We understand that you're going through a difficult time with your health and personal life, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance.
Firstly, we commend you for your persistence in prayer and reading the Bible. It's wonderful to see your desire to do right by God. Remember, God's word says in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that God is working everything out for your good, even when it seems like nothing is changing.
However, we must address a few things. First, ensure God is at the center of your life and that you are praying in the name of Jesus Christ. It's only by His name that we have access to God and His throne (John 14:6). Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." It is through faith in Jesus that we are saved and have access to the throne of God.
If you find yourself still waiting for answers, consider Jesus' words in Matthew 21:22, "All things, whatever you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive." Ensure that you're praying with faith and belief, trusting in God's timing and will.
Next, we must address the issue of honesty. Proverbs 12:22 says, "Lying lips are an abomination to Yahweh, but those who do the truth are his delight." It's crucial to be honest in all your dealings, including with the person you're in a relationship with. We strongly encourage you to be truthful about your situation. If you are attempting to live a Godly life, it is important to be honest in your daily activities and to be looking towards Godly marriage. If the relationship is sinful, you should flee from such things. Remember 1 Corinthians 6:18 "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." If you are in a courtship, this should be done in a Godly manner. Regarding sex before marriage and the goal of marriage:
The Bible states in Hebrews 13:4, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."
Additionally, we want to encourage you regarding your health. While we pray for your physical healing, remember that God's word says in 2 Corinthians 4:16-18, "Even though our outward person is perishing, yet the inward person is renewed day by day. For our light affliction, which is for the moment, works for us more and more exceedingly an eternal weight of glory; while we don't look at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporal, but the things which are not seen are eternal."
Heavenly Father, in Jesus' name, we lift up our sister who is going through a tough time with her health and personal life. We pray for her healing, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. We declare that you will turn things around for her good, according to your will. We pray that she and all those interacting with her will be honest and they will live a Godly and righteous life. We pray for a godly spouse if that is your will for her life.
We ask that you forgive her where she has fallen short and that you will help her be true to herself and you. We pray that you will transform her life that she may be free from all that binds her and that she may walk in wholeness and victory. We ask that you take control of her health, her mind, her emotions, and her relationships.
We pray that you will heal her body, that you will restore her beauty, and that you will renew her faith in You and Your word. We pray that she will pursue righteousness to live the life that you have created her to live. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen