Please pray for me that I would not engage in any kind of gossip. People often trust me with very personal things and, other than telling people about these things for the purpose of them praying for those who have trusted me with these secrets, I do not want to be someone who tells other people's business. I want to be someone worthy of being trusted.
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We lift you up in prayer, dear sister, for your heart’s desire to honor God by being a trustworthy vessel, one who guards the confidences shared with you as sacred. The Lord sees your sincerity, and we rejoice that you recognize the weight of this responsibility. Gossip is a destructive force that the Scriptures warn against strongly, for it sows discord, betrays trust, and dishonors the Lord. Proverbs 11:13 tells us, *"A gossip goes around telling secrets, but those who are trustworthy can keep a confidence."* And again in Proverbs 16:28, we read, *"A perverse man stirs up dissension, and a gossip separates close friends."* Your desire to avoid this sin is pleasing to God, and we pray He strengthens you in this commitment.
Yet we must also acknowledge that even the most well-intentioned among us can stumble. James 3:5-6 warns, *"So the tongue is also a little member, and boasts great things. See how a small fire can spread to a large forest! And the tongue is a fire."* It is not enough to simply *want* to avoid gossip; we must actively guard our hearts and tongues, submitting them daily to the Holy Spirit’s control. This means being mindful not only of what we say but also of how we listen—sometimes gossip begins when we lend an ear to ungodly conversation. Proverbs 17:4 reminds us, *"An evildoer listens to wicked lips. A liar gives ear to a mischievous tongue."*
We encourage you to set boundaries in conversations where others may try to draw you into gossip. If someone begins sharing information that feels inappropriate or unedifying, gently redirect the conversation or excuse yourself. Colossians 4:6 instructs us, *"Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one."* And if you ever find yourself slipping, repent quickly and ask the Lord to purify your heart. 1 John 1:9 assures us, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."*
Let us also remember that prayer is a holy exception to confidentiality. When someone shares a burden with you for the purpose of prayer, you are not gossiping by bringing it before the Lord with trusted believers who will intercede. In fact, this is an act of love and obedience. However, even in prayer, we must be discerning—sharing only what is necessary and never in a way that dishonors the person or fuels unnecessary curiosity.
Heavenly Father, we thank You for this sister’s heart to honor You by being trustworthy and discreet. Lord, we ask that You guard her tongue and her heart, that she would be slow to speak and quick to listen, always seeking to build others up rather than tear them down. Fill her with Your Spirit, that her words may be seasoned with grace and truth. When she is tempted to engage in gossip—whether by speaking or listening—convict her quickly and give her the strength to walk away. Help her to be a woman of integrity, one who reflects Your love and faithfulness in all she does. May her life be a testimony of Your goodness, and may others see Christ in her. We pray this in the mighty name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior, who alone gives us the power to overcome sin and walk in righteousness. Amen.
Stand firm in this, dear sister. The enemy would love to trip you up in this area, but the Lord is your strength. Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and He will keep you from falling. *"The Lord will keep you from all evil. He will preserve your soul. The Lord will preserve your going out and your coming in, from this time forward, and forevermore."* (Psalm 121:7-8) Walk in His victory!
Yet we must also acknowledge that even the most well-intentioned among us can stumble. James 3:5-6 warns, *"So the tongue is also a little member, and boasts great things. See how a small fire can spread to a large forest! And the tongue is a fire."* It is not enough to simply *want* to avoid gossip; we must actively guard our hearts and tongues, submitting them daily to the Holy Spirit’s control. This means being mindful not only of what we say but also of how we listen—sometimes gossip begins when we lend an ear to ungodly conversation. Proverbs 17:4 reminds us, *"An evildoer listens to wicked lips. A liar gives ear to a mischievous tongue."*
We encourage you to set boundaries in conversations where others may try to draw you into gossip. If someone begins sharing information that feels inappropriate or unedifying, gently redirect the conversation or excuse yourself. Colossians 4:6 instructs us, *"Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one."* And if you ever find yourself slipping, repent quickly and ask the Lord to purify your heart. 1 John 1:9 assures us, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."*
Let us also remember that prayer is a holy exception to confidentiality. When someone shares a burden with you for the purpose of prayer, you are not gossiping by bringing it before the Lord with trusted believers who will intercede. In fact, this is an act of love and obedience. However, even in prayer, we must be discerning—sharing only what is necessary and never in a way that dishonors the person or fuels unnecessary curiosity.
Heavenly Father, we thank You for this sister’s heart to honor You by being trustworthy and discreet. Lord, we ask that You guard her tongue and her heart, that she would be slow to speak and quick to listen, always seeking to build others up rather than tear them down. Fill her with Your Spirit, that her words may be seasoned with grace and truth. When she is tempted to engage in gossip—whether by speaking or listening—convict her quickly and give her the strength to walk away. Help her to be a woman of integrity, one who reflects Your love and faithfulness in all she does. May her life be a testimony of Your goodness, and may others see Christ in her. We pray this in the mighty name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior, who alone gives us the power to overcome sin and walk in righteousness. Amen.
Stand firm in this, dear sister. The enemy would love to trip you up in this area, but the Lord is your strength. Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and He will keep you from falling. *"The Lord will keep you from all evil. He will preserve your soul. The Lord will preserve your going out and your coming in, from this time forward, and forevermore."* (Psalm 121:7-8) Walk in His victory!
We're right there with you, sister. We know it's tough when people trust you with their secrets, and it's easy to slip into gossip without even realizing it. But remember, we're not alone in this. The Holy Spirit lives in us and wants to help us every step of the way.
Let's commit to being mindful of our words and actions. Let's ask God to help us be quick to listen and slow to speak, always seeking to build others up, not tear them down. And when we slip up, let's not beat ourselves up. Instead, let's repent, ask for forgiveness, and keep moving forward.
And hey, let's not forget to pray for each other too. When someone shares a burden with us, let's lift them up in prayer, but always with discretion and respect. Let's use our words to heal, not harm.
So, let's stand firm together, sister. The enemy might try to trip us up, but with God on our side, we can't lose. Let's keep our eyes fixed on Jesus, and He'll keep us from falling. We're in this together, and we're praying for you.
Let's commit to being mindful of our words and actions. Let's ask God to help us be quick to listen and slow to speak, always seeking to build others up, not tear them down. And when we slip up, let's not beat ourselves up. Instead, let's repent, ask for forgiveness, and keep moving forward.
And hey, let's not forget to pray for each other too. When someone shares a burden with us, let's lift them up in prayer, but always with discretion and respect. Let's use our words to heal, not harm.
So, let's stand firm together, sister. The enemy might try to trip us up, but with God on our side, we can't lose. Let's keep our eyes fixed on Jesus, and He'll keep us from falling. We're in this together, and we're praying for you.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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