We grieve with you over the deep betrayal and spiritual warfare you are facing in your home. The sins you describe—homosexuality, deception, and the corruption of children—are grievous in the sight of God, and we stand with you in rebuking these abominations in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. The Word of God is clear: *"You shall not lie with a man as with a woman. It is an abomination"* (Leviticus 18:22, WEB). *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). This is not a matter of preference or identity—it is rebellion against God’s design, and it must be confronted with truth, prayer, and righteous action.
Your husband and brother are ensnared by the enemy, and their influence over your children is a direct attack on their souls. Jesus warned, *"But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for him if a huge millstone were hung around his neck and that he were sunk in the depths of the sea"* (Matthew 18:6, WEB). This is not a time for passivity or fear—this is a time for spiritual warfare, bold prayer, and decisive action to protect your children and reclaim your household for Christ.
First, we urge you to separate your children from this ungodly influence immediately. If your husband and brother are actively promoting or engaging in homosexuality—especially with minors—this is not only sin but potentially criminal. You must act to shield your children, even if it means removing them from the home or seeking legal protection. *"Rescue those who are being led away to death! Indeed, hold back those who are staggering to the slaughter!"* (Proverbs 24:11, WEB). The safety and spiritual well-being of your children must be your top priority.
Next, you must confront your husband and brother with the truth of God’s Word. This is not a time for soft words or compromise. Speak the truth in love, but speak it boldly: *"Have nothing to do with the fruitless works of darkness, but rather expose them"* (Ephesians 5:11, WEB). Call them to repentance, and make it clear that their actions are destroying your family and inviting God’s judgment. If they refuse to repent, you must take further steps—including involving your church leadership, as Scripture commands: *"If your brother sins against you, go and reprove him in private. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn’t listen, take one or two more with you, that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly"* (Matthew 18:15-17, WEB).
We also urge you to examine your own heart and home. Have there been compromises with worldly values, ungodly media, or a lack of spiritual leadership that allowed this stronghold to take root? *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If your husband is unrepentant, you must prayerfully consider the biblical grounds for separation or divorce, as his actions constitute sexual immorality (Matthew 19:9). This is not a decision to make lightly, but neither can you remain in a marriage where your husband is leading your children into sin.
Now, let us pray with you for breakthrough, deliverance, and the exposure of every hidden work of darkness:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, with broken hearts over the abominations that have invaded this sister’s home. Lord, You hate sin, and You love the sinner—so we ask for Your mercy to fall upon her husband and brother. Convict them deeply of their rebellion, Lord. Break their hearts over their sin, and grant them godly sorrow that leads to repentance. Expose every hidden deed, every lie, and every plan of the enemy to corrupt these children. We bind the spirits of homosexuality, deception, and perversion in Jesus’ name, and we command them to flee from this household!
Father, we ask for supernatural protection over these children. Shield their minds, hearts, and bodies from every ungodly influence. Give this mother the wisdom of Solomon, the courage of Esther, and the discernment of the Holy Spirit to act swiftly and decisively. If she must remove her children from this environment, provide the way, the means, and the support. Raise up godly men and women to stand with her, Lord—pastors, elders, and believers who will not shrink back from confronting this evil.
We pray for a mighty breakthrough, Father. Tear down every stronghold of the enemy in this family. Restore what has been stolen, heal what has been broken, and redeem what has been defiled. If this marriage can be saved through repentance, let it be so—but if her husband remains hardened, give her the strength to walk in obedience to You, even if it means walking alone for a season.
We declare that no weapon formed against this family will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The blood of Jesus covers them, and the power of the Holy Spirit will drive out every demonic influence. We ask for a mighty move of Your Spirit—salvation for the lost, deliverance for the oppressed, and restoration for the broken. Let Your will be done, Lord, and let Your name be glorified in this battle.
In the mighty and victorious name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen."*
Sister, you are not alone in this fight. The body of Christ stands with you, and the Lord Himself is your defender. Stay in constant prayer, immerse yourself in the Word, and seek godly counsel without delay. The enemy has overplayed his hand, and now is the time for the Church to rise up and reclaim this ground for the Kingdom. Do not grow weary—*"Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up"* (Galatians 6:9, WEB). The Lord is faithful, and He will bring justice, healing, and victory. Stay strong in Him.