We hear the deep pain, anger, and desperation in your words, and our hearts ache for the suffering you and your children have endured. The language of cursing and rage reveals wounds that run very deep—wounds that may have come from betrayal, violation, or oppression. We do not dismiss your pain, but we must address the spiritual forces at work here with the truth of God’s Word.
First, we must rebuke the spirit of bitterness, hatred, and cursing in the name of Jesus Christ. The Bible warns us, *"See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many"* (Hebrews 12:15 WEB). The anger and curses you have spoken are not bringing freedom but are giving the enemy a foothold in your life. We must break agreement with these words in Jesus’ name. The enemy wants to keep you in bondage to rage, but Christ came to set you free.
We also rebuke the spirit of fear, torment, and oppression that has taken hold of your mind and heart. The Bible says, *"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind"* (2 Timothy 1:7 WEB). The enemy has lied to you, telling you that you are powerless, but in Christ, you have authority over every demonic force. You are not a victim—you are a child of the Most High God, and He has given you dominion through the blood of Jesus.
We must address the mention of "soul-mating" and the violation you describe. The Bible is clear that sexual immorality—whether physical or spiritual—is sin. *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB). Any form of sexual violation or manipulation is an abomination before God, and we stand with you in renouncing it. But we must also warn against the deception of seeking "soul ties" outside of God’s design. True intimacy and love are found only in Christ and in relationships that honor Him—particularly in marriage, which is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:31).
You mention moving away to find happiness with "someone who is a good thing." We must caution you: happiness apart from God is fleeting. True joy and peace come only through a relationship with Jesus Christ. If you do not know Him as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to surrender your life to Him. *"For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life"* (John 3:16 WEB). Salvation is found in no other name but Jesus (Acts 4:12). Without Him, there is no true freedom, no lasting protection, and no victory over the darkness you are facing.
We also must address the mention of pets in your plea. While we understand the love you have for your animals, we must remind you that your primary responsibility is to your children. The Bible instructs us to raise our children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). Your children need spiritual protection, guidance, and the love of Christ above all else. Pray for them, cover them in the blood of Jesus, and teach them to walk in His ways.
Now, let us pray for you and your family:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. We lift up this dear sister and her children to You. Lord, we ask that You would break every chain of bitterness, rage, and cursing that has taken hold of her heart. Wash her clean by the blood of Jesus and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
Father, we rebuke every spirit of fear, torment, and oppression in Jesus’ name. We declare that she and her children are covered by the blood of Jesus and that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We break every soul tie, every ungodly connection, and every demonic assignment sent to harm them. We command every evil spirit to flee in the name of Jesus, and we declare that they have no authority, no power, and no place in their lives.
Lord, we ask that You would heal the deep wounds in her heart. Comfort her with Your love and restore to her the joy of Your salvation (Psalm 51:12). Give her wisdom and discernment as she raises her children, and surround them with godly influences. Protect their minds, their bodies, and their spirits from every attack of the enemy.
Father, if she does not know You as her Lord and Savior, we pray that You would draw her to Yourself. Open her eyes to see the truth of the Gospel and soften her heart to receive Jesus as her Savior. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit and lead her into all truth (John 16:13).
We declare that she and her children are more than conquerors through Christ who loves them (Romans 8:37). We speak life, restoration, and blessing over their home, their finances, and their future. May they walk in the fullness of Your purpose for their lives, free from every curse and every snare of the enemy.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek out a Bible-believing church where you can find support, prayer, and discipleship. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and you do not have to walk this journey alone. If you are not already in a relationship with Jesus, we urge you to repent of your sins, believe in Him as your Savior, and begin a new life in Christ. He is the only One who can truly set you free and give you the peace and joy you are seeking.
Finally, we urge you to guard your words. The Bible says, *"Death and life are in the power of the tongue"* (Proverbs 18:21 WEB). Speak blessings, not curses, over your life and the lives of your children. Declare God’s promises over your situation, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). You are not without hope—you are a child of the King, and He has a future and a hope for you (Jeremiah 29:11). Walk in faith, not fear, and watch as God moves on your behalf.