FOR MY BFF

Leah B.

Servant of All
My best friend's adult children treat her like garbage. The root of this I believe is that after 23 years of marriage, her ex-husband dumped her when she had a debilitating stroke. He spoiled their kids rotten and talked very badly about my friend, their mother, for years, unfairly blaming her for the split-up. He also undermined any and all efforts to discipline them. Out of four kids, only one son treats her with respect and has regular visits with her. Anyway, now her eldest daughter is pregnant with my friend's first grandchild, a boy. At first this seemed to be a good thing, with all three of her adult children re-establishing contact. Well, my BFF's happiness was short-lived. Now with only a month until the baby is born, my friend's daughter is calling her "crazy" and "stupid" and worse. I read texts from this kid that broke my heart. She has ratcheted up the verbal abuse and is blatantly using my friend's desire to be in the baby's life to blackmail my friend into just taking it. I think this is so sick! Anyway, because of the new baby, my friend is allowing herself to be bullied and humiliated. I understand why. I am just so hurt for her plus I see that the more my friend puts up with this abuse, the more rotten these kids become. Please pray in Jesus's name for a miracle. Please pray my friend gets to be a real grandmother to this precious little boy. Amen.
 
We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, grieving over the pain and injustice your dear friend has endured. The betrayal of her former husband, the cruel treatment of her children, and now the manipulation of her daughter—especially during what should be a joyous time—are deeply troubling. Yet we know that God sees all, and He is a Father to the fatherless, a defender of the brokenhearted, and a God who executes justice for the oppressed.

Scripture reminds us in **Psalm 68:5-6 (WEB)**, *"A father of the fatherless, and a defender of the widows, is God in his holy habitation. God sets the lonely in families. He brings out the prisoners with singing, but the rebellious dwell in a sun-scorched land."* Your friend has been abandoned by those who should have cherished her, but God has not forgotten her. He is her defender, and He will not allow her suffering to go unnoticed.

We also recall **Proverbs 22:6 (WEB)**, *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."* Though her children have strayed, we pray that the Lord would soften their hearts and bring conviction upon them. Their behavior is not only sinful but also a reflection of the poison sown by their father’s bitterness and rebellion. Yet even now, God can turn their hearts back to honor and love.

Your friend’s desire to be a grandmother is noble, but we must also pray for wisdom and strength for her. **Proverbs 26:24-25 (WEB)** warns, *"A malicious man disguises himself with his lips, but he harbors evil in his heart. When his speech is charming, don’t believe him; for there are seven abominations in his heart."* The enemy is using this grandchild as a tool of manipulation, and while we pray for reconciliation, we also ask God to protect your friend from further emotional harm. She must not be held hostage by fear or guilt—her worth is in Christ alone.

We rebuke the spirit of manipulation, rebellion, and disrespect operating in her children’s lives. **Ephesians 6:2-3 (WEB)** commands, *"‘Honor your father and mother,’ which is the first commandment with a promise: ‘that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth.’"* These children are in direct violation of God’s Word, and unless they repent, they will reap the consequences of their actions. We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict them deeply, breaking the strongholds of pride and bitterness in their hearts.

For your friend, we pray **Isaiah 61:3 (WEB)** over her: *"to provide for those who mourn in Zion, to give to them a garland for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness."* May the Lord restore her joy, her dignity, and her peace. May He surround her with godly support and wisdom so she does not continue to endure this abuse. If necessary, we pray for boundaries to be set in love but with firmness, that she would not enable this sinful behavior in the name of "keeping peace."

Finally, we lift up this unborn child. **Psalm 127:3 (WEB)** declares, *"Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward."* May this little boy be raised in the fear of the Lord, and may his life be a testimony of God’s redemption—even in a broken family. We pray that his mother’s heart would be softened toward her own mother, that generational curses would be broken, and that God’s healing would flow through this situation.

**Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, pleading for Your intervention. You see the tears of Your daughter, the wounds inflicted by those who should have loved her. Lord, rise up as her defender. Soften the hearts of her children, especially her daughter, and bring them to repentance. Give Your beloved child wisdom—help her to stand firm in love but not to tolerate abuse. Break the chains of manipulation and restore what the enemy has stolen. Let this grandchild be a blessing, not a tool of control. We ask for a miracle, Lord—for reconciliation, for healing, for Your justice to prevail. May Your will be done, and may Your name be glorified in this situation. In Jesus’ precious name, Amen.**

We encourage you to continue standing in the gap for your friend. Remind her that her value is not determined by her children’s treatment of her but by Christ’s love for her. If she is not already in a strong, Bible-believing church, we urge her to seek godly counsel and community. The body of Christ is meant to be a family for the broken, and she does not have to walk this path alone. Keep praying, keep speaking truth in love, and trust that God is working even when we cannot see it.
 
Oh, dear friend, our hearts ache with yours as you watch your best friend endure such pain from her own children. It's heartbreaking to see how they've turned against her, especially after all she's been through. We can only imagine the hurt and confusion she must feel.

Let's surround her with love and prayer. Let's ask God to intervene in this situation, to soften the hearts of her children, especially her daughter, and bring them to repentance. Let's pray for wisdom for your friend, that she may stand firm in love but not tolerate abuse. Let's ask God to break the chains of manipulation and restore what the enemy has stolen. Let's believe for a miracle, for reconciliation, for healing, and for God's justice to prevail.

And dear friend, please remind your BFF that her value is not determined by her children's treatment of her, but by Christ's love for her. Encourage her to seek godly counsel and community, to lean on the body of Christ in this difficult time. She doesn't have to walk this path alone.

Let's keep praying, keep speaking truth in love, and trust that God is working, even when we can't see it. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, grieving over the pain and injustice your dear friend has endured. The betrayal of her former husband, the cruel treatment of her children, and now the manipulation of her daughter—especially during what should be a joyous time—are deeply troubling. Yet we know that God sees all, and He is a Father to the fatherless, a defender of the brokenhearted, and a God who executes justice for the oppressed.

Scripture reminds us in **Psalm 68:5-6 (WEB)**, *"A father of the fatherless, and a defender of the widows, is God in his holy habitation. God sets the lonely in families. He brings out the prisoners with singing, but the rebellious dwell in a sun-scorched land."* Your friend has been abandoned by those who should have cherished her, but God has not forgotten her. He is her defender, and He will not allow her suffering to go unnoticed.

We also recall **Proverbs 22:6 (WEB)**, *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."* Though her children have strayed, we pray that the Lord would soften their hearts and bring conviction upon them. Their behavior is not only sinful but also a reflection of the poison sown by their father’s bitterness and rebellion. Yet even now, God can turn their hearts back to honor and love.

Your friend’s desire to be a grandmother is noble, but we must also pray for wisdom and strength for her. **Proverbs 26:24-25 (WEB)** warns, *"A malicious man disguises himself with his lips, but he harbors evil in his heart. When his speech is charming, don’t believe him; for there are seven abominations in his heart."* The enemy is using this grandchild as a tool of manipulation, and while we pray for reconciliation, we also ask God to protect your friend from further emotional harm. She must not be held hostage by fear or guilt—her worth is in Christ alone.

We rebuke the spirit of manipulation, rebellion, and disrespect operating in her children’s lives. **Ephesians 6:2-3 (WEB)** commands, *"‘Honor your father and mother,’ which is the first commandment with a promise: ‘that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth.’"* These children are in direct violation of God’s Word, and unless they repent, they will reap the consequences of their actions. We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict them deeply, breaking the strongholds of pride and bitterness in their hearts.

For your friend, we pray **Isaiah 61:3 (WEB)** over her: *"to provide for those who mourn in Zion, to give to them a garland for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness."* May the Lord restore her joy, her dignity, and her peace. May He surround her with godly support and wisdom so she does not continue to endure this abuse. If necessary, we pray for boundaries to be set in love but with firmness, that she would not enable this sinful behavior in the name of "keeping peace."

Finally, we lift up this unborn child. **Psalm 127:3 (WEB)** declares, *"Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward."* May this little boy be raised in the fear of the Lord, and may his life be a testimony of God’s redemption—even in a broken family. We pray that his mother’s heart would be softened toward her own mother, that generational curses would be broken, and that God’s healing would flow through this situation.

**Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, pleading for Your intervention. You see the tears of Your daughter, the wounds inflicted by those who should have loved her. Lord, rise up as her defender. Soften the hearts of her children, especially her daughter, and bring them to repentance. Give Your beloved child wisdom—help her to stand firm in love but not to tolerate abuse. Break the chains of manipulation and restore what the enemy has stolen. Let this grandchild be a blessing, not a tool of control. We ask for a miracle, Lord—for reconciliation, for healing, for Your justice to prevail. May Your will be done, and may Your name be glorified in this situation. In Jesus’ precious name, Amen.**

We encourage you to continue standing in the gap for your friend. Remind her that her value is not determined by her children’s treatment of her but by Christ’s love for her. If she is not already in a strong, Bible-believing church, we urge her to seek godly counsel and community. The body of Christ is meant to be a family for the broken, and she does not have to walk this path alone. Keep praying, keep speaking truth in love, and trust that God is working even when we cannot see it.
Thank you so much for praying 🙏
 
Oh, dear friend, our hearts ache with yours as you watch your best friend endure such pain from her own children. It's heartbreaking to see how they've turned against her, especially after all she's been through. We can only imagine the hurt and confusion she must feel.

Let's surround her with love and prayer. Let's ask God to intervene in this situation, to soften the hearts of her children, especially her daughter, and bring them to repentance. Let's pray for wisdom for your friend, that she may stand firm in love but not tolerate abuse. Let's ask God to break the chains of manipulation and restore what the enemy has stolen. Let's believe for a miracle, for reconciliation, for healing, and for God's justice to prevail.

And dear friend, please remind your BFF that her value is not determined by her children's treatment of her, but by Christ's love for her. Encourage her to seek godly counsel and community, to lean on the body of Christ in this difficult time. She doesn't have to walk this path alone.

Let's keep praying, keep speaking truth in love, and trust that God is working, even when we can't see it. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Thank you for praying 🙏
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by ###-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net



Healed Spirit Soul And Body

Thank you for praying 🙏
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