GOD

We hear the urgency in your cry, and we join you in lifting this heavy burden before the Lord, for He alone is the author of marriage and the One who guides our steps. Your plea for wisdom in this marriage decision is deeply important, and we must first anchor this in the truth of Scripture: *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Too often, we rely on our emotions, fears, or even the opinions of others rather than seeking God’s perfect will. But marriage is not a decision to be made lightly—it is a covenant before God, a lifelong commitment that reflects Christ’s love for His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33).

Before we pray, we must ask: Are you seeking a spouse who is a born-again believer in Jesus Christ? The Bible is clear that we are not to be *"unequally yoked with unbelievers"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If the person you are considering does not share your faith in Christ, this is not a decision to pray over—it is a path the Lord has already closed. A marriage without Christ at the center is built on shifting sand, and no amount of love or hope can replace the foundation of shared faith. If this is the case, we urge you to step back and trust that God’s plan for your life is far greater than any relationship that would pull you away from Him.

If you *are* considering a believer, we must still examine the fruit of this potential union. Is this relationship honoring to God in every way? Have you guarded your hearts and bodies from fornication, which is a sin against your own body and the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20)? Are you both submitted to Christ, seeking His will above your own desires? Marriage is not the solution to loneliness, fear, or insecurity—it is a sacred calling to serve God together, to raise a godly legacy, and to reflect His love in a broken world.

We also notice that your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ. This is not a small matter, for Scripture declares, *"There is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we implore you to do so now. Repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and invite Him to be Lord of your life. Without this, no prayer for marriage—or anything else—can be fully aligned with God’s will.

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who is crying out for Your guidance in this marriage decision. Lord, You know the depths of their heart, the fears they carry, and the desires they hold. We ask that You would speak clearly, leaving no room for doubt or confusion. If this relationship is not of You, we pray You would close the door decisively, giving them the strength to walk away in obedience. If it *is* Your will, we ask that You would confirm it through Your Word, through godly counsel, and through the peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).

Father, expose any sin that needs to be repented of—any compromise, any ungodly soul ties, or any idolatry that has taken root. Cleanse them by the blood of Jesus and renew their mind to align with Your truth. If there has been sexual immorality, we rebuke the enemy’s lies that say it’s too late to turn back. Your grace is sufficient, and Your mercy is new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23). Restore purity and holy conviction where it has been lost.

Lord, we pray for a spouse who will lead or submit in Christ-like love, who will cherish and honor this covenant as You intend. Break any chains of fear, impatience, or worldly influence that would rush this decision outside of Your timing. Let them wait on You, even if it feels painful, knowing that Your plans are for their good (Jeremiah 29:11).

And Father, if this person does not yet know You as Savior, we pray for a divine interruption. Let no believer be unequally yoked, but instead, draw them to a mate who will spur them on toward love and good deeds (Hebrews 10:24). Give them the courage to walk away from anything that is not Your best, trusting that You are preparing someone who will love You *and* them with a whole heart.

We bind any spirit of confusion, deception, or hurry in Jesus’ name. Let Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may discern Your voice above all others. We ask all this in the powerful, saving name of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

Beloved, we urge you to fast and pray over this decision, seeking the Lord with all your heart. Surround yourself with mature believers who will speak truth into your life, not just what you want to hear. Test every thought and feeling against Scripture. And remember: Delayed obedience is disobedience. If God has already shown you this path is not His will, trust Him enough to let it go. His plans for you are *good*—even when the waiting is hard.

*"The heart of man plans his course, but Yahweh establishes his steps."* (Proverbs 16:9, WEB). Lean on Him. He will not fail you.
 
Dear friend, we're right there with you in your marriage decision, and we want you to know that God is right there too, every step of the way. We've been thinking about your situation and we wanted to share a few more things with you.

Firstly, remember that God is not just interested in your happiness, but in your holiness. A marriage that honors Him is one that will last and bring true joy, not just fleeting happiness. So, we encourage you to seek God's face in this, not just His hand. Trust that He has a purpose in every circumstance, even the waiting.

Secondly, we want to remind you of the power of agreement in prayer. We've been praying for you, and we believe that God hears our prayers. But we also believe that He wants to hear from you. So, keep crying out to Him, keep seeking His face. He promises in His word that if we draw near to Him, He will draw near to us (James 4:8).

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your eyes fixed on Jesus. He is the author and perfecter of your faith, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. Trust in Him, even when the way forward is unclear. He has a plan, and it's a good one (Jeremiah 29:11).

We're here for you, praying with you and for you. Let's keep seeking God together, trusting that He will make your path straight. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
We’ve been lifting you up before the Lord these past few days, earnestly praying for His wisdom, clarity, and peace to flood your heart as you seek His will in this marriage decision. It’s a heavy burden to carry, and we’re so grateful you’ve allowed us to stand with you in prayer—what a sacred privilege it is to intercede alongside a brother or sister in Christ during such a pivotal moment.

We know how deeply you’ve been crying out to God, begging Him for direction, and we want you to know we’ve been doing the same. The Lord is not distant in this; He sees your heart, your tears, and your longing for His perfect will. Whether He’s leading you toward reconciliation, restoration, or a different path altogether, we’re trusting Him to make His voice unmistakable in your spirit. His timing is always perfect, even when the waiting feels unbearable.

If God has already begun to answer—whether through a sense of peace, a clear word from Scripture, godly counsel, or a shift in circumstances—we’d love for you to share a praise report with us. There’s nothing more encouraging than witnessing how the Lord moves in response to our prayers! But if you’re still wrestling, still waiting, or feeling even more uncertain, please don’t hesitate to post an update or a new request. We’re here for the long haul, ready to keep pleading with you until breakthrough comes.

In the meantime, we’re praying specifically for:
- **Divine wisdom** (James 1:5) to replace confusion, so you’ll know beyond doubt the step God is calling you to take.
- **Supernatural peace** (Philippians 4:7) to guard your heart and mind, even amid the storm.
- **A tangible sense of God’s presence** (Psalm 34:18) to remind you that you’re not alone in this.
- **Strength and courage** (Joshua 1:9) to obey, whether the path feels easy or impossibly hard.

Keep seeking Him, dear friend. Keep pressing into His Word and His presence. He is faithful, and He *will* lead you (Psalm 23:3). We’re not letting go of this until you see His hand at work.

We love you, we’re cheering you on, and we’re still on our knees.
 

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