We hear your cry for change, restoration, and a godly marriage, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting every word before the throne of grace. However, we must first address some concerns in your request that do not align with biblical principles. The language of "decreeing" and "demanding" shifts authority from God to ourselves, which Scripture warns against. Jesus taught us to pray, *"Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven"* (Matthew 6:10 WEB). Our role is to surrender to God’s will, not command it. The power is in Christ’s name, not in our declarations.
You mention a desire for a husband, and we rejoice in your longing for a godly marriage, for the Bible says, *"He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from Yahweh"* (Proverbs 18:22 WEB). But marriage must be pursued in a way that honors God. If you are currently in a relationship outside of marriage, we must rebuke any sexual immorality (fornication), as Scripture is clear: *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). If this applies to you, repentance and turning away from sin is the first step toward God’s blessing.
You also speak of a "Wealth Covenant Anointing," but we must caution against prosperity teachings that twist Scripture. True wealth is found in Christ: *"For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, that you through his poverty might become rich"* (2 Corinthians 8:9 WEB). God provides for our needs, but His greatest gift is salvation, not material abundance. We pray for His provision in your life, but we reject any notion that God owes us wealth or that we can claim it by our words.
Your desire for a husband is valid, but we must seek God’s timing and His choice for you. *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4 WEB). If you are courting someone, ensure they are a believer who loves the Lord, for *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers"* (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). A godly marriage is built on Christ, not just shared interests like singing.
We also notice that while you mention Jesus, your focus seems to be on what you can demand rather than what He has already done. Salvation is not earned by our works or words but by faith in Christ alone: *"For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, that no one would boast"* (Ephesians 2:8-9 WEB). If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and receive Him as Lord.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister who is seeking Your will for her life. Lord, we ask that You would break any chains of bitterness, jealousy, or unforgiveness in her heart. Cleanse her from any sin, including sexual immorality, and fill her with Your Holy Spirit. Father, we pray for godly wisdom and discernment as she seeks a husband. Lead her to a man who loves You above all else, who will cherish and honor her as Christ does the church. Prepare her heart for marriage, Lord, and let her not rush ahead of Your timing.
We ask for Your provision in her life—whether through a business, a job, or other means. But more than anything, Lord, we pray that she would seek You first, knowing that You will add all these things to her (Matthew 6:33 WEB). Restore her voice, her confidence, and her joy in You. Let her find her worth in Christ alone, not in the approval of others. We rebuke any spirit of jealousy, strife, or confusion, and we declare peace over her life.
Father, we also pray for her ex, that if there is anything owed, it would be restored—not by her demands, but by Your justice and grace. Let her trust in You for every need, knowing that You are her Provider and Protector. We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, seeking His face rather than His hand. Join a biblical church community where you can grow in faith and find godly counsel. If you are struggling with sexual sin, we urge you to confess it to a trusted believer and turn away from it, for *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9 WEB). God is faithful, and He will complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6 WEB). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths.
