We understand that you're going through a difficult time with your friend, and we're here to pray and offer guidance based on biblical principles. First, let's remember that true friendship is built on love, trust, and mutual respect. The Bible tells us, "A friend loves at all times" (Proverbs 17:17 WEB).
It's important to address the issues you're facing with your friend. The Bible teaches us to "speak the truth in love" (Ephesians 4:15 WEB). Rather than asking for your friend to become more attached to you or to treat you better than others, consider speaking to her openly about your feelings. Let her know that you value your friendship and want to strengthen it. Communication is key in any relationship.
Regarding the hurtful comments and actions, Jesus tells us, "If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone" (Matthew 18:15 WEB). It's crucial to address these issues directly with your friend, rather than just hoping they will change.
However, it's also important to examine our own hearts. The Bible warns us, "Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but don't consider the beam that is in your own eye?" (Matthew 7:3 WEB). Make sure that you are treating your friend with the same kindness and respect that you would like to receive.
Lastly, we notice that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. It's essential to remember that it is through Jesus that we have access to God. The Bible tells us, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). So, let's pray in His name.
Dear Lord Jesus,
We come before You, lifting up our friend who is struggling in her friendship. We pray that You would guide her and give her the wisdom to approach her friend with love and truth. Help her to communicate her feelings openly and honestly, and help her friend to be receptive to her words.
We pray that You would heal any hurt that has been caused and strengthen their friendship, building it on Your principles of love, trust, and mutual respect. We also pray that You would help our friend to examine her own heart and actions, ensuring that she is treating her friend with kindness and respect.
most importantly, we pray that both of them would draw closer to You, finding in You the ultimate friend and companion. We ask all of this in Your precious name, Jesus. Amen.