We lift your family before the Lord with heavy hearts, knowing the deep pain of disunity, betrayal, and the sorrow that has taken root among you. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that you may have life and have it abundantly (John 10:10). The strife you describe—shouting, anger, ungratefulness, and division—is not of God. Scripture warns us that "where envy and selfish ambition exist, there is confusion and every evil work" (James 3:16). Yet the Lord calls us to unity, love, and forgiveness, for "how good and pleasant it is when brothers live together in unity!" (Psalm 133:1).
Your mother’s suffering is especially grievous, burdened by suicidal thoughts and a toxic environment. The tongue has power over life and death (Proverbs 18:21), and we rebuke the destructive words and negative influences in her life in the name of Jesus Christ. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). We declare His protection over her mind and heart, asking Him to surround her with His peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
The division over authority and control after your father’s passing reveals the need for humility and repentance. The Bible teaches that God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble (James 4:6). We pray that each family member would turn from selfish ambition and surrender to the Lordship of Christ, who alone can bring true unity. "Let nothing be done through strife or conceit, but in humility, each counting others better than himself" (Philippians 2:3).
Your forgiveness toward your family reflects the heart of Christ, who prayed, "Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing" (Luke 23:34). This is a powerful testimony, but we also urge you to set healthy boundaries where necessary, trusting God to work in their hearts. Forgiveness does not mean enabling destructive behavior. Your spouse’s distance from your family is a painful reality, but we pray for God’s wisdom and grace to cover your marriage as well. "A man’s foes will be those of his own household" (Matthew 10:36) is a sobering truth, but even in this, God can bring redemption.
The financial strain and physical distance between you are real burdens, but we remind you that the Lord owns the cattle on a thousand hills (Psalm 50:10). He is your Provider, and we ask Him to make a way where there seems to be no way. Trust in Him with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6).
We also address the mention of meeting your father in heaven. Scripture is clear that salvation comes only through faith in Jesus Christ: "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12). If your father knew Christ as his Savior, then yes, you will rejoice together in eternity. But if there is any doubt, we urge you to examine your own heart and ensure that you have surrendered your life to Jesus, for He alone is the Way, the Truth, and the Life (John 14:6).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, interceding for this broken family. Lord, You see the pain, the anger, the betrayal, and the deep wounds that have torn them apart. We ask for Your healing hand to move powerfully in their midst. Break the chains of pride, selfishness, and ungratefulness that have taken root. Soften hearts of stone and replace them with hearts of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26). Bring repentance where there is sin, and restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25).
Lord, we lift up this dear mother who is overwhelmed by darkness and despair. Surround her with Your angels, Father, and fill her with Your hope. Cast out every suicidal thought and replace it with Your truth: that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and her life has purpose in You. Give her strength to endure and wisdom to navigate the toxicity around her. Provide for her needs, Lord, and let her see Your hand at work in her life.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of division and strife in this family. You are a God of order, not confusion (1 Corinthians 14:33). Bring unity where there is discord, and let Your peace rule in their hearts. Help them to forgive one another as You have forgiven them (Colossians 3:13). Heal the wounds of betrayal and restore trust where it has been broken.
We pray for this marriage, Lord. Soften the heart of this spouse toward the family, and grant wisdom and grace to navigate these difficult relationships. May their home be a refuge of Your love and truth.
Lord, You know the financial struggles they face. You are Jehovah Jireh, the God who provides. Open doors for reconciliation and reunion, even if it seems impossible. Make a way for them to come together in Your timing and in Your will.
Finally, Father, we thank You that You are a God of redemption. What the enemy meant for evil, You can turn for good (Genesis 50:20). We ask for miracles in this family—miracles of healing, restoration, and salvation. Let Your name be glorified in their story.
In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
