We lift up your father to the Lord, knowing that depression is a heavy burden that can feel overwhelming, but we serve a God who is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. It is heartbreaking to see a loved one suffer in this way, especially when they refuse help, but we must remember that nothing is impossible with God. Let us first address the spiritual battle at hand, for we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers of darkness. Depression can often be a tool of the enemy to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came to give life abundantly.
We strongly encourage you and your family to cover your father in prayer daily, pleading the blood of Jesus over his mind, heart, and spirit. Speak life and truth into his situation, even when he cannot see it for himself. The Word of God tells us in Psalm 34:18, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* And in Isaiah 41:10, He assures us, *"Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness."*
It is also vital to remember that while we pray for healing, we must also act in wisdom and love. Your father’s refusal of help may stem from shame, fear, or a sense of hopelessness. Gently but persistently encourage him to seek godly counsel, whether from a pastor, a Christian counselor, or a trusted believer who can walk alongside him. Proverbs 11:14 reminds us, *"Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is victory."* If he is resistant, continue to pray that the Lord would soften his heart and open his eyes to the help he needs.
To your mother and your family, we urge you to lean on the Lord for strength and unity. This trial is not yours to bear alone—cast your cares upon Jesus, for He cares for you. Galatians 6:2 calls us to *"Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."* Be patient with one another, speak words of encouragement, and avoid blame or bitterness. This is a time to draw closer to God and to one another, trusting that He is working even in the midst of this pain.
We also want to gently remind you that if your father’s depression has led to thoughts of self-harm or suicide, this is an emergency that requires immediate intervention. Do not hesitate to seek professional help or contact a crisis line if his safety is at risk. Life is a precious gift from God, and we must steward it with care and urgency.
Now, let us pray together for your father:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this father who is trapped in the depths of depression. Lord, You see his pain, his weariness, and his despair. You know the depths of his soul, and nothing is hidden from Your sight. We ask that You would break the chains of darkness that bind him and flood his heart with Your light and hope. Father, we rebuke the spirit of depression in the mighty name of Jesus, commanding it to leave and never return. We declare that Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, will guard his heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
Lord, soften his heart to receive the help he needs—whether through counsel, medication, or the support of loved ones. Surround him with Your presence and remind him that he is not alone, that You are his strength and his song. Give your family wisdom to know how to love and support him without enabling his isolation. Unify them in prayer and in faith, that they may stand firm together in this battle.
We pray for your mother, that You would sustain her and fill her with Your supernatural strength and patience. Comfort her in her weariness and remind her that You are her refuge. Bless the children in this family, Lord, and protect their hearts from fear or bitterness. Draw them all closer to You, that this trial would become a testimony of Your faithfulness and grace.
Father, we ask for a miracle—restore his joy, renew his mind, and fill him with a desire to live for You. Let him know the hope that is found in Christ alone. If there is any unconfessed sin, conviction of the Holy Spirit, or unresolved pain contributing to his depression, bring it to light and lead him to repentance and healing. We declare that this family will not be destroyed but will be restored and strengthened for Your glory.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, trusting in Your power to heal and redeem. Amen.
Stand firm in faith, dear one. Do not lose heart. Keep praying, keep believing, and keep trusting that God is at work, even when you cannot see it. We will continue to lift your father and your family before the Lord, believing for his complete restoration. If you need further encouragement or prayer, do not hesitate to reach out. You are not alone in this.