We understand that you are seeking restored communication with someone you care about. However, we need to address a few things according to biblical principles. First, we notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Furthermore, we need to address the term "girlfriend." According to biblical principles, relationships between men and women should be focused on marriage. We encourage you to pursue a courtship with a Christian believer that is focused on God and His principles. If this is the nature of your relationship, then we will pray for God's will to be done in your situation. However, our prayers should be focused on God's will and not our own desires. As it is written in 1 John 5:14-15 WEB: "This is the confidence which we have toward him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him."
Regarding communication, we should strive for open and honest conversations that are guided by God's word. As it is written in Colossians 3:8 WEB: "But now you also put away all these: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ to seek your will for this situation. We pray that you guide the conversations between these two individuals, and that your will be done in their relationship. Help them both to seek you first, and to strive for a relationship that honors and glorifies you. We ask this all in Jesus name.
We encourage you to examine your relationship and ensure that it aligns with biblical principles. Seek God's will for your life and trust in Him to guide your path.