had to say goodbye and let her go today...

[mattosan]

my wife has decided it's time to move on and she is done with our marriage. She has made it perfectly clear she will be dating soon, starting now. There was no fight, just a lot of tears, and she says she's off on her journey to find happiness. She isn't happy in life, so it is time to let go of the old and in with the new. I have been discarded like an old shoe. I am hurt beyond hurt. I have never felt this low in my life. She has kicked me to the curb and God as well, and it's off to party time. I thought God was healing this, and maybe He still is. Maybe she has to go through this journey to find out that her happiness isn't going to be wrapped up and waiting for her on the other side of the fence. My heart is broken, and I question that God has really been leading me to stand for our marriage. With the things I thought He was showing me, I guess I read Him wrong. I think I might be holding on to hope for fear of facing reality. I told her I love her and will miss her and will hold out as long as I can stand it to "stand," and I think God is still leading me to stand, but I'm not sure. I'm so hurt and so confused, but standing is all I know. I can't just walk, and it would take someone like my wife to make me change my mind. And there is only one like her, so I am stuck in this eternal state of grief. It's been 10 long, hurtful months since this began, and the gut ache every day has taken its toll on me and her and my kids. I'm stuck and can't go forwards and can't go back either. I love my wife and kids beyond anything in this world. God, if You will, please don't let me continue to stand if it is not Your plan. Lord, I'm so hurt and so confused. One minute I think I'm doing the right thing, and the next minute I'm not sure. Lord, please hit me with a brick if needed, but show me what YOU really want and make it so plain I can't miss it. Lord, I need peace to rule my heart, and I have no peace in giving up. How do I explain mom's new beau to my kids? They will be crushed. Lord, please intervene. Please, God, I beg of you, please, in Jesus' name.

 

[danielpaulcarey]

Dear Lord, all I can say is I pray you are with ### every second of everyday. Jesus, he is going to need your strength now, more than ever but I know you never allow something to happen to one of your children without a purpose. So even though we don't know what it is now, we trust in you to show ### in time, what can come out of this. We trust in you Jesus, I pray thy will be done. Lord, just sustain ### during this time of trials and tribulations and show him the way out of the valley he is going through. Thank you Lord, I love you Jesus. Amen.

 

[Heidi]

Heavenly father, I place ### at your feet tonight. Father, he is crushed, he's at his lowest point. Please intervene in this situation. I pray that you ease ###'s pain. Comfort him in your loving arms. Please heavenly father, tell ### loud and clear what he needs to do. Show him his path. Please show ### mercy at this time. His heart is broken, he's here Lord, he's here for you. He's praying with all his heart. Open IN his heart, and speak to ###, let him know what he needs to do. Please do not allow the enemy to trick him into standing, or letting his wife go. Let it clearly only come from you. Show him, and direct him on the path he needs to follow. Heavenly father, please listen to my prayer for ###. In Jesus Name, amen.

 

[SinglemomV]

Dear Lord, I lift ### up to you.
Dear Lord, I pray you fully restore ###'s faith in you.
Dear Lord, he is broken and is hurting for his wife. Lord, this is something ### doesn't understand or deserve. I know you have his plan and you have his path for him. I know sometimes we have to go through these times, to really understand what your will is.
Dear Lord, we are only human, and ###'s heart is full of doubt, and Lord, you have the way carved for him. Please show him YOUR vision. Help ###, to protect his children, and to mend his broken heart. Cast and Remove all Doubts in his mind. Remove all depression, from him. Teach him Lord, to love himself, live for you, live for his children, and all Your Desires will show him the way. I pray you soften his wife's heart, I pray that you come to her in her dreams to make her realize what she is doing. In Jesus Name Amen.

 

[Harold]

Father, I join with these in prayer for this man and his walk with You. I pray for him to hear Your voice, Your instructions to Him as to what he is to do. This is such a lonely time for him, a time that he is looking for You to help him through. Father, I ask that he would know without a doubt what he needs to do, where we need to focus our prayers, and what we need to be asking and standing for. Lord, wrap him in the palm of Your hand, lift him to You, let him feel Your presence like never before. My mother had the prayer of serenity hanging on the wall of the houses where we would live. I would like to pray this prayer for him. God, give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, to change the things I cannot stand, and the wisdom to know the difference. It is for this wisdom and the strength and faith to carry it out that I pray for. I praise You Lord for supplying them for us. In Jesus' name, Amen.

 

[Jesustheloveofmylife]

Matt whatever happens in life God loves you so very much and you will never be an old shoe. You are a precious Child of God. He made you exactly to his liking and you are so very special because of that. Our God will be fighting this battle with you never doubt that. I am praying for you brother. I have myself been in your situation and we get through these things with the love of God and we come out the other side stronger than ever. My dear Lord please hear these prayers for ###. He needs you now. This is such a difficult situation he is in. Dear Lord lift the pain he is feeling and bring him comfort just now. Give him reassurance that you are there Lord right by his side holding him up and helping him. Lord please, please keep your hand on this marriage and bring about the turn around that is needed. Touch the heart of ###'s wife and make everything right. Give ### the strength to be patient all throughout. Lord please pour down your love and blessings on ### and bring him peace in his heart. Lord I ask also that you will show mercy on ###'s wife and fill her heart with your love so as she knows the truth, that she will repent and turn to face you and return to her marriage with ###. I ask all this in the name of Jesus Christ, amen

 

[llewis34x]

Lord be with ###, this dear soul. His heart is breaking, Lord but you can heal it. Lord I have felt this same grief and you know that we look to you when we cannot stand the pain. Lord take ###'s pain away. Give him a strength to stand if it is your will. Be with his family, the children, and his wife. Bless them with your light, show them the way, and let ### feel all of our prayers going up for him each day.

Amen

 

[kristi]

Dear Father, our hearts are breaking with ###. God he has been through so much hurt. Father rescue him from his confusion and give him clear direction and faith and encouragement to do your will. God bless our brother, we lift him up to you for restoration and renewal. God hold ### in your tender care and comfort him. In Jesus mighty name.