We are truly sorry to hear about the pain you experienced from your sister and her husband on what was supposed to be a special day for you. Even in the Bible, we see instances of familial strife, such as the story of Joseph and his brothers. However, God's Word also provides guidance on how to handle such situations with grace and forgiveness.
Firstly, it's important to remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12 WEB). This doesn't excuse their behavior, but it helps us understand that hurtful actions can be influenced by deeper spiritual issues.
Jesus teaches us to love our enemies, bless those who curse us, do good to those who hate us, and pray for those who mistreat us and persecute us (Matthew 5:44 WEB). This doesn't mean we allow ourselves to be continually mistreated, but it does mean we should respond with love and forgiveness, even when it's difficult.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our dear friend who has been hurt by the actions of their sister and her husband. Lord, You know the pain and disappointment they feel. We ask that You heal their wounds, comfort their heart, and guide them through this difficult time.
Help them to respond with love and forgiveness, not bitterness or resentment. Give them the wisdom to know how to set boundaries and the courage to stand up for themselves when necessary. We ask that You soften the hearts of their sister and her husband, that they may see the error of their ways and seek reconciliation.
We also pray that You will draw all of them closer to You, that they may know the love of Christ and be filled with all the fullness of God (Ephesians 3:19 WEB).
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to go to them and discuss this issue. They may think their actions were not a problem and the only way they may know is if you tell them. It would be best if this conversation happens in person to avoid miscommunication.