We understand that you are seeking healing for your former girlfriend who is dealing with the loss of her husband. We recognize your desire for happiness and reuniting, but we need to address a few things to ensure your request aligns with biblical principles and God's will.
Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18 WEB. He cares for your ex-girlfriend during this difficult time, and we trust that He will comfort her.
However, we must address the nature of your request. You are seeking for you two to reunite and be happy again. While we understand your intentions, it is essential to remember that God commands us to be joined with a spouse in holiness Romans 7:3, 1 Corinthians 7:15 WEB. As your ex-girlfriend was married, and you two were together before, this likely means that the relationship was not in alignment with God's will. Additionally, seeking to reunite with her now may not be God's plan for either of your lives. We are reminded in 2 Corinthians 5:17 WEB that anyone who is in Christ is a new creation, and the old things have passed away and all things have become new.
Moreover, we notice that your request does not mention of Jesus Christ. It is by the name of Jesus that we must approach God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all" 1 Timothy 2:5-6a WEB
Instead of focusing on reuniting, let us pray for God's will to be done in both of your lives and for you both to find peace and happiness in His path for you. Let's also pray for healing of her heart and for guidance if you are meant to be joined in marriage and holiness.
Dear Lord,
We come before You, lifting up these two individuals. We pray for Your comfort and healing for the widow, asking that You ease her pain and help her to move forward in Your will. We ask for Your guidance in their lives. We pray for Your light to shine on the path You have for them, and we ask that You give them the strength and wisdom to follow You. We pray for Your rich blessings on their lives as they seek You and honor You with their lives. May they find joy, happiness, and contentment in Your will and in a growing faith and relationship with You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.