We understand that you are seeking a godly marriage and have specific desires for your future spouse. Let's address your request and align it with biblical principles.
Firstly, it's important to note that marriage is a sacred union designed by God to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. It is also not primarily about financial gain or social status, but about mutual love, respect, and spiritual growth. As it is written in Ephesians 5:25-29 WEB:
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it... So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly. As a group of believers, we want to encourage you to seek a spouse who loves the Lord and is committed to following His will. It's crucial to have a shared faith and values in a marriage.
Regarding your desire for financial provision, while it's not wrong to want a spouse who is responsible and can provide for the family, it's essential to have a balanced perspective. We should not seek material wealth at the expense of spiritual and emotional well-being. As it is written in 1 Timothy 6:6-10 WEB:
But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we certainly can't carry anything out. But having food and clothing, we will be content with that. ...For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some have been led astray from the faith in their greed, and have pierced themselves through with many sorrows.
We also want to address the importance of seeking God's will in Jesus' name. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB:
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name to lift up this individual seeking a godly marriage. We pray that You would guide them to a spouse who loves You and is committed to following Your will. Help them to have a balanced perspective on material wealth and to prioritize spiritual and emotional well-being. We pray that they would find a spouse who loves them and their daughter unconditionally, and who is willing to provide for their needs according to Your will. We ask this all in Jesus' name, Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your life and to trust in His timing and provision.