We hear the deep anguish in your heart, sister, and we stand with you in fervent prayer before the throne of grace. Your marriage is under severe attack, and we grieve with you over the betrayal, the broken vows, and the pain your husband’s choices have caused. But we serve a God who is near to the brokenhearted and who hates divorce (Malachi 2:16). We will not accept this as the end of your story, for the Lord is a restorer of what has been torn apart.
First, we must address the sin that has taken root in your husband’s life. His involvement with another woman is not merely a mistake—it is adultery, and Scripture is clear: "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous" (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). His pride in this sin is a dangerous hardness of heart, and we must rebuke it in the name of Jesus. The enemy has blinded him to the destruction he is bringing upon himself, his wife, and his child. We declare that the scales will fall from his eyes, and he will see the devastation of his choices.
We also must confront his rejection of God’s Word in his life. He claims to be a Christian yet lives in direct rebellion against the Lord’s commands. Jesus said, "If you love me, keep my commandments" (John 14:15 WEB). His refusal to hear the truth from you is a spiritual stronghold, and we break it now in Jesus’ name. The Holy Spirit is the one who convicts of sin (John 16:8), and we pray that conviction will flood his heart until he cannot ignore it.
Your husband’s statement that he will "find God for himself" is a deception. There is no other way to the Father except through Jesus Christ (John 14:6 WEB). Salvation is not a self-directed journey—it is a surrender to the Lordship of Christ. We pray that he will be humbled and brought to true repentance, not just for the sake of your marriage, but for the sake of his eternal soul.
We also lift you up, dear sister. The pain you are carrying is immense, and the enemy would love to see you crushed under the weight of bitterness, despair, or unforgiveness. But we declare that you will not be destroyed. "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18 WEB). You are not alone in this battle. The Lord sees your tears, and He collects them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). We pray for supernatural strength for you to stand firm in faith, even when the circumstances seem hopeless.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious sister and her marriage. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, and the brokenness that has entered her home. We ask You to intervene in power and might. We declare that what the enemy has meant for destruction, You will turn for good (Genesis 50:20).
Father, we rebuke the spirit of adultery and deception that has taken hold of her husband. We break every ungodly soul tie between him and this other woman in the name of Jesus. We command his mind to be renewed by Your Word, and we ask You to flood his thoughts with the truth of Your commands. Remove every lie he has believed about love, commitment, and righteousness. Let him see the devastation his choices have caused, not just to his wife and child, but to his own soul.
Lord, we pray for conviction to fall upon him like a heavy weight. Let him feel the weight of his sin and the separation it has caused between him and You. Soften his heart, Father, and lead him to true repentance. Restore his love for You above all else, and let that love overflow into his marriage and family.
We also pray for this sister, Lord. Strengthen her in her inner being. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Give her the grace to forgive, even as You have forgiven her. Protect her heart from bitterness and resentment, and let her trust in You grow deeper each day. Surround her with godly support—people who will pray with her, encourage her, and remind her of Your promises.
Father, we ask You to heal this marriage. Restore the love, trust, and intimacy that has been broken. Let Your Holy Spirit hover over this union, bringing reconciliation and renewal. We declare that this marriage will not end in divorce, but will be a testimony to Your power to restore what has been lost.
We cover this husband in the blood of Jesus, as this sister has declared. Let the blood of Christ cleanse him from all unrighteousness and break every chain of sin in his life. We plead the blood over their marriage, their home, and their child. Let no weapon formed against them prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
Lord, we ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the name that is above every other name. We believe that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). We trust You to move in this situation, and we will give You all the glory for what You are about to do.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Sister, we want to encourage you to stand firm in your faith. This is not the time to shrink back or lose hope. The enemy wants you to believe that your marriage is over, but God is saying, "I am doing a new thing" (Isaiah 43:19). Continue to pray, continue to trust, and continue to walk in obedience to the Lord. Seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian counselor who can walk with you through this season. You are not fighting this battle alone—we are standing with you, and more importantly, the Lord is fighting for you.
Remember, the Lord is your husband (Isaiah 54:5). Even if your earthly marriage does not survive, He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). But we are believing with you for restoration, for a testimony of God’s power to heal and redeem. Keep your eyes on Jesus, and do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9). The harvest will come.
I am crying 
since January, please pray for my husband eyes to open and choose righteous living. God please heal my husband from carnal behavior 
in Jesus name. I COVER MY HUSBAND IN THE BLOOD OF Jesus Amen
