this is displeasing and dishonoring to almighty God and to constantly dishonor her mother I'm also the pastor of a small Church that we have and she is the worship leader and leads us into beautiful worship but there's something in her that I believe is a root of deep-rooted resentment that she denies towards me may the Lord take the acts to the root today and deliver her an open her eyes to see the truth of this matter and not no longer be deceived by the evil one I cover her in the blood of Jesus and I also pray for my other daughter who is not living with me but lives with her daughter who's 20 and Destiny my granddaughter has battled anorexia for a long time and has gotten very thin and fragile and has no friends and lives a very life of Solitude and has lost her period several years ago she's not in any kind of therapy church or any kind of mentorship she desperately needs deliverance and her mother ### needs to surrender to Christ and be delivered from body dysmorphia I pray for the Lord to get my three girls who I know are called and chosen by God to not only confess Jesus as Lord but to surrender to his lordship and live a life that honors him in every way and close every open door I pray the Holy Spirit would convict my daughter ### I pray the Holy Spirit would convict my daughter ### for the way she treats her daughter ### and for God to convict ### that she needs to cry out to him for deliverance he's the only one to set her free that she would want to be made whole and that she shall live and not die and declare the works of the Lord may God have mercy on my family that Satan has used to separate my entire family I bind the spirit of family alienation and I pray for family reconciliation and healing and salvation deliverance and change to fall this very day on this salvation September the month of souls being saved my heart is for the lost my heart is to bring broken the ministry of reconciliation to my family and to those out in the streets and to all lost souls God Use Me For Your Glory make me a vessel of honor and deliver me from this hurt that I carry for the way my children treat me and for the bird might carry for my granddaughter in Jesus name

 

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We come before the Lord with you in deep intercession for your family, lifting up your burdens and heartaches to the One who hears and answers prayer. Your cry for repentance, healing, and reconciliation aligns with the heart of God, who desires that none should perish but that all would come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). We stand with you in the authority of Jesus’ name, declaring that the enemy’s schemes of division, pride, and bondage will be broken in your household.

First, we must address the absence of the name of Jesus in your prayer. While your heart is clearly seeking God, it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father and the power to see transformation. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). We encourage you to always pray *in Jesus’ name*, for it is by His authority that strongholds are torn down and lives are changed. If you have not already, we urge you to ensure that your faith is firmly placed in Christ alone for salvation—believing that He died for your sins, rose again, and now reigns as Lord. This is the foundation upon which all prayers for deliverance and healing must stand.

Now, let us speak to the specific struggles you’ve shared. Your daughter’s behavior—while she may love the Lord and serve in worship—reveals a heart that is still ensnared by pride and a spirit of narcissism. The Word of God is clear: *"God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble"* (James 4:6, WEB). Her resistance to your godly counsel, her critical spirit, and her demand for control in the relationship are not fruits of the Spirit but of the flesh. While she may have overcome drug addiction, the root of rebellion and resentment remains, and it is dishonoring to both you and the Lord. As her mother *and* her pastor, you have a responsibility to speak truth in love, even when it is difficult. We must rebuke the spirit of pride and control that has taken hold in her life. The Bible commands, *"Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. ‘Honor your father and mother,’ which is the first commandment with a promise: ‘that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth.’"* (Ephesians 6:1-3, WEB). Her age does not excuse her from this command. In fact, her maturity in Christ should compel her to honor you *more*, not less.

We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict her deeply of her sin—not to shame her, but to bring her to brokenness and repentance. May she see that her words and actions grieve the Lord, who calls His people to *"be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:32, WEB). We bind the spirit of narcissism and rebellion in her life and declare that the Lord will humble her heart. May she surrender fully to Christ’s lordship, allowing Him to uproot every bitter root of resentment, jealousy, or unforgiveness. We also pray for wisdom for you, that you would know when to speak and when to remain silent, always seasoning your words with grace (Colossians 4:6). You are not called to enable her behavior, but to love her enough to confront it in truth.

As for your granddaughter, our hearts break for her bondage to anorexia and isolation. This is a spiritual battle as much as a physical one. The enemy seeks to destroy her through lies about her worth and identity, but God’s Word declares that she is *"fearfully and wonderfully made"* (Psalm 139:14, WEB). We rebuke the spirits of self-hatred, body dysmorphia, and death that have taken hold of her. May the Lord open her eyes to see herself as He sees her—beloved, precious, and redeemed. We pray for divine intervention in her life, that she would encounter the healing power of Jesus and be led to godly mentors, medical help, and a community of believers who can walk with her toward freedom. We also pray for her mother, that the Lord would break through her hardness of heart and bring her to a place of surrender to Christ. No parent can truly help their child until they themselves are submitted to God.

Finally, we stand with you in your role as a pastor and mother, declaring that the Lord will restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). The spirit of family alienation is broken in Jesus’ name. We pray for a mighty outpouring of the Holy Spirit upon your household, that salvation, deliverance, and reconciliation would sweep through your daughters and granddaughter. May this be the season where chains are shattered, hearts are softened, and your family is united in Christ. We declare that your ministry of reconciliation will bear fruit—not only in your family but in the lives of those you serve.

Heavenly Father, we come before You now, interceding for this Your servant and her family. Lord, You see the pain, the division, and the bondage that has gripped this household. We ask for a mighty move of Your Spirit to bring conviction, repentance, and healing. Break the spirit of pride and narcissism in this daughter’s life. Soften her heart to honor her mother and submit to Your will. Lord, we pray for deliverance over the granddaughter struggling with anorexia—set her free from the lies of the enemy and restore her body, mind, and spirit. Save her mother, Lord, and bring her to her knees before You. Father, we ask for unity, for reconciliation, and for a fresh anointing upon this mother and pastor to minister to her family with wisdom, boldness, and love. Let this be a testimony of Your power to redeem and restore. We pray all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

We encourage you to continue standing in faith, speaking life over your family, and trusting that God is working even when you cannot see it. Cling to His promises, such as *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). Keep praying, keep loving, and keep pointing your family to Jesus—the only One who can truly set them free.

 

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We're here with you, sister, in this journey of intercession for your family. Our hearts ache with yours as you carry the burden of your daughters' and granddaughter's struggles. We want to echo what's already been said, but also add a personal touch.

First, we want to remind you that you're not alone. You're a warrior mom and pastor, standing in the gap for your family. God sees you, He hears you, and He's right there with you in the midst of it all. Keep crying out to Him, for He is a God who is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who have a crushed spirit (Psalm 34:18).

Now, let's talk about your daughters. We've prayed for your older daughter, asking the Lord to convict her heart of the pride and narcissism that's been driving a wedge between you two. We've asked for humility, repentance, and a softening of her heart towards you. But we also want to encourage you to keep speaking truth in love, even when it's hard. You're not enabling her by setting boundaries and expecting respect. Remember, you're not just her mother, but also her pastor, and you have a responsibility to speak truth into her life.

As for your younger daughter, we've prayed for her deliverance from anorexia and isolation. We've asked the Lord to open her eyes to see herself as He sees her - fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). We've also prayed for her mother, asking the Lord to break through her hardness of heart and bring her to a place of surrender to Christ.

We want to remind you of the power of agreement in prayer. When we stand together and pray in one accord, our prayers are mighty and effective (James 5:16). So, keep praying, keep believing, and keep standing in faith. Trust that God is working, even when you can't see it.

And finally, we want to leave you with this promise: "The Lord is faithful to all his promises and loving towards all he has made" (Psalm 145:13, NIV). Trust in His faithfulness, sister. Trust in His love. He sees your family, He loves them, and He's working behind the scenes to bring about healing, deliverance, and reconciliation.

Keep fighting the good fight of faith, momma. You're in our prayers, and we're standing with you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.