Going through an Emotionally Abusive Father

BenKerry2035

Disciple of Prayer
Please pray for me, earlier before I posted this prayer request, my mother started cursing and saying bad things to my mother. This affected me and my brother, my father started cussing us both as well. He continued until today, he keeps saying hurtful things to me calling me stupid, dumb, and no brain. I started feeling like I would break if he keeps doing this. The whole day I did chores, I did everything to make him proud, unfortunately, nothing I did made him proud in the slightest, instead, he keeps pointing out the smallest mistakes I did like taking a computer break. Please pray for me in the name of Jesus Christ because I am really going through a lot. I experience this once or twice a week.
 
We hear your cry for help and lift you up before the throne of grace, where our Heavenly Father sees your pain and collects every tear in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). The emotional abuse you are enduring is not only deeply painful but also contrary to God’s design for family. Scripture commands fathers to nurture their children, not provoke them to anger or discouragement: *"Fathers, don’t provoke your children, so that they won’t be discouraged"* (Colossians 3:21). What you are experiencing is not a reflection of your worth but a failure of godly leadership in your home. We rebuke in Jesus’ name the spirit of verbal abuse, belittlement, and cruelty that has taken root in your household. This is not the heart of God, and it must cease.

We also address the sin of cursing and harsh words spoken by your mother, for Scripture warns, *"There is one who speaks rashly like the piercing of a sword, but the tongue of the wise heals"* (Proverbs 12:18). The words spoken in your home have wounded you deeply, and we pray for a transformation of hearts—beginning with repentance and a turning toward the love and gentleness of Christ. No child of God should endure such treatment, especially from those who are called to reflect His love.

You are not stupid, dumb, or worthless—these are lies from the enemy, meant to destroy your sense of identity in Christ. The Lord says of you, *"Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you. Before you were born, I sanctified you"* (Jeremiah 1:5). You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and your value is not determined by the approval of man but by the blood of Jesus, who died for you while you were yet a sinner (Romans 5:8). The fact that you continue to serve and seek to honor your father, despite his treatment of you, speaks volumes of your character and your desire to walk in obedience to God’s Word. But we must also remind you that your worth is not earned through performance—it is a gift from God.

We pray now for your protection and healing. Father God, we ask that You surround this young one with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Shield their heart from the lies of the enemy and fill them with the truth of Your Word. Give them the strength to endure this trial with grace, knowing that You are their refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1). We pray for conviction in the hearts of their parents, that they would turn from their sin and seek Your forgiveness. Soften their hearts, Lord, and replace their harsh words with kindness, their anger with patience, and their criticism with encouragement. If it is Your will, restore this family to wholeness, but if not, provide a way of escape and a path to healing for this dear one.

We also pray for wisdom and discernment. If there are steps this young believer can take to protect themselves—whether through setting boundaries, seeking godly counsel, or finding safe spaces—we ask that You reveal them clearly. Remind them that they are never alone, for You are with them always (Matthew 28:20). Help them to cast their cares upon You, for You care for them (1 Peter 5:7).

Lastly, we encourage you to cling to Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He understands rejection, betrayal, and abuse, for He endured it all on the cross. He is acquainted with grief and carries your sorrows (Isaiah 53:3-4). Run to Him, for He is your true Father, the One who will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Find solace in His presence, in worship, and in the community of believers who can speak life into your situation.

We stand with you in prayer, declaring that this season of suffering will not define you. Instead, God will use it to refine you, strengthen your faith, and prepare you for the good works He has called you to (Ephesians 2:10). May His love be your anchor, and may you experience His healing touch in every broken place. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
 
Oh dear friend, we're so sorry to hear about the pain you're going through. It's heartbreaking to see a father causing emotional harm instead of nurturing his children. Please know that you are not alone in this. We're here with you, lifting you up before our Heavenly Father who sees your pain and collects every tear in His bottle (Psalm 56:8).

We want you to remember that your worth is not determined by your father's words, but by the love God has for you. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and God knew you even before you were born (Jeremiah 1:5). You are a child of the Most High, and no amount of hurtful words can change that.

We're praying for your protection and healing. We ask God to surround you with His peace, shield your heart from lies, and fill you with the truth of His Word. We also pray for your parents, that they would turn from their sin and seek God's forgiveness. We ask God to soften their hearts and replace their harsh words with kindness, their anger with patience, and their criticism with encouragement.

Remember, you are never alone. God is with you always (Matthew 28:20). Cast your cares upon Him, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). Run to Jesus, your true Father, who understands your pain and carries your sorrows (Isaiah 53:3-4). Find solace in His presence, in worship, and in the community of believers who can speak life into your situation.

We stand with you in prayer, declaring that this season of suffering will not define you. Instead, God will use it to refine you, strengthen your faith, and prepare you for the good works He has called you to (Ephesians 2:10). May His love be your anchor, and may you experience His healing touch in every broken place. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We want to thank you for trusting us with your prayer request and allowing us to stand in agreement with you during this deeply painful time. Our hearts have been heavy as we lifted you, your brother, and even your parents before the Lord, asking Him to bring healing, peace, and restoration to your home. We prayed specifically for God’s protection over your heart—asking that He would guard you from the weight of these hurtful words and fill you with the truth of how He sees you: fearfully and wonderfully made, deeply loved, and full of purpose.

We also prayed for wisdom and strength for you as you navigate these moments, asking the Lord to help you respond in a way that honors Him, even when it feels impossible. It’s clear how hard you’ve tried to please your father, and we asked God to comfort you in the moments when your efforts aren’t acknowledged. We believe He sees your faithfulness and is working in ways you may not yet see.

If the Lord has answered this prayer in any way—whether through a moment of unexpected peace, a word of encouragement, or even just the strength to endure—we would love to hear about it so we can rejoice with you. If the situation remains unchanged, please know we are still here to lift you up. You don’t have to carry this alone, and we would be honored to continue standing with you in prayer.

May God draw near to you in this season, reminding you of His presence and His promise to never leave you. May He fill you with His peace that surpasses all understanding and give you the grace to trust Him even when the path is hard. We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus. Amen.
 

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