One of my sisters passed away a year or so ago. There is someone in my life who was also close to her who, since that time, seemingly rolls their eyes in annoyance every single time I (I can't remember right now if they do it to anyone else) mention my sister in conversation. This has gone on for a while. While I understand that this person is grieving, them rolling their eyes when I mention my sister is a bit difficult to deal with. I am allowed to talk about my sister and, if anything, it helps me to do so. Them doing this has been hard to deal with. Please pray for me about this. I believe they stopped doing this for a while (and maybe they were only doing it in the first place due to spiritual warfare that was attacking me through them) but I believe they've started doing it again. Thank you.
Grief
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Praying for this request in Jesus Name.
We lift you up before the Lord in this time of lingering grief and relational strain. The loss of your sister is a deep wound, and it is right and natural that you would still speak of her, for she was part of your life and your heart. Grief does not follow a timeline, and your need to remember her is not something to be dismissed or mocked, even in subtle ways. We stand with you in the truth that your sister’s memory is precious, and your love for her is honorable before God.
The behavior you describe—eye-rolling in response to your mentions of your sister—is not only hurtful but reveals a lack of compassion and patience. While it is true that grief affects people differently, and this person may also be struggling, their response is not one of love or understanding. Scripture tells us, *"Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ"* (Galatians 6:2 WEB). This person is failing to bear with you in your grief, and their actions, whether intentional or not, are causing you additional pain. We rebuke any spirit of division, hardness of heart, or spiritual warfare that may be influencing this situation. The enemy seeks to isolate and discourage, but we declare that you are not alone, and your grief is not a burden to be silenced.
We also encourage you to examine whether there may be an opportunity for gentle but honest communication with this person. Proverbs 27:5-6 (WEB) says, *"Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Faithful are the wounds of a friend; although the kisses of an enemy are profuse."* If this person is someone you trust and value, it may be worth sharing how their actions have affected you. Speak in love, but do not shrink back from expressing your hurt. If they are truly grieving as well, this could be a chance for mutual healing and understanding. However, if they continue in this behavior without repentance, you may need to set boundaries to protect your heart.
Above all, we pray that God would comfort you and fill the void left by your sister’s absence. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and He collects every tear (Psalm 34:18, Psalm 56:8 WEB). Your sister’s life mattered, and your love for her is a testament to that. Do not let anyone, even someone who shared a bond with her, silence your memories or make you feel ashamed for honoring her.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who is still walking through the valley of grief. Lord, You are the God of all comfort, and we ask that You would wrap Your arms around them in this season. Heal the places in their heart that still ache from the loss of their sister, and remind them daily that her life was a gift from You, one that they are allowed to cherish and speak of.
We ask for wisdom and grace in dealing with the person who has responded to their grief with impatience or annoyance. Soften their heart, Lord, and help them to see the pain they have caused. If there is spiritual warfare at work, we rebuke it in the name of Jesus and declare that no weapon formed against our brother/sister will prosper (Isaiah 54:17 WEB). Restore unity and understanding where there has been division.
Father, we also pray for our brother/sister’s strength. Help them not to grow weary in doing what is right, even when others do not understand. Remind them that their love for their sister is beautiful in Your sight, and that You hear every word they speak about her. Surround them with people who will listen, mourn with them, and honor her memory alongside them.
We thank You, Lord, that You are a God who sees, hears, and heals. We trust You to work in this situation for good, and we ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
The behavior you describe—eye-rolling in response to your mentions of your sister—is not only hurtful but reveals a lack of compassion and patience. While it is true that grief affects people differently, and this person may also be struggling, their response is not one of love or understanding. Scripture tells us, *"Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ"* (Galatians 6:2 WEB). This person is failing to bear with you in your grief, and their actions, whether intentional or not, are causing you additional pain. We rebuke any spirit of division, hardness of heart, or spiritual warfare that may be influencing this situation. The enemy seeks to isolate and discourage, but we declare that you are not alone, and your grief is not a burden to be silenced.
We also encourage you to examine whether there may be an opportunity for gentle but honest communication with this person. Proverbs 27:5-6 (WEB) says, *"Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Faithful are the wounds of a friend; although the kisses of an enemy are profuse."* If this person is someone you trust and value, it may be worth sharing how their actions have affected you. Speak in love, but do not shrink back from expressing your hurt. If they are truly grieving as well, this could be a chance for mutual healing and understanding. However, if they continue in this behavior without repentance, you may need to set boundaries to protect your heart.
Above all, we pray that God would comfort you and fill the void left by your sister’s absence. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and He collects every tear (Psalm 34:18, Psalm 56:8 WEB). Your sister’s life mattered, and your love for her is a testament to that. Do not let anyone, even someone who shared a bond with her, silence your memories or make you feel ashamed for honoring her.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who is still walking through the valley of grief. Lord, You are the God of all comfort, and we ask that You would wrap Your arms around them in this season. Heal the places in their heart that still ache from the loss of their sister, and remind them daily that her life was a gift from You, one that they are allowed to cherish and speak of.
We ask for wisdom and grace in dealing with the person who has responded to their grief with impatience or annoyance. Soften their heart, Lord, and help them to see the pain they have caused. If there is spiritual warfare at work, we rebuke it in the name of Jesus and declare that no weapon formed against our brother/sister will prosper (Isaiah 54:17 WEB). Restore unity and understanding where there has been division.
Father, we also pray for our brother/sister’s strength. Help them not to grow weary in doing what is right, even when others do not understand. Remind them that their love for their sister is beautiful in Your sight, and that You hear every word they speak about her. Surround them with people who will listen, mourn with them, and honor her memory alongside them.
We thank You, Lord, that You are a God who sees, hears, and heals. We trust You to work in this situation for good, and we ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
We're here with you, dear friend, as you navigate through this tough time. We understand that grief has its own rhythm, and it's okay that you still want to talk about your sister. It's a way to keep her memory alive and honor the love you shared.
We've all been there, haven't we? When someone we love is no longer with us, it's natural to want to reminisce, to share stories, to keep their memory present. It's like a part of us is missing, and talking about them helps fill that void, even if it's just a little.
Now, about this person who seems to roll their eyes whenever you mention your sister... It's tough, we know. Grief affects people differently, and maybe they're struggling too. But that doesn't give them the right to dismiss your feelings or make you feel bad for remembering your sister.
Let's remember what the Bible tells us in Romans 12:15, "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn." We're called to empathize, to share in each other's burdens. It's hard when someone we care about doesn't seem to understand or care about our pain.
We're praying for you, dear friend. We're asking God to comfort you, to heal the places in your heart that still ache. We're also praying for that person, that they might have a change of heart, that they might understand the pain they're causing.
And remember, it's okay to talk about your sister. It's okay to miss her. It's okay to grieve. And anyone who can't understand that, well, they're missing out on the beauty of the love you shared. Keep her memory alive, dear friend. She's worth it.
We've all been there, haven't we? When someone we love is no longer with us, it's natural to want to reminisce, to share stories, to keep their memory present. It's like a part of us is missing, and talking about them helps fill that void, even if it's just a little.
Now, about this person who seems to roll their eyes whenever you mention your sister... It's tough, we know. Grief affects people differently, and maybe they're struggling too. But that doesn't give them the right to dismiss your feelings or make you feel bad for remembering your sister.
Let's remember what the Bible tells us in Romans 12:15, "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn." We're called to empathize, to share in each other's burdens. It's hard when someone we care about doesn't seem to understand or care about our pain.
We're praying for you, dear friend. We're asking God to comfort you, to heal the places in your heart that still ache. We're also praying for that person, that they might have a change of heart, that they might understand the pain they're causing.
And remember, it's okay to talk about your sister. It's okay to miss her. It's okay to grieve. And anyone who can't understand that, well, they're missing out on the beauty of the love you shared. Keep her memory alive, dear friend. She's worth it.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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