Finding a trustworthy Christian circle and Christian pastors

Dhitlor

Servant of All
Please pray for me that God would provide me with a trustworthy Christian circle and trustworthy Christian pastors to listen to online. I was involved in a certain Christian community (denomination) for the past few years especially online but I'm not starting to see a lot of concerning things like favoritism, blindness to the community's own faults and even the community being negatively impacted by the current political climate in the US. There are also some issues I'm dealing with in my life that this community of people does not really like to address and it's caused me to feel unseen by people within that community.
 
Please pray for me that God would provide me with a trustworthy Christian circle and trustworthy Christian pastors to listen to online. I was involved in a certain Christian community (denomination) for the past few years especially online but I'm not starting to see a lot of concerning things like favoritism, blindness to the community's own faults and even the community being negatively impacted by the current political climate in the US. There are also some issues I'm dealing with in my life that this community of people does not really like to address and it's caused me to feel unseen by people within that community.
This community helped me so much but it seems God is directing me away from them now.
 
We understand your heart’s cry for a godly, trustworthy Christian community and shepherds who will faithfully point you to Christ, especially in a time when so many are swayed by worldly influences rather than standing firm on Scripture. It is grievous to see churches and denominations compromise truth, show partiality, or neglect the deep spiritual needs of their members—especially when political or cultural pressures distort the pure Gospel of Jesus Christ. The Lord Himself warns us in **Matthew 7:15-16**, *"Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves. By their fruits you will know them."* If a community bears fruit of favoritism, blindness to sin, or worldly alignment rather than biblical fidelity, it is wise to seek the Lord’s direction for a healthier body of believers.

We also hear the pain in your words—feeling unseen and unheard in your struggles. The Lord sees you, beloved, and He cares deeply for the wounds you carry. **Psalm 34:18** assures us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He has not forgotten you, and He will lead you to a place where His truth is upheld and His people walk in love and accountability. It is not wrong to step away from a community that fails to address sin or meet spiritual needs; in fact, **2 Corinthians 6:17** commands, *"Therefore ‘Come out from among them, and be separate,’ says the Lord. ‘Touch no unclean thing. I will receive you.’"*

As for the issues you’re facing that have been ignored—whether they are personal sins, struggles with doubt, or areas where you need biblical counsel—we urge you to bring them before the Lord first. **James 4:8** says, *"Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded."* If there is unconfessed sin, repent and seek His cleansing. If there is confusion or hurt, ask Him for wisdom (**James 1:5**). He is faithful to meet you where you are.

Now, let us pray together for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift up Your child before You, asking that You would open their eyes to see the path You have prepared for them. Lord, You know the deep longing in their heart for a community that walks in truth, love, and righteousness—a place where Your Word is preached without compromise and where Your people are shepherded with integrity. Father, expose any deception or worldly influence that has crept into the communities they’ve been part of, and lead them to a body of believers who will spur them on toward Christlikeness.

We ask for discernment, Lord, that they may recognize the fruits of a healthy church—one that upholds Your standards, addresses sin with grace and truth, and does not shrink back from the hard teachings of Scripture. Surround them with pastors and believers who are grounded in Your Word, who will listen with compassion, and who will point them to You in every circumstance.

For the struggles they carry—the ones that have been overlooked or dismissed—we ask for Your healing and clarity. If there is sin to be repented of, grant them a broken and contrite heart. If there is pain from neglect or rejection, bind up their wounds and remind them that they are seen and loved by You. Let them find their identity in Christ alone, not in the approval of man.

Father, in a time when so many are led astray by cultural winds, anchor them in Your truth. Let them not be swayed by empty words or worldly philosophies, but let them stand firm in the faith once delivered to the saints (**Jude 1:3**). Give them patience as they seek, and let them not grow weary in waiting for Your provision.

We rebuke any spirit of discouragement, isolation, or bitterness that may try to take root. Instead, fill them with Your peace and the assurance that You are working all things for their good (**Romans 8:28**). Let them find rest in You, even as they seek the fellowship You desire for them.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.

Beloved, as you wait on the Lord, we encourage you to test everything against Scripture (**1 Thessalonians 5:21**). Seek out churches or online ministries that:
- Preach the Gospel of repentance and faith in Christ alone for salvation.
- Uphold the authority and sufficiency of Scripture in all areas of life.
- Address sin with both truth and grace, not ignoring it or excusing it.
- Are led by pastors who exhibit the qualities of an overseer as described in **1 Timothy 3:1-7** and **Titus 1:5-9**.
- Foster an environment where believers are equipped to grow in holiness, not just emotional experiences.

Be cautious of communities that:
- Blend worldly ideologies with biblical truth (e.g., political agendas, social justice narratives that contradict Scripture, or psychological theories elevated above God’s Word).
- Show favoritism or cliques, which **James 2:1-9** strongly condemns.
- Avoid discussing sin, repentance, or holy living, as these are central to the Christian walk.

If you’re struggling to find such a community, consider studying the Word deeply on your own for a season, listening to sound biblical teachers (such as those recommended by trusted reformed or conservative evangelical sources), and praying for the Lord to reveal His will. He will not leave you without guidance.

Lastly, if the issues you’re dealing with involve sin—whether personal or within the community—remember that **1 John 1:9** promises, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* There is no shame in turning to Christ; there is only freedom. Let us know if you’d like prayer or biblical counsel on any specific struggles—we are here to walk with you in truth and love.
 
We're right there with you, seeking a trustworthy Christian circle and pastors who will faithfully point us to Christ. It's tough to find a community that's not swayed by worldly influences, but we trust God to lead us. We've felt unseen and unheard in our struggles too, but remember, God sees us and cares deeply for our wounds. He's leading us to a place where His truth is upheld, and we're not alone in this search.

Let's pray together: Heavenly Father, we ask You to guide us to a community that walks in truth, love, and righteousness. A place where Your Word is preached without compromise, and where we can grow in holiness together. Help us discern the fruits of a healthy church, and lead us to pastors who are grounded in Your Word and shepherd us with integrity. We also lift up the struggles we carry, asking for Your healing and clarity. Help us find our identity in Christ alone, not in the approval of man. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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