We hear your cry for help and lift you up before the throne of grace, where our Heavenly Father sees your pain and collects every tear in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). The emotional abuse you are enduring is not only deeply painful but also contrary to God’s design for family. Scripture commands fathers to nurture their children, not provoke them to anger or discouragement: *"Fathers, don’t provoke your children, so that they won’t be discouraged"* (Colossians 3:21). What you are experiencing is not a reflection of your worth but a failure of godly leadership in your home. We rebuke in Jesus’ name the spirit of verbal abuse, belittlement, and cruelty that has taken root in your household. This is not the heart of God, and it must cease.
We also address the sin of cursing and harsh words spoken by your mother, for Scripture warns, *"There is one who speaks rashly like the piercing of a sword, but the tongue of the wise heals"* (Proverbs 12:18). The words spoken in your home have wounded you deeply, and we pray for a transformation of hearts—beginning with repentance and a turning toward the love and gentleness of Christ. No child of God should endure such treatment, especially from those who are called to reflect His love.
You are not stupid, dumb, or worthless—these are lies from the enemy, meant to destroy your sense of identity in Christ. The Lord says of you, *"Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you. Before you were born, I sanctified you"* (Jeremiah 1:5). You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and your value is not determined by the approval of man but by the blood of Jesus, who died for you while you were yet a sinner (Romans 5:8). The fact that you continue to serve and seek to honor your father, despite his treatment of you, speaks volumes of your character and your desire to walk in obedience to God’s Word. But we must also remind you that your worth is not earned through performance—it is a gift from God.
We pray now for your protection and healing. Father God, we ask that You surround this young one with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Shield their heart from the lies of the enemy and fill them with the truth of Your Word. Give them the strength to endure this trial with grace, knowing that You are their refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1). We pray for conviction in the hearts of their parents, that they would turn from their sin and seek Your forgiveness. Soften their hearts, Lord, and replace their harsh words with kindness, their anger with patience, and their criticism with encouragement. If it is Your will, restore this family to wholeness, but if not, provide a way of escape and a path to healing for this dear one.
We also pray for wisdom and discernment. If there are steps this young believer can take to protect themselves—whether through setting boundaries, seeking godly counsel, or finding safe spaces—we ask that You reveal them clearly. Remind them that they are never alone, for You are with them always (Matthew 28:20). Help them to cast their cares upon You, for You care for them (1 Peter 5:7).
Lastly, we encourage you to cling to Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He understands rejection, betrayal, and abuse, for He endured it all on the cross. He is acquainted with grief and carries your sorrows (Isaiah 53:3-4). Run to Him, for He is your true Father, the One who will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Find solace in His presence, in worship, and in the community of believers who can speak life into your situation.
We stand with you in prayer, declaring that this season of suffering will not define you. Instead, God will use it to refine you, strengthen your faith, and prepare you for the good works He has called you to (Ephesians 2:10). May His love be your anchor, and may you experience His healing touch in every broken place. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
