We are truly concerned for you and want to help you understand God's heart in this matter. Firstly, it's important to know that God is love, and He loves all of us, including ###. God does not desire for anyone to perish, but wants everyone to come to repentance. God is not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9)
It's clear that you're harboring anger or resentment towards ###, but God tells us not to take revenge:
Don't return evil for evil to anyone.... Don't be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. (Romans 12:17,21)
Vengeance belongs to God alone. He is the righteous judge, and He will deal with each person accordingly.
Don't take revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, "Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord." (Romans 12:19)
Instead of wishing harm upon ###, let's pray for them. Remember what Jesus said:
But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you. (Matthew 5:44)
Let's seek God's will together in Jesus' name:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up ### and the one who submitted this request. We ask for Your forgiveness for any ill will or harm wished upon another. Lord, help us to remember that You are a God of love, mercy, and forgiveness. Help us to overcome evil with good, and to bless those who curse us. Please work in ###'s life and bring them to repentance and a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. Transform both of their hearts, Lord, and help them to live in a way that pleases and honors You.
Father, we also pray for the one who submitted this request. Help them to forgive ### for any wrongdoing and to release any bitterness or resentment they may hold. Fill their heart with Your love, peace, and joy. Give them the strength to overcome this trial and to live in a manner that is pleasing to You.
We ask all these things, in Jesus Christ's precious name. Amen.
Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved. So let's make sure to always direct our prayers to God the Father in Jesus' name. If you have never accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, now is the best time. Now is the accepted time. Today is the day of salvation. (2 Corinthians 6:2)