We stand with you in this time of deep affliction, and we are grieved to hear of the abuse and suffering you are enduring. No one should ever have to endure such cruelty, especially in what should be a place of safety. We commend you for crying out to the Father in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we find true refuge, strength, and deliverance. The Scriptures remind us that the Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). He is your defender, your shield, and your strong tower (Psalm 18:2).
The behavior you describe is not only sinful but criminal, and it is an abomination in the sight of God. The Word tells us, *"Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good"* (Romans 12:21), but it also makes clear that we are not to remain in situations where evil is allowed to reign unchecked. Proverbs 22:24-25 warns, *"Do not befriend a hot-tempered person, or associate with one who harbors anger, lest you learn their ways and ensnare yourself."* This man’s actions are fueled by drunkenness, which the Bible explicitly condemns: *"Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to reckless indiscretion. Instead, be filled with the Spirit"* (Ephesians 5:18). His behavior is not only destructive to you but is an affront to God Himself, who calls men to love and protect, not to harm and dominate.
You have every right—and indeed, a biblical responsibility—to seek safety for yourself and your daughter. The Lord does not call His children to endure abuse as though it were a cross to bear. Instead, He commands us to flee from evil and to take refuge in Him. First Corinthians 6:18-20 reminds us that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, and we are to honor God with them. Allowing someone to physically harm you or your child is not honoring to God, nor is it His will for your life. If you are able, we strongly urge you to remove yourself and your daughter from this dangerous environment immediately. Seek help from trusted believers, local authorities, or organizations that can provide shelter and protection. The Lord will provide a way of escape (1 Corinthians 10:13), but you must take the steps He places before you.
We also recognize the weariness in your words—sleeping on a cold floor, living in fear, and carrying the weight of this burden alone. Jesus says, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28). He sees your suffering, and He is moving on your behalf. The psalmist declares, *"The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble"* (Psalm 9:9). Cling to this promise, sister. You are not forgotten.
As for this man, we join you in rebuking the spirit of violence, drunkenness, and wickedness that has taken hold of him. The Word says, *"The Lord tests the righteous and the wicked. His soul hates those who love violence"* (Psalm 11:5). We declare that his hands are stayed, his heart is convicted, and his actions are exposed. We plead the blood of Jesus over this situation, breaking every chain of addiction, anger, and demonic influence in his life. May the Lord bring him to repentance, but even more urgently, may He remove this man far from you and your daughter. The Scripture is clear: *"The Lord will rescue me from every evil deed and will bring me safely into his heavenly Kingdom. To him be the glory forever and ever. Amen"* (2 Timothy 4:18).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is crying out to You in her distress. Lord, You are a God of justice, mercy, and deliverance, and we ask that You move powerfully in this situation. Protect her and her daughter from every harm, every violent hand, and every wicked scheme of the enemy. Surround them with Your angels, Lord, and hide them under the shadow of Your wings (Psalm 91:4). Grant her the strength to act swiftly and wisely, to find safety and refuge away from this danger. Provide for her every need—shelter, warmth, peace, and provision—as only You can.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of violence, addiction, and hatred that has taken hold of this man. Break his grip over our sister and her child. Convict him deeply of his sins, Lord, and bring him to repentance if it is Your will. But even now, we declare that his influence in their lives is severed. Remove him far from them, Lord, and let him trouble them no more. Let every plan of the enemy against them be thwarted, every weapon formed against them fail (Isaiah 54:17).
Lord, we ask that You restore our sister’s hope, her peace, and her joy. Heal the wounds in her heart and body, and let her know that she is seen, loved, and valued by You. Give her wisdom to navigate this season, and surround her with godly support—people who will stand with her, pray with her, and help her to safety. Let her daughter be shielded from trauma, and let both of them experience Your comfort in ways they never have before.
We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper. The blood of Jesus covers them, and they are hidden in Christ. Father, let Your will be done in this situation—let Your justice prevail, let Your mercy be shown, and let Your deliverance come swiftly. We trust You, Lord, and we thank You in advance for the victory You are bringing.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
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Our sister, we urge you to take action today. Reach out to a local church, a women’s shelter, or a trusted believer who can help you leave this dangerous situation. You are not meant to walk this path alone. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and there are people who will help you if you let them. If you are in immediate danger, please contact local authorities or emergency services without delay. The Lord is with you, and He is making a way where there seems to be no way. Trust Him, and take the steps He leads you to take. We are praying for you and standing with you in faith.
