I'm not one to give advice but I can share my own experience. I have recently ended a relationship. Before it started I knew it wasn't "time" for me to get involved. I was just beginning my journey back to Jesus. Even though I knew it was not right for me I wanted what I wanted when I wanted it so I wasn't fully surrendered yet. After 2 years of fighting, cheating and my obsession with this relationship we finally ended it. I moved out. That was the beginning of my new life. I am quiet and God is starting and continuing his work of transformation by renewing my mind now. I still struggle with some loneliness and lust but it's better then being in a relationship that isn't right. I need to develop my relationship with Him first, myself second and my family! After I develop into what the Lord knows I already am in the spirit He will then lead me to the next step. We attract what we are I've heard. The Word says, "Delight yourself in the Lord and He will grant you the desires of your heart". If I have a hole in my soul I need Christ to fill that place first and foremost. I do that by spending time in the Word and prayer. I'm not formal. I listen to a lot of Christian television and talk to God all day long as I go about my business. I would like to spend more time in formal prayer and I believe that will come as well as I surrender more of me to Him and develop more discipline and victory over my tendency to proscrastinate.. But I fully understand why God wanted me to wait for a relationship. Relationships are serious. We should strive to find a person who we can spend the rest of our life with. Why would I want to do that with someone who isn't right for me? Why should I go in and out of relationships over and over again? And if I am in the wrong one how can the right one find it's way in? Anyway, God knows you better then you know yourself and loves you sooooo MUCH! He WANTS you to be happy! Trust Him to give you your hearts desire. I heard Pat Robertson say you need to position yourself. Go to places where you can meet a good man. Try Christian dating sites. That's what I heard him advise a young lady who mailed in a question similar to yours. I will pray for you. God loves you and smiles on you! "Be still and know that I am God!" He is in charge! He created the sun, moon, stars, earth, oceans, forests, rivers and us! He formed your spirit. You belong to Him in Christ. Trust HIM!