We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this situation that weighs so deeply on your spirit. First, we must address something foundational: you mention an "online partner," and this raises concerns that need to be spoken to with love but also with truth. Scripture is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, ordained by God (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). Any relationship outside of this design—whether emotional, physical, or otherwise—is not aligned with God’s will. If this "partnership" is not a biblically grounded marriage, it must be examined in light of Scripture. Fornication, emotional entanglements outside of marriage, or any relationship that does not honor God’s design for marriage is sin (1 Corinthians 6:18, Hebrews 13:4). We urge you to seek the Lord’s wisdom and repentance if this relationship is not one that He has ordained. If you are not married, we pray you would pursue a godly courtship with the intent of marriage to a believer, or, if already bound in an ungodly relationship, that you would seek the Lord’s strength to walk away from it in obedience to Him.
Now, regarding the sickness of your partner’s son—we ache for this child’s suffering and for the burden you carry. It is right to show compassion and generosity, especially to those in need (Proverbs 19:17, James 1:27). However, we see that this financial support is causing conflict in your own home, and this too must be brought before the Lord. Scripture teaches us to care for our own households first, as this is a responsibility before God (1 Timothy 5:8). If your generosity is creating strife within your family, it is wise to seek balance and the Lord’s guidance in how to steward your resources. We must trust that God is the ultimate provider and that He will supply all needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Your heart to help is commendable, but it should not come at the cost of neglecting the needs of your own family or creating division.
We also notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, and this is something we must address with urgency. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved, and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you have not surrendered your life to Christ, we implore you to do so now. Confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). Without faith in Christ, our prayers are empty, and our works—no matter how good—cannot save us. It is only in His name that we can approach the throne of grace with confidence (Hebrews 4:16).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear one who is burdened with many cares. Lord, we ask first for Your conviction and clarity regarding the relationship they have mentioned. If it is not aligned with Your holy design for marriage, we pray You would expose it and grant them the courage to walk in obedience, even if it is painful. Father, break any ungodly soul ties and bring this person into a relationship with You that is pure and undefiled. If they are not yet married, we pray You would guide them toward a godly spouse or grant them the strength to walk away from anything that dishonors You.
Lord, we lift up this sick child to You. You are Jehovah-Rapha, the God who heals. We ask for Your healing touch upon this little one, that You would restore their body and bring comfort to their family. Give wisdom to the doctors and caregivers, and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Father, we ask for Your provision and wisdom in the area of finances. You own the cattle on a thousand hills (Psalm 50:10), and You know the needs of this family. Show them how to steward their resources in a way that honors You and brings unity to their home. Help them to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all these things will be added to them (Matthew 6:33). Remove any fear or anxiety and replace it with faith in Your faithfulness.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of strife or division in this home. Let Your peace reign, and let every decision be made with wisdom and unity. If there has been any neglect of their own household, convict them and show them how to restore balance. Let their generosity flow from a heart that is first submitted to You, not out of guilt or obligation, but out of love and trust in Your provision.
Finally, Father, if this person does not know You as their Savior, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for them. Open their eyes to see their need for Christ, and draw them to Yourself. Let them understand that it is only through Jesus that we have access to You, and it is only in His name that we can find true peace, healing, and provision.
We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Let Your will be done, and let Your kingdom come in this situation. Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord diligently in this season. Spend time in His Word, especially in the books of Proverbs for wisdom, and in the Gospels to know Christ more deeply. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can speak truth and love into your life. If you are in a relationship that is not honoring to God, we urge you to seek counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can guide you biblically.
Remember, the Lord is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). He sees your struggles, and He is faithful to lead you if you will trust Him. Do not lean on your own understanding, but in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6). May the Lord bless you and keep you as you seek His face.