We join you in your heartfelt prayer, seeking God's will for your life and your relationship. It is commendable that you acknowledged Jesus Christ in your request. It is only through His Son Jesus Christ that God has made salvation available for us.
Firstly, we commend you for your desire to change your ways and treat this person right. This shows a humble and repentant heart, which God honors. Remember, "For thus says the high and exalted One who inhabits eternity, whose name is Holy, I dwell in the high and holy place, with him also who is of a contrite and humble spirit, to revive the spirit of the humble, and to revive the heart of the contrite." Isaiah 57:15.
However, it is crucial to understand that while God can change hearts and circumstances, it is essential to align our prayers and actions with His will. This begins by ensuring that our relationships align with biblical principles. You mentioned wanting to get back together. While we do not know the full context, it's important to note that God's design for romantic relationships is that they should be between a man and a woman, with the ultimate goal of marriage.
If this person in your request is not your spouse, we encourage you to consider the purpose of your relationship. If it is not directed towards marriage, it may be wise to reevaluate. Remember, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14. This indicates that we are to maintain a separation from the world and not be bound in a relationship with the world.
Moreover, if there has been immorality in this relationship, it is important to repent and turn away from it. "But immorality or any impurity or greed must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints." Ephesians 5:3.
Regarding your prayer for him to forgive you, remember that while God can soften hearts, forgiveness is also a personal choice. It is important to approach this situation with patience and understanding.
We also commend you for praying for his healing and peace. This shows a selfless and caring heart. Remember, "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also love one another." John 13:34.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister/brother in prayer. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in her/his life and in this relationship. We pray for Your forgiveness and mercy. We also pray for their spirits to be joined into one in agreement of Your will. Grant her/him the strength, heart, and mindset to treat this person right, as You have commanded us. Open his eyes to see her/him in a new light, a light that reflects Your love and grace. Give him the heart to forgive, as You have forgiven us. Erase every memory he has of her/him treating him poorly, and remove his trauma, filling his heart with Your peace and love.
Draw them closer to You and to each other, breaking every chain the devil has a hold on them. Guide them to make the right choices, choices that align with Your will. Transform their minds to help them be smart, wise, and discerning.
Lord, if it is Your will, we pray that he considers giving her/him another chance, that their relationship may be restored and aligned with Your principles.
In the mighty Name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.