Favors, Blessing and Restoration

[Cralmilan]

Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life. Lord You see the instigation and satisfaction she gets for dividing and corrupting my family. Her counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting in daughter income for his use, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, puting there family before her own family, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her when her son mistreat her. She instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. They have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you in lifting your older daughter and your whole family before the throne of grace, and we stand with you in Jesus name for her swift deliverance and complete restoration. We hear the deep ache of a parent who has raised a child in the ways of the Lord and now watches her entangled in a relationship that is draining her spiritually, emotionally and financially, and we agree with you that this is not the plan God has for her.

We must speak clearly about what Scripture teaches concerning this living arrangement. To live together as if married while not married, to have children outside of marriage, and to treat cohabitation as marriage is not marriage in the eyes of God. This is fornication, and Scripture calls us to flee from it. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says flee sexual immorality, and Hebrews 13:4 says let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. A boyfriend or girlfriend relationship should be courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, not a substitute for marriage. Marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman that honors God, and any counsel that encourages your daughter to live as a wife without the covenant of marriage, to bear children outside that covenant, and to give her income and body and future to a man who is not her husband is ungodly counsel and must be rejected. We also agree that this young man is not a shepherd, not a provider and not a spiritual leader, and he is not ready for a godly marriage. 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness.

We discern with you the pattern you describe of manipulation, control, isolation and financial exploitation. This is a work of darkness that seeks to divide and isolate in order to control. Ephesians 5:11 tells us to have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them, and Proverbs 14:1 reminds us that every wise woman builds her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands. The counsel of this young man's mother has no biblical authority over your daughter, and her encouragement to put this man and his family before her own family, her faith, her church community and her work, to depend on her for guidance while she is being made to feel worthless, and to sustain a man through credit and her own labor, is rooted in selfishness, pride and jealousy. The enemy works through confusion, exhaustion and chaos, and 1 Peter 5:8 calls us to be sober and watchful because our adversary walks around like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour. We also see your daughter's coldness and rudeness toward you as fruit of this toxic influence, and we pray she will no longer imitate stubbornness, gossip and mocking but will return to a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful manner.

We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and in biblical boundaries. Continue to keep the door of love and truth open, but do not enable this ungodly arrangement as a marriage and do not continue to be used as a financial resource to sustain it. Give her wisdom to protect her finances and to take on no more debt for this man, for a man who will not provide and protect is not walking in his God given role. Surround yourself with your church family and pastoral counsel, and keep interceding that her eyes will be opened. James 1:5 promises if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. Isaiah 54:17 declares no weapon that is formed against you will prosper, and Psalm 34:17 says the righteous cry, and the Lord hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles.

We now pray together.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we have access to You and no other name by which we are saved, and we thank You that Your Son shed His precious blood for us. John 14:6 tells us Jesus is the way, the truth and the life, and no one comes to the Father except through Him. We plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and her children and ask for Your supernatural protection and favor to overflow in this family.

Lord, we ask You to expose and frustrate every plan, scheme and word curse meant to control, divide and isolate this precious daughter from her mother, her siblings, her family and her church friends. Bring into the light every manipulative motive and selfish counsel, and break every chain that holds her. We pray You would remove swiftly the overreach of this young man's mother and silence every voice that contradicts Your Word. Ephesians 5:13 says whatever is exposed by the light is made visible.

Holy Spirit, soften this daughter's heart to receive Your conviction and grant her courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Open her eyes to see this young man as he truly is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block to her walk with You. Let her see that her exhaustion, forgetfulness, financial hardship and chaos are fruit of living outside of marriage in disobedience to Your design. Give her wisdom to stop defending and admiring this relationship, to stop taking on responsibilities that are not hers to bear, to stop confiding in one who does not respect her, and to stop putting this man and his family before her faith, her family and the work You have given her. We thank You for the promotion You blessed her with last month, and we ask You to protect her job from interference and let it continue to be a beautiful purpose for others.

Father, remind her that she is not homeless and does not need this woman's approval, that she belongs to You as a child of the Most High God and not to this man and his family. Restore to her the knowledge of her worth in You, fill her with Your Holy Spirit, and reignite a hunger for righteousness. Help her to protect her finances, to take on no more credit to support this lifestyle, and to honor You with her body and her resources. We pray this young man and his mother would be convicted of their controlling, dishonest and rebellious ways, that his father would take godly responsibility and that this son would be called to step away and learn to walk rightly before he would ever consider pursuing a godly marriage. If it is Your will, in Your perfect timing, bring to this daughter a godly spouse, a man who will love her as Christ loves the church and lead her in truth.

Lord, heal the brokenness in this family, restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom, and block every attempt to bring hatred and manipulation into times of visitation. We declare that this daughter will return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community, that she will follow biblical teaching again, and that she will be grateful and considerate. We trust that nothing is impossible for You and that You are able to bring her out of darkness and into Your marvelous light.

We ask all of this in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.

 

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We hear how heavy this has been for you as a mother, watching your older daughter grow exhausted and isolated while feeling unable to reach her. It makes sense you are worn down by the coldness and disrespect you have experienced, and that you are holding both love for your daughter and grief over the distance that has grown between you.

We notice you named her isolation from supportive family and church friends as a central concern, and that is often where steady help can begin. One way we think about this is boundaries as property lines, what a person needs to own and protect to stay healthy and free, like her time, finances, choices, and relationships. When those lines get blurred by control or pressure, it becomes hard for someone to hear her own wisdom.

What has helped other families in a similar place is to keep a gentle, consistent connection open without pressuring every conversation toward the relationship itself, so your daughter still has a safe place to turn. It can also help to talk with a trusted pastor or Christian counselor yourself for wisdom on how to respond calmly, protect family finances, and plan next steps if you are ever worried for her safety. If exhaustion or other health concerns continue, we encourage her to see a medical professional alongside prayer.

We are praying with you.

Father, in Jesus name we ask You to surround this mother and her daughter with Your protection and peace. Give this daughter clarity, courage and wisdom to see her worth in You and to make safe, healthy decisions, guard her work and finances, and restore her connection to family and church community. Comfort this mother, renew her strength, and guide them both toward healing and unity. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Alisha Kirshman]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been brought before the Lord with a heavy and burdened heart, and we join you in earnest supplication for your older daughter and for your household. We have carried your griefs to the throne of grace, where there is a well in the family to bring all the necessities of the household before God, mentioning each child and every trouble of the past and every expected difficulty of the coming day.

We hear the sorrow of a mother who has raised her daughter in the ways of the Lord, and now sees her wearied, exhausted, forgetful, living in chaos, isolated from her supportive family and her church friends, and bound in a living arrangement that is called a marriage though it is not. We do not ask the Lord to bless what His Word does not call blessed. Marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and purity before and faithfulness within it belong to His good design. To live together outside that covenant, to bear children outside it, and to treat such an arrangement as marriage is not according to His will, and therefore we will not ask Him to establish it. Instead we ask Him for what He delights to give, which is deliverance, conviction, repentance, and restoration.

Deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin. It is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He alone brings forth His people, and He makes their deliverance effectual. This deliverance came when the Lamb was slain, for God has found a ransom and has said, I have found a ransom. There is a higher restoration than any outward change, and the clock of mercy strikes in Heaven the hour and moment of deliverance according to His eternal purpose.

We pray therefore that the Lord will deliver your daughter from the power of darkness and translate her afresh into the kingdom of His dear Son. We ask that He will open her eyes to see this young man not as a husband, not as a provider, not as a spiritual shepherd, but as a stumbling block in her walk with Christ. We pray that every chain be broken, every word curse blocked and frustrated, every scheme and plot exposed and brought to nothing. We ask that the Lord frustrate every plan to control, divide, and isolate her from you, from her siblings, and from the fellowship of the saints, and that He expose motives rooted in pride, selfishness, jealousy and manipulation.

We pray for Peter's restoration to be hers. As Peter was restored not by his own resolve but by the crowing of the cock and a look from the Lord that severed him from the crowd, so we pray the Lord will grant your daughter such a look from Christ, that she may weep in repentance, remember who she is as a child of the Most High God, and be turned again to her first love and earliest zeal. We pray that she will no longer defend or admire this bondage, nor take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear, nor imitate stubbornness, gossiping and mocking toward her family. We ask the Holy Spirit to soften her heart to receive conviction, to restore to her a grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner, to reignite a hunger for righteousness, and to give her wisdom, self worth and courage to walk away swiftly with no regrets.

We pray also for practical deliverance. Give her wisdom to protect her finances, to no longer be exploited or used as a resource for another's needs, and to take on no more credit card debt to sustain this toxic manner of life. Guard her newly promoted employment, which we thank God for, and which serves such a beautiful purpose for others, and frustrate every attempt to interfere with it or to draw her away from it. Guide her to return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community, and to cease confiding in those who do not respect her and who counsel her contrary to Scripture.

We pray for you who have endured coldness and rudeness and ingratitude from one you love. The Lord has chastened you sorely, but He has not given you over unto death. May He whisper to your heart sweet assurance of coming deliverance, that you shall not be crushed, and keep you in peace within your borders. We plead the precious blood of Christ over you and your children, that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and we ask for supernatural love, favor and protection to overflow in your home, healing all brokenness and restoring peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. When your daughter comes to visit, we pray she will not be influenced by hatred and manipulation toward you and her siblings, but will find again the warmth of a loving, supportive family.

We pray that the young man's mother and father may be led to care for their own household according to godliness, that the young man may be called to account and to honest labor, and that all enabling of disrespect and corruption may cease. Above all we pray your daughter will put her faith and trust in Jesus Christ alone, for there is no other name by which we must be saved, and that in His time, if it be His will, He would grant her a godly spouse who will lead as Christ leads His church. Until then, may she be kept in purity and in light.

We will continue to bear you up before the Lord, trusting that He who has delivered will yet deliver, and that you will live to declare the works of the Lord. If we had no troubles we would have less to declare, but those who have known the pit know also the joy of being brought forth with enrichment by Free Grace only. May that joy be yours and your daughter's, to the praise of His glorious grace. In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope and ransom we pray, Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

Your heartfelt prayer has been heard and we join you in bringing your older daughter before the Lord with urgency and love. We see the weight you have carried for years, the sorrow over division in your family, the exhaustion and isolation you describe in your daughter, and the grief of watching her walk away from the faith and wisdom in which you raised her. God sees all of this clearly and He is not distant from your suffering.

We pray with you that the Lord will open your daughter's eyes to the truth and rescue her from this ungodly situation. Living together outside of marriage and treating that arrangement as if it were marriage is not God's design. Marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and life together and intimacy belong within that covenant alone. We do not ask God to bless what is outside His will, but we do ask Him to grant repentance, deliverance and restoration. We pray that He will deliver your daughter from evil and supply what is good, that she would remember who she is in Christ. By faith in Jesus Christ alone we become children of God, putting on Christ and receiving the Spirit of adoption, and we pray your daughter will remember she is a daughter of the Most High, loved, valued, and belonging to Him, not to any controlling influence.

We join you in asking that every scheme to control, divide, isolate and exploit her would be exposed and frustrated. We pray that the hold of manipulation, dishonesty, laziness and disrespect would be broken, that the financial exploitation and pressure to support this young man would cease, and that she would be given wisdom to protect her finances and to refuse credit and burdens that are not hers to bear. We pray that the Lord would block every harmful word spoken over her and break every chain that keeps her feeling worthless and without family, when in truth she has a loving family and a church community that longs to support her.

As you have prayed, we ask that your daughter would no longer imitate stubbornness, gossip or mocking toward her family, but that the Holy Spirit would fill her and restore a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful heart. Scripture teaches that daughters often form their ways by what they see and hear, and we pray she will again look to godly patterns and turn away from counsel that encourages sin. We pray she will stop confiding in voices that flatter her while leading her away from her faith, her family and her church, and that her hunger for righteousness would be reignited. We thank God with you for the promotion He has given her in her work and we pray for His protection over that good gift, that no interference would harm it and that she would steward it with clarity and peace.

We also pray for you, that the Lord would soften your daughter's heart toward you and grant you strength when you feel you cannot bear her coldness and rudeness any longer. The Lord knows what it is to be weighed down beyond strength, and He is faithful to deliver. Like the woman whose great faith brought healing to her daughter, your faithful prayers matter before God. We ask Him to say over your daughter, daughter be of good cheer, thy faith hath made thee whole, and to bring her back into the light, into fellowship with her family and her church.

We pray that this young man and his mother would be brought to conviction, that they would see where they have enabled disrespect and division, and that the young man's father would take proper responsibility for his own household. Above all we pray your daughter would be given courage to walk away from this bondage swiftly and without regret, to return to biblical teaching, to put her faith and her family in right order, and to wait on the Lord for a godly spouse in His time if it is His will, rather than remain in a relationship where this man acts as a husband and spiritual leader when he is not.

We plead the blood of Christ over you and your children and ask for the peace, unity, respect and joy that comes from walking in His light. May the Lord overflow your home with His love, favor and protection, heal what is broken, and guide your daughter home to Himself and to the safety and wisdom of those who love her most.