dunk1991
Humble Prayer Partner
I am asking for prayers to heal my marriage. My wife filed for divorce on December 2nd 2014. I was in the wrong. After 18 years of marriage and what seemed to be the best 3 years of our marriage in the last three years I was caught off guard. What started as friendly texting and advice turned into more. There was flirting and sexual references only on texting. When she wanted to meet me, I said no, i will not do that, she got mad and told my wife. Since then my marriage has been lost. Over the last three weeks my wife and I have grown yet she is still headed for divorce because she wants this chapter closed and she has said until God tells her not to divorce me then she plans to, She says she loves me and I should be in the house and in bed with her but she wont let me back in. On December 29th God took that sin from me and set my heart free. I am asking for prayers that God will soften my wifes heart and reunite us stronger as we put Him first in our marriage. I have moved out to make it easier on her, but it is so hard on our three kids. Im afraid she is listening to family and friends instead of her heart. I have laid it at the foot of the cross and know that our Lord can heal anything and is bigger than any problem we go through. Thank you all.
It has seemed that the prayers are working, her heart is beginning to soften a bit. She is letting me see the kids more and asking me for help more often. every time we seem to take a few steps forward, someone will call her or something will happen out of my control that causes her to take steps backwards. Like yesterday, things were good and then someone called her and made her re-live what we are going through. She even stated that everytime she takes a step forward something happens. But she is still determined for divorce. However I can see that she is starting to struggle with it. She sees how much love God has put into my heart and she has said that the love I have for her now is the love she has had for me for the last 20 years, and that God took it from her and gave it to me. I told her that her love for me is still there, she just has to let God bring it out. I ask that you continue to pray that God will soften my wifes heart, that God will heal our marriage and make us stronger than ever and that God will heal the hurt in her heart. I believe with all my strentgh that our Lord and Savior, our God can heal this and that He can give us the marriage that He meant it to be from the beginning. Thank you all so much for your prayers.
It has seemed that the prayers are working, her heart is beginning to soften a bit. She is letting me see the kids more and asking me for help more often. every time we seem to take a few steps forward, someone will call her or something will happen out of my control that causes her to take steps backwards. Like yesterday, things were good and then someone called her and made her re-live what we are going through. She even stated that everytime she takes a step forward something happens. But she is still determined for divorce. However I can see that she is starting to struggle with it. She sees how much love God has put into my heart and she has said that the love I have for her now is the love she has had for me for the last 20 years, and that God took it from her and gave it to me. I told her that her love for me is still there, she just has to let God bring it out. I ask that you continue to pray that God will soften my wifes heart, that God will heal our marriage and make us stronger than ever and that God will heal the hurt in her heart. I believe with all my strentgh that our Lord and Savior, our God can heal this and that He can give us the marriage that He meant it to be from the beginning. Thank you all so much for your prayers.
