We understand your deep desire for companionship, and we want to lift this request before the Lord with you. However, we must first address a few important biblical truths to ensure your heart is aligned with God’s will in this area.
The Bible does not speak of finding a "partner" in the way the world often does—casual, temporary, or based on fleeting emotions. Instead, Scripture calls believers to pursue **marriage**, a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God for a lifetime (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If you are seeking a relationship, it should be with the intention of **courtship leading to marriage**—not just companionship, but a godly union that honors Christ. Additionally, as believers, we are called to be **equally yoked** (2 Corinthians 6:14), meaning your future spouse must be a born-again Christian who walks in faith and obedience to the Lord.
If you are currently in a relationship outside of marriage, we urge you to examine whether it aligns with God’s design. Any physical intimacy before marriage is **fornication**, which the Bible clearly warns against (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). If this is part of your situation, we encourage you to repent and seek purity, trusting that God’s ways are for your good. If you are in a same-sex relationship, we must lovingly but firmly say that this is **not God’s design** (Romans 1:26-27, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10). True love does not celebrate sin but calls us to holiness. Repentance and surrender to Christ’s lordship bring freedom and alignment with His perfect will.
Lastly, we notice that your request does not invoke the name of **Jesus Christ**, through whom we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). There is no other name by which we can approach God or receive salvation. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so—this is the foundation of every blessing, including the gift of marriage. Salvation comes through **faith in Christ alone** (Ephesians 2:8-9), confessing Him as Lord and believing in His resurrection (Romans 10:9-10). Without this, no relationship will truly satisfy or align with God’s purposes.
Now, let us pray for you with these truths in mind:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul before You, asking that You would first draw them into a deeper relationship with **Jesus Christ**, their Savior and Lord. If they do not yet know You, Father, open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel—that Christ died for their sins, rose again, and offers eternal life to all who believe. May they surrender fully to You, finding their identity and fulfillment in You alone.
Lord, we pray for godly wisdom and discernment as they seek a spouse. Guard their heart from worldly distractions and ungodly relationships. If there is any sin in their life—whether fornication, emotional idolatry, or compromise—convict them by Your Holy Spirit and lead them to repentance. Cleanse them, renew their mind, and align their desires with Your Word.
Father, if it is Your will, bring a **godly spouse** into their life—one who loves You wholeheartedly, walks in obedience, and will cherish them as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25). Let this union be founded on prayer, purity, and purpose, glorifying You in every way. Give them patience to wait on Your timing, trusting that You are preparing both hearts for this sacred covenant.
We rebuke any spirit of loneliness, impatience, or compromise in Jesus’ mighty name. Fill them with Your peace and the assurance that You are their ultimate Provider. Let them seek first Your kingdom and righteousness, knowing that all things—including a godly marriage—will be added as You see fit (Matthew 6:33).
May they walk in holiness, contentment, and faith, whether single or married, always abiding in You. We ask all this in the **powerful name of Jesus Christ**, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.
Brother or sister, we encourage you to **seek the Lord first** in this season. Spend time in His Word, pray fervently, and surround yourself with believers who will hold you accountable. If you are struggling with purity, loneliness, or doubt, bring it to Christ—He is faithful to strengthen and guide you (1 Corinthians 10:13). Trust that His plans for you are good, even when the wait is hard (Jeremiah 29:11).
If you’d like to discuss this further or need prayer for specific struggles, we are here to walk with you in truth and love. May the Lord bless you and keep you as you seek Him above all else.