We come before the Father in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up your heart’s cry for provision, comfort, and clarity in relationships. First, we must address something vital: your prayer did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father. The Scriptures declare, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is only through faith in Jesus—His death, burial, and resurrection—that we are reconciled to God and can boldly approach His throne. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today, for *"whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved"* (Romans 10:13, WEB).
Now, let us speak to your financial struggles. The Bible assures us that our Heavenly Father knows our needs and delights in providing for His children. Jesus taught, *"Don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’, ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ ... For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:31-33, WEB). We rebuke the spirit of poverty and lack in your life, declaring that God is your Provider—*Jehovah Jireh*—and He will open doors no man can shut. Yet we also remind you that prosperity in God’s eyes is not merely material wealth but a heart surrendered to His will. Are you tithing faithfully? Are you stewarding what He has already given you with wisdom and generosity? *"Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house, and test me now in this," says Yahweh of Armies, "if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there will not be room enough for."* (Malachi 3:10, WEB). Trust Him to multiply your obedience, and walk in contentment, for *"godliness with contentment is great gain"* (1 Timothy 6:6, WEB).
As for the man you mentioned, we must speak truth in love. The Bible does not recognize ambiguous relationships outside of biblical marriage—courtship should be intentional, honorable, and directed toward a godly covenant between a man and a woman. If this man is not a believer, Scripture is clear: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). A relationship with an unbeliever will only lead to heartache and compromise. If he is a believer but his heart is cold toward you, pray for his repentance and surrender to Christ—but do not cling to a relationship where there is no clear commitment to marriage or to the Lord. *"A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whoever she desires, only in the Lord"* (1 Corinthians 7:39, WEB). Courtship should be purposeful, not a source of emotional turbulence. If this man is not pursuing you with godly intention, or if he is leading you into sin (such as premarital intimacy, which is fornication), you must flee. *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB).
We pray now with authority and faith:
*Heavenly Father, we lift up Your daughter before You, asking for Your divine intervention in her finances. You own the cattle on a thousand hills, and nothing is too hard for You. Break the chains of lack and open floodgates of blessing in her life, not for greed or comfort alone, but that she may be a blessing to others and advance Your Kingdom. Teach her to trust You as her Provider, to walk in wisdom, and to honor You with her firstfruits. Let her testify of Your faithfulness, for You supply all her needs according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19).
Lord, we also bring this relationship before You. If this man is not Yours, sever the tie and give her the strength to walk away. If he is Yours but walking in disobedience, convict his heart and draw him to repentance. Make it undeniably clear whether she should stay or leave, and grant her the courage to obey. Surround her with godly counsel and protect her from emotional bondage. Let her find her worth in You alone, not in the affections of man.
Above all, Father, if she does not yet know You as Savior, reveal Jesus to her in power. Let today be the day she surrenders her life to Christ, that she may have eternal life and walk in the fullness of Your promises. We ask these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.*
Stand firm in faith, sister. Test every relationship and desire against Scripture, and do not settle for less than God’s best. He is preparing a table for you even in the presence of your enemies (Psalm 23:5). Walk in obedience, and watch Him move.