We understand that you're feeling hurt and invisible due to the actions of this band member. Firstly, let's bring this to the Lord in prayer.
Father, we come before You, lifting up our sister who is feeling hurt and unseen. You know the depths of her heart, Lord, and You see every tear she's cried. We pray for healing, Lord Jesus, that You would touch her heart and mend the broken pieces. We also pray for the band member, that Your love would touch his heart, and that he would see the value of every person he interacts with. We pray that any bitterness or resentment would be uprooted and that forgiveness would flow. We ask this in the precious name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Now, let's look at what the Bible says about how we should treat one another. In Ephesians 4:32 WEB, it says, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." This verse reminds us that we should be kind and compassionate, just as God is kind and compassionate to us.
It's important to remember that our value is not determined by what others say or do. Our value comes from the Lord. In Psalm 139:14 WEB, it says, "I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well." You are fearfully and wonderfully made, and no one can take that away from you.
Regarding the band member, it's possible that he doesn't realize the impact of his words. In Luke 6:31 WEB, Jesus says, "As you would like people to do to you, do exactly so to them." We should treat others as we would like to be treated. Perhaps there's an opportunity here to gently share with him how his words have affected you. This could be a chance for him to grow and change.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your eyes on Jesus. He is the author and perfecter of our faith. In Hebrews 12:2 WEB, it says, "looking to Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising its shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God." He sees you, He knows you, and He loves you deeply.
We did not notice a mention of Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is important to remember it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God.
And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, given among men, by which we must be saved! Acts 4:12 WEB
Finally, let's remember the words of Romans 8:28 WEB, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that God is working all things together for good in your life. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep your eyes on Jesus.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
