Smaolteandale
Disciple of Prayer
My life is in shatters, family issues and I feel far from God, I need help.
Fixing my life
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We hear the deep pain in your words, and our hearts ache with you as you carry this heavy burden. Life can feel overwhelming when family struggles and spiritual distance collide, but we want you to know that God has not abandoned you—even when it feels that way. The enemy loves to whisper lies that we are beyond hope, but Scripture declares the opposite: *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). You are not forgotten, and your cry for help has reached the ears of the One who can restore what is broken.
First, we must address the most critical foundation: your relationship with God. You mentioned feeling far from Him, and we want to gently ask—have you surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through faith in Him that we can approach God’s throne with confidence (Hebrews 4:16). If you’ve never confessed Jesus as Lord or are unsure, we urge you to do so now. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). This is not just a one-time prayer but a daily surrender. If you have already given your life to Christ, then this season of distance may be an invitation to repent—turning away from anything that has come between you and Him—and drawing near to Him again. *"Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded"* (James 4:8, WEB).
Family issues can be some of the most painful trials, especially when they leave us feeling isolated or responsible for things beyond our control. But Scripture reminds us that even in the midst of chaos, God is working for our good (Romans 8:28). We don’t know the specifics of your family struggles, but we do know that God calls us to forgive as we’ve been forgiven (Colossians 3:13), to love even when it’s hard (1 Corinthians 13:4-7), and to trust Him with the outcomes (Proverbs 3:5-6). If there is unconfessed sin in your family—bitterness, rebellion, or ungodly behaviors—we encourage you to examine your own heart first. *"Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye?"* (Matthew 7:3, WEB). This doesn’t mean you’re to blame for everything, but it does mean that your obedience to God in how you respond is what you *can* control. Pray for your family members, bless them even if they’ve hurt you, and ask God to soften hearts—including your own.
As for fixing your life, we want to gently correct a mindset that can trap many of us: the idea that we can "fix" ourselves. True restoration comes from the Lord, not from our own strength. *"Unless the Lord builds the house, they who build it labor in vain"* (Psalm 127:1, WEB). Your role is to seek Him first (Matthew 6:33), to walk in obedience to His Word, and to trust that He will rebuild what is broken in His timing. This may require practical steps—seeking godly counsel, setting boundaries, or even making difficult changes—but it must begin with surrender to Him.
Let’s pray together for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You see every tear, every wound, and every shattered piece of their life. Lord, if they have not yet surrendered to Jesus, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for them. Open their eyes to see their need for a Savior and their heart to receive Your forgiveness and grace. If they have strayed from You, Father, draw them back with cords of lovingkindness. Break every chain of sin, doubt, or fear that has kept them from running into Your arms.
Lord, we ask for Your healing in their family. Soften hearts, bring repentance where it’s needed, and restore relationships according to Your will. Give them wisdom to know how to love well, even when it’s hard, and the strength to forgive as You have forgiven them. If there are generational sins or curses at work, we break their power in the name of Jesus and declare that this family will serve the Lord (Joshua 24:15).
Father, we rebuked the spirit of despair and hopelessness that has tried to take root in their heart. Replace it with Your peace that surpasses understanding and a deep assurance that You are working all things for their good. Show them the next step to take, whether it’s seeking counseling, reconciling with someone, or simply spending time in Your Word. Give them the courage to obey, even when it’s scary.
We declare that their life is not in shatters—it is in Your hands. You are the God who restores, who redeems, and who makes all things new. Let them see Your hand at work in their life, and may they testify soon of Your faithfulness. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we want to encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture daily. Start with the Psalms if you’re feeling overwhelmed—they are filled with raw, honest cries to God. Read about Joseph (Genesis 37-50) and see how God turned betrayal and suffering into redemption. And remember that even Jesus, in His darkest hour, cried out to the Father (Matthew 27:46), yet trusted Him completely.
You are not alone in this. We are standing with you in prayer, and more importantly, God is with you. *"Be strong and courageous. Don’t be afraid or dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go"* (Joshua 1:9, WEB). Keep seeking Him, and He will lead you out of this valley.
First, we must address the most critical foundation: your relationship with God. You mentioned feeling far from Him, and we want to gently ask—have you surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through faith in Him that we can approach God’s throne with confidence (Hebrews 4:16). If you’ve never confessed Jesus as Lord or are unsure, we urge you to do so now. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). This is not just a one-time prayer but a daily surrender. If you have already given your life to Christ, then this season of distance may be an invitation to repent—turning away from anything that has come between you and Him—and drawing near to Him again. *"Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded"* (James 4:8, WEB).
Family issues can be some of the most painful trials, especially when they leave us feeling isolated or responsible for things beyond our control. But Scripture reminds us that even in the midst of chaos, God is working for our good (Romans 8:28). We don’t know the specifics of your family struggles, but we do know that God calls us to forgive as we’ve been forgiven (Colossians 3:13), to love even when it’s hard (1 Corinthians 13:4-7), and to trust Him with the outcomes (Proverbs 3:5-6). If there is unconfessed sin in your family—bitterness, rebellion, or ungodly behaviors—we encourage you to examine your own heart first. *"Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye?"* (Matthew 7:3, WEB). This doesn’t mean you’re to blame for everything, but it does mean that your obedience to God in how you respond is what you *can* control. Pray for your family members, bless them even if they’ve hurt you, and ask God to soften hearts—including your own.
As for fixing your life, we want to gently correct a mindset that can trap many of us: the idea that we can "fix" ourselves. True restoration comes from the Lord, not from our own strength. *"Unless the Lord builds the house, they who build it labor in vain"* (Psalm 127:1, WEB). Your role is to seek Him first (Matthew 6:33), to walk in obedience to His Word, and to trust that He will rebuild what is broken in His timing. This may require practical steps—seeking godly counsel, setting boundaries, or even making difficult changes—but it must begin with surrender to Him.
Let’s pray together for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You see every tear, every wound, and every shattered piece of their life. Lord, if they have not yet surrendered to Jesus, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for them. Open their eyes to see their need for a Savior and their heart to receive Your forgiveness and grace. If they have strayed from You, Father, draw them back with cords of lovingkindness. Break every chain of sin, doubt, or fear that has kept them from running into Your arms.
Lord, we ask for Your healing in their family. Soften hearts, bring repentance where it’s needed, and restore relationships according to Your will. Give them wisdom to know how to love well, even when it’s hard, and the strength to forgive as You have forgiven them. If there are generational sins or curses at work, we break their power in the name of Jesus and declare that this family will serve the Lord (Joshua 24:15).
Father, we rebuked the spirit of despair and hopelessness that has tried to take root in their heart. Replace it with Your peace that surpasses understanding and a deep assurance that You are working all things for their good. Show them the next step to take, whether it’s seeking counseling, reconciling with someone, or simply spending time in Your Word. Give them the courage to obey, even when it’s scary.
We declare that their life is not in shatters—it is in Your hands. You are the God who restores, who redeems, and who makes all things new. Let them see Your hand at work in their life, and may they testify soon of Your faithfulness. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we want to encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture daily. Start with the Psalms if you’re feeling overwhelmed—they are filled with raw, honest cries to God. Read about Joseph (Genesis 37-50) and see how God turned betrayal and suffering into redemption. And remember that even Jesus, in His darkest hour, cried out to the Father (Matthew 27:46), yet trusted Him completely.
You are not alone in this. We are standing with you in prayer, and more importantly, God is with you. *"Be strong and courageous. Don’t be afraid or dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go"* (Joshua 1:9, WEB). Keep seeking Him, and He will lead you out of this valley.
We're right here with you, friend. We know life can feel like a puzzle scattered on the floor, each piece a challenge in itself, and it's easy to feel overwhelmed when we try to put it all together at once. But remember, even the most complex puzzles start with one piece at a time.
First, let's focus on the most important piece: your relationship with God. It's like the corner piece of a puzzle; it sets the foundation for everything else. Have you invited Jesus into your heart and life? He's the only one who can truly put the pieces back together. If you haven't, we'd love to guide you in praying that prayer right now. And if you have, maybe this season of feeling distant is a nudge from God to realign your heart with His. It's not about perfect performance, but a humble, daily surrender.
Family issues can be like the edge pieces of the puzzle - they might be a bit tricky, but they're crucial for the picture to make sense. God sees your struggles, and He's working even in the midst of chaos. Forgiveness, love, and trust are the keys here. It's not about fixing others, but about being obedient to God in how you respond. Pray for your family, bless them, and ask God to soften hearts - including yours.
Fixing your life isn't about you picking up the pieces and forcing them together. It's about inviting God into the process. He's the master craftsman, and He promises to rebuild what's broken in His timing. Your role is to seek Him first, walk in obedience, and trust Him.
Let's pray together: Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You. If they haven't surrendered to Jesus, we pray for their salvation today. Open their eyes to see their need for a Savior and their heart to receive Your forgiveness and grace. If they've strayed from You, Father, draw them back with cords of lovingkindness. Break every chain of sin, doubt, or fear that's keeping them from running into Your arms...
(Continue with the prayer, focusing on their family, their heart, and their steps forward.)
You're not alone in this. We're standing with you in prayer, and God is with you. Keep seeking Him, one piece at a time, and He'll lead you out of this valley.
First, let's focus on the most important piece: your relationship with God. It's like the corner piece of a puzzle; it sets the foundation for everything else. Have you invited Jesus into your heart and life? He's the only one who can truly put the pieces back together. If you haven't, we'd love to guide you in praying that prayer right now. And if you have, maybe this season of feeling distant is a nudge from God to realign your heart with His. It's not about perfect performance, but a humble, daily surrender.
Family issues can be like the edge pieces of the puzzle - they might be a bit tricky, but they're crucial for the picture to make sense. God sees your struggles, and He's working even in the midst of chaos. Forgiveness, love, and trust are the keys here. It's not about fixing others, but about being obedient to God in how you respond. Pray for your family, bless them, and ask God to soften hearts - including yours.
Fixing your life isn't about you picking up the pieces and forcing them together. It's about inviting God into the process. He's the master craftsman, and He promises to rebuild what's broken in His timing. Your role is to seek Him first, walk in obedience, and trust Him.
Let's pray together: Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You. If they haven't surrendered to Jesus, we pray for their salvation today. Open their eyes to see their need for a Savior and their heart to receive Your forgiveness and grace. If they've strayed from You, Father, draw them back with cords of lovingkindness. Break every chain of sin, doubt, or fear that's keeping them from running into Your arms...
(Continue with the prayer, focusing on their family, their heart, and their steps forward.)
You're not alone in this. We're standing with you in prayer, and God is with you. Keep seeking Him, one piece at a time, and He'll lead you out of this valley.
I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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