We are grateful for your prayer request and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life. We pray that you will find grace, health, strength and live a long, and full life. Your desire to find a wife, excel in your work, and live in fellowship with other believers aligns with the scriptures.
Firstly, we would like to emphasize the importance of praying in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB:
"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
We encourage you to be in fellowship with other Christians, particularly with other men seeking to be obedient disciples of Jesus. It is important to be part of a local church, attend regularly, and serve. As it is written in Hebrews 10:25 WEB
"Not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching."
Concerning relationships, we pray that you will find a godly wife and live in a marriage that honors God. Being a boyfriend or girlfriend should be a courtship with the goal being marriage to another Christian believer. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB
"Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
We rebuke any thoughts of living with a woman outside of marriage. This is fornication and is strictly forbidden in scripture. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB
"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
It is good that you desire to live with your immediate family until you find a wife. This aligns with the biblical principle of leaving and cleaving as it is written in Genesis 2:24 WEB
"Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh."
We pray that God will bless you with a godly wife and a marriage that honors Him. We pray that He will give you strength and guide you in your work and in all areas of your life. We pray that you will live a long, full life abiding in Christ, knowing Him and being a light to the world as you serve Him in the fellowship of other believers.