Headed for Divorce

[Unregistered]

My wife has filed for divorce against me. We have been married 8 1/2 years and been together 13. It seems like over night she decided she did not like the way I did certain things. I was too head strong, too driven, too list and schedule orientated. She decided she no longer wanted to have the baby we were trying to have and no longer wanted to buy the new house we had put a contract on. She began seeing friends more often and avoiding me more. She claimed she didn't need me and wanted independence. She started seeing a guy friend and would leave at 2 in the afternoon and not return until 5am. I did not handle the stress well. I got mad and yelled, closed off hurt, invaded privacy by listening to cell phone messages and email, looked for car, and even conducted a fidelity kit. I love her and would do anything for her. I only did those things to get answers to help me fix my marriage. She refused to work on things or even go to counseling. I went on my own and even got on anti-depressants. I was flexible to try anything from separation to going away together on vacation or even starting all over dating. She just wanted to run away. She said she could never trust me again or love me the same after I invaded her privacy. My wife is stubborn, but I pray God comes into her heart and reminds her of the committment we made to marriage and the love we had for each other. I pray God brings her home to me and helps give me the strength to help get us back on course.

 

[K-J]

Asking God for His presence in your situation. May His plan be accomplished and His leading be with you. Asking His blessings upon you this day.

 

[kjferg86]

Our Father, I ask for help in this marraige. God I know that so many men and women are suffering from adulterous spouses; from prodigal spouses. I ask that you move in the heart of his wife. Please remind her of the time she loved him the most. Bring her back to God. Please restore her desire for her husband. Give this husband strength. Let him seach the WORD for answers and love from You. I know You love him more than he knows. Keep him in Your care and grace. I thank You in advance, God.

 

[Matthew 1]

Lord Jesus I lift up this union to you and ask for divine intercession. Go to rejoiceministries.org and stand in line with us for healing of our marriages. God is good and he will restore the years and our marriages to even better than they were before Praise God.

 

[Dion]

lord i prayer for this marriage that you may restore this marriage. and bring love ,understanding to this couple.....in jesus name amen

 

[Patrick]

Dear Heavenly Father I come before You in the name of Jesus Your Son and I ask that You remove all the strongholds and all the imaginations that exalt themselves against the knowledge of Jesus Christ and I ask that You touch this mans wife and see that this marriage is worth restoring and that the other man would be removed from the picture and help her to forgive her husband for invading her privacy. His motives where sincere. Yet she hold a root of bitterness towards him and I ask that In Your name that this stronghold of bitterness be removed and that she can see beyond her hurts and see Jesus in the midst of this and I ask that if She does not know You Jesus that She would come to salvation in Jesus Christ. IN YOUR NAME AMEN

 

[HOPE]

Praying with you for the restoration of your marriage