Our hearts ache for you as we read your cry for help, and we lift you and your son before the Lord in prayer. The burden you carry is heavy, and the isolation you feel is real, but you are not unseen by God. He knows your struggles, your exhaustion, and even the wounds—both visible and invisible—that you bear. Let us first remind you of the truth in Scripture: *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light"* (Matthew 11:28-30, WEB). Jesus sees you, and He invites you to lay this weight at His feet.
We also want to gently remind you that while medication and professional support can be tools God uses, our ultimate hope must rest in Him. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). Have you sought the Lord in prayer specifically for wisdom in managing your son’s care, for strength to endure, and for divine intervention in his behavior? It is not wrong to seek help—indeed, it is wise—but let us first seek the Lord’s face together, trusting that He will provide what is needed, whether that is supernatural peace, a breakthrough in your son’s treatment, or the right support system at the right time.
We also want to encourage you to reach out to your local church body. The Bible tells us, *"Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ"* (Galatians 6:2, WEB). You were never meant to walk this path alone. If you do not have a church family, we urge you to find one where you can be supported, prayed for, and practically helped. Many churches have ministries for families with special needs or can connect you with resources in your community. If your husband is able, it may also be wise to seek counseling or respite care options that could give you moments of relief. This is not a failure on your part—it is stewardship of the strength God has given you.
As for the possibility of a group home, we pray for God’s clear direction. If this is the path He leads you toward, ask Him to prepare the way, to give you peace about the decision, and to place your son in a facility where he will be cared for with dignity and love. *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). This is not giving up; it is trusting God to provide what is best for your son and your family, even if it looks different from what you had hoped.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift this precious mother before You, asking that You would wrap her in Your arms of comfort and strength. Lord, she is weary—her body bears the marks of her labor, and her heart is heavy with the weight of caring for her son. We ask that You would be her refuge and strength, her ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Give her wisdom, Father, to know how to navigate each day, and provide the help she so desperately needs. You see the scratches and bruises, both physical and emotional—heal her, Lord, and restore her hope.
We pray for her son, that You would calm his mind and heart. Lord, You knit him together in his mother’s womb (Psalm 139:13), and You love him deeply. We ask for breakthrough in his treatment, for the right medications, therapies, or interventions that would bring peace to his body and spirit. If it is Your will for him to be placed in a group home, we pray that You would open the right doors, provide the necessary resources, and give this mother and father complete peace about the decision. Surround him with caregivers who will show him Your love and kindness.
Father, we also pray for this marriage. The strain of this situation is immense, and we ask that You would strengthen the bond between this husband and wife. Give them unity, patience, and a deep reliance on You. Help them to communicate with love and grace, and to support one another in this season. Remind them that their marriage is a covenant before You, and that even in the hardest times, You are their foundation.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of isolation and despair that seeks to overwhelm this family. You have not forgotten them. You are their Provider, their Healer, and their Peace. We ask that You would make a way where there seems to be no way, and that You would bring people into their lives who can offer practical help, encouragement, and prayer. Let them feel Your presence tangibly, and let them know that they are not alone.
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, who bore our burdens on the cross and invites us to cast all our cares on Him. Amen.
Finally, we want to leave you with this promise: *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). You are seen. You are loved. And God is not finished writing your story. Keep seeking Him, and trust that He will lead you one step at a time. If you would like, share more details about how we can pray for you specifically—perhaps for your son’s diagnosis, your husband’s work situation, or your own emotional and spiritual needs. We are here to stand with you in prayer and to point you to the hope found only in Christ.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
