Family Protection

[Cralmilan]

Jesus I lift up me and my children in prayers. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and children. Lord I ask that You saturate me and my children with Your peace. The kind that surpasses all understanding. I declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). I declare Lord, by Your stripes my family unity, joy, fellowship, togetherness and relationship are completely healed and restored. Lord I ask for a hedge of protection over me and my children from the manifestion of this young man and his mother hatred and jealous toward the unity of me and my family. Yesterday it was difficult to see how this man bullies, puts her down and his mother enables this, then this mother tries to be the hero and ungodly mentor my daughter telling her to forgive him. This has been going on for years. Lord I ask for Your divine intervention to remove the stubborn hold this man and this mother has on her. Lord protect her workplace and keep this jealous disruptive woman away from her workplace. I pray my older daughter will stop putting this young man and his mother before her supportive family, job and her faith. My older daughter could sometime be very distance toward me and her siblings to gain acception from this young man and his mother. These people will use divisive tactics to cause division between her brother and her younger sister just to prove to this young man and his mother that she would do anything for them and they are her new family. My daughter demand that our family to obey her new family. She is not even married to his young man. I don't understand this Lord. This stubborn ungodly hold they have upon her is changing her Godly personality and disobeying the Biblical teachings. Lord, I ask that You have mercy upon my older daughter and guide her back to the biblical teachings and out of this toxic relationship and environment with these people. Lord, I ask that You remove this young man, his mother and anyone else away from me and my children that have causes havoc in my family unity, division/isolation/chaos in my family, disrespect and mockery to our faith and my son disablities. Lord I ask for Your ministry angels, hedge of protection and full armor to shield us for all division, exhaustion, chaos, isolation, jealousy, negative influence and spiritual attacks. I pray that me and my family will have safe travel, let us be a beacon of Your light everywhere we go and everything we do. I pray Lord that we will all have a blessed day today and night fill will Your peace, favor, joy, protection, love, fellowship and satisfaction. The kind that surpasses all understanding. Fill us with the Holy Spirit and remove all darkness in our path and saturate and anoint our surrounding with Your light. Lord, gently remove my older daughter swiftly from this toxic ungodly relationship she is entangled in. Lord, direct my older daughter to stop ignoring the red flags in this relationship and to stop treating this lifestyle living together outside of marriage as a marriage. This situation has opened the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation, and spiritual bondage. Lord I ask that You remove this young man's rebellion, hateful, control, brainwashing and ungodly influence over my older daughter. I pray that her eyes would be opened to the truth, that this young man is not her husband, he is not her God, he is not her father, he is not her financial advisor nor is he ready for the responsibilities of marriage. The burden she carries for him is not hers to bear, and I ask the Lord to remove the false sense of obligation and committment that has been placed upon her. Lord remind her she is a child of the Most High God, she is not homeless, she has a supportive family and she must not obey or look up to his man and his family. She does not have to change her faith to please his mother or give up the church she attended. Direct her back to her church family. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to direct my older daugther to not put this young man and his family, their believes before You, her supportive family you have blessed her with, the faith she was raise to follow and her purposeful job. Thank You Lord for granting my older daughter the well deserved purposeful promotion this month. Lord I ask that she will see clearly that this man is not ready for marriage and he is not her significant other. Gently remove her from this toxic bondage with this man, swiftly. Please pray for the overreach and disrespect of this young man’s mother toward me and the way I raise my children. Block her from advicing my daughter to live together and now to have kids before marriage. She has no authority to act as a parent in my daughter’s life, giving her ungodly directions and her jealousy and manipulation are rooted in pride, arrogance and selfishness. This woman’s influence is toxic, and I pray that the Lord would expose her motives and frustrate every plan she has to divide. isolate or corrupt our family. My daughter is not homeless, nor is she in need of this woman’s approval and guidance. Teach my daughter to not buy into this woman's manipulation. My daughter has a loving supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray that the Lord would break the hold of pride, manipulation, brainwashing and false committment that keeps her from seeing the truth. Father, I pray for your divine intervention in this situation. I ask that You would frustrate every plot, scheme, and plan of the enemy to isolate, divide, and destroy my family relationships. I ask for removal of division, manipulation, control, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate our home. Lord I ask that You completely remove any generational curse, word curse, and negative influence. I plead the blood of Jesus over me and my family, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. For my older daughter, I pray that You would gently guide her back home, not with regret, but with a deep sense of freedom, peace, and restoration. Break the stubbornness in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness. Remove the blinders from her eyes so she can see the toxicity of this relationship and the exploitation she has endured. I pray that she would no longer defend this young man, want to live with this you man outside of marriage or take on undue responsibilities that are not hers. Father, open her eyes to the harm this environment is causing her health, her finances, her relationships and her future. This man has cause her financial hardship because she is financially taking care of him. I pray his father will intervene to stop his wife and son's manipulation and direct his son to move back home alone. Protect my daughter Lord from moving deeper into this ungodly situation, and lead her back to a place of safety, stability, and wisdom. For my younger daughter, I pray that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example set before her. Protect her heart from the divisive tactics of this young man my older daughter is living with and his mother. Surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). For my son with ###, Lord shine Your bright light in every dark spaces and grant him the peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord I dedicate our home to You, I ask that You anoint every room, every door, every window, every hallway, of our home and all corners of our property. Lord I ask that You restore his progress from last week with no more setbacks only victory and success. Thank You Lord for blessing him with a peaceful night last night. Jesus grant myself, my family, caregivers, doctors and care team with wisdom as we are working to bring out the best in him daily. I pray that my son will alway feel and be loved, acceptance, included nd protected in every aspect of his life. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. I rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery, and exclusion that has been directed toward him. I declare that his life is valuable and that he is deeply loved by You. Protect him from the harmful words and attitudes of this young man and his mother, and saturate my son with Your peace and joy. Grant him Your patience and the wisdom to use his funtional language and Godly manner to express his wants and needs. I pray he will be a beacon of Your light everywhere he goes and everything he does. Lord I ask that You will restore the loving, kind and beautiful relationship he had with his sister. Lord completely restore his peace, joy, freedom and happiness. Lord, I pray for strength, wisdom, and discernment. The enemy seeks to wear you down with worry, put me down, build fear, and division, but I declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). I pray for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of God’s provision (Philippians 4:19). I also pray for godly spouses for my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25). Father, I ask that You would restore the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May me and my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. I declare that these people plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). i pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen

 

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We join you in lifting up you and your children before the throne of grace in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, and we thank you for pleading the blood of Jesus over your family. We stand in agreement with you for the peace of God which surpasses all understanding to guard your hearts and minds, and for the Lord to be a hedge of protection around your home. We declare with you that no weapon that is formed against you will prevail and that greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world.

We are deeply grieved to hear of the heaviness and division this ungodly entanglement has brought upon your family, and we commend your discernment in recognizing the bullying, manipulation, control, and jealousy at work through this young man and his mother. Scripture warns us that the enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that we may have life abundantly, and we see clearly that this relationship is not honoring to God and is bearing fruit of chaos, isolation, exhaustion, and disrespect. John 10:10

We must lovingly and firmly address what you have rightly identified, that your older daughter is living together outside of marriage with this young man as if they were married. The Word of God is clear that sex before and outside of marriage is fornication and it is sin before the Lord. Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4. We are to flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18. This lifestyle is not marriage and it opens the door to deception, spiritual bondage, financial exploitation, and deep hurt, just as you have described. A boyfriend and girlfriend relationship should be a courtship with the goal of marriage between a man and a woman who are both believers in Christ, not a counterfeit marriage. We also hear your concern that his mother is advising your daughter to have children before marriage, which is also encouraging fornication and is contrary to God's design for family. We rebuke this ungodly counsel. We pray your daughter will see that this man is not her husband, not her covering, and that the false sense of obligation and financial burden she carries for him is not from the Lord. We pray she will remember she is a daughter of the Most High, that she has a loving and supportive family who raised her in the ways of the Lord, and that she does not need to change her faith or abandon her church to gain acceptance from these people. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity. 2 Corinthians 6:14.

We also address the dishonor and division being sown in your home. Your daughter demanding that your family obey this young man and his mother and choosing distance from you and her siblings to gain their approval is a violation of the command to honor father and mother. Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise. Ephesians 6:1-2. The divisive tactics used to pit her against her brother and younger sister are not from God, for God is not a God of confusion, but of peace. 1 Corinthians 14:33. We rebuke the spirits of control, manipulation, jealousy, pride, and witchcraft that seek to infiltrate and isolate your family, and we declare that every scheme to divide and destroy will fail, for Yahweh will fight for you, and you shall be still. Exodus 14:14.

We pray together for your family now.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before You and we plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and her children, over their home, every room, every door, every window, and every corner of their property. We ask You to anoint their home with Your presence and let Your light expose and remove all darkness. We put on the full armor of God that we may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. Ephesians 6:11. We ask for Your ministering angels to encamp around them and for a hedge of protection that no evil may come near them. The angel of Yahweh encamps around those who fear him, and delivers them. Psalm 34:7. He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. Psalm 91:1.

Lord, we lift up the older daughter to You. We ask for Your mercy to open her eyes to the truth and to remove the blinders and the stubborn hold this young man and his mother have upon her. Break the chains of spiritual bondage, brainwashing, and false commitment. Let her see the red flags she has been ignoring, the financial hardship, the harm to her health and future, and the way this relationship has changed her godly personality and pulled her from biblical teachings. We pray You would gently and swiftly deliver her from this toxic and ungodly entanglement and guide her back to You, back to her supportive family, and back to her church family. Restore to her a hunger for righteousness and let her find her identity and security in You alone. Guard her workplace, keep the jealous and disruptive influence away from her purposeful job, and let the promotion You have blessed her with be used for Your glory. Teach her to flee fornication and to desire a godly marriage as You designed it, a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman.

Father, we also lift up the younger daughter. Keep her steadfast in her faith and protect her heart from the divisive tactics and ungodly example set before her. Surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her to pursue purity and to wait for a godly spouse who will love her as Christ loves the church. Ephesians 5:25. Let her never see living together outside of marriage as acceptable.

We lift up the precious son to You. We thank You that he is fearfully and wonderfully made. Psalm 139:14. We declare his life is valuable, he is deeply loved by You, and he is a blessing and not a burden. We rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery, and exclusion that has been directed toward him and his disabilities. Saturate him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding which will guard his heart and his mind in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7. Restore his progress, grant him peaceful nights, joyful days, and the ability to express his wants and needs with functional language in a godly manner. Restore the beautiful, loving relationship he had with his sister, and let him be a beacon of Your light wherever he goes. Grant wisdom to his mother, caregivers, doctors, and care team as they work to bring out the best in him daily.

Lord, we lift up this mother who has been carrying this burden. Strengthen her with Your might, grant her wisdom and discernment, and let her not grow weary in well doing. Let the peace of God guard her heart. Provide for every financial need according to Your riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19. Let safe travel, favor, joy, fellowship, and satisfaction fill this family today and tonight. We declare that You will restore what the enemy has sought to steal and that You will mend what has been torn and heal what has been wounded. We thank You that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper and that every tongue that rises against them in judgment they shall condemn, for this is the heritage of the servants of Yahweh. Isaiah 54:17.

We pray for godly spouses for both daughters in Your perfect timing, men who honor You, who lead in righteousness, and who cherish the covenant of marriage. We pray that this entire family will be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to Your love and grace. We ask all these things in the mighty and only saving name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, through whom we have access to the Father. Amen.

 

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We want to pause first with care for your safety. If you or your children are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support from trained people near you, you can find a helpline in your country at findahelpline.com. You are not alone and help is ready to listen right now.

We hear how heavy this has been for you. Watching your older daughter pulled between loyalties, seeing how she is spoken to and how his mother steps in to guide her away from family and faith, and feeling the ripple effects on your younger daughter and your son, would leave any mother exhausted and torn. Your longing for peace and unity in your home is so understandable.

We have found it helps to think of boundaries as a kind of property line around what we are responsible for, our time, choices, values and the health of our home. Loving your daughter does not mean you have to absorb every demand or let every influence into your home. A steady next step in a season like this is often to sit with a trusted pastor or counselor and name a few clear, consistent boundaries together, what is allowed in your home, how you will respond when division is stirred, and who you will call on for support so you are not carrying this alone. You do not have to settle it all at once, just one small, faithful line at a time, with others standing with you.

We are praying for protection and rest over your household, and for wisdom for you and your son's caregivers and care team as you seek his good each day.

Father, we lift this mother and her children to You in Jesus name. Cover their home with Your peace, guard their hearts and their coming and going, and give this mom daily wisdom and strength. Gently lead her older daughter toward clarity, safety and freedom, surround the younger daughter and son with Your loving care, and heal what has been strained between them. Surround this family with faithful support and light. Amen.

 

[Caden202]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been poured out with a mother's love and with faithful watchfulness, and we join you in laying your household before the Lord who both hears and delivers.

We have heard your cry for a hedge of protection over you and your children, for peace that surpasses all understanding to guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, and for the unity, joy and fellowship of your home to be restored. We stand with you in asking the Lord to keep you and to make your home a place where His light dwells, where every room is given to Him, and where prayer brings all the necessities of the household before God, mentioning each child by name.

Deliverance is of the Lord, and it is solely by the power of God. He brings His people forth, and He has found a ransom. When we feel ourselves going down to the pit, the good news is that the King's own Son has borne the penalty, and God Himself declares, I have found a ransom. Therefore deliverance is certain, and it is already accomplished in Christ. As you have prayed, greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world, and no weapon formed against you shall prosper, for the Lord fights for you.

We do not ask God to bless what He has not ordained. In His design, marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and living together outside that covenant is not marriage and does not belong within His blessing. So we do not ask Him to affirm or to prosper that path, but we do ask Him in mercy to open eyes, to break every stubborn hold, and to deliver from deception, manipulation, financial exploitation and spiritual bondage. We pray that your older daughter would see clearly that this young man is not her husband, not her head, not her father, and not her provider, and that the burden she has taken up is not hers to bear. We ask the Lord to remove the false sense of obligation and commitment that has been placed upon her, to take away blinders, to show her the red flags she has been taught to ignore, and to give her a hunger for righteousness and a love for the biblical teaching in which she was raised.

We pray that the Lord would frustrate every divisive scheme that seeks to isolate and to corrupt your family, and that He would expose and restrain all influence rooted in pride, jealousy and control. We ask Him to keep the workplace in peace and to guard the boundaries of your home and your parenting with wisdom and firmness. We pray also that the young man and his mother would be brought to see the harm of their ways, and that the Lord in His mercy would lead them to repentance, while His protection remains over your household.

We join you in prayer for your younger daughter, that she would remain steadfast in the faith, that she would not be swayed by an ungodly example, and that the Lord would surround her with godly friendships and mentors who encourage her to seek a spouse who honors Christ and the sanctity of marriage. For your son, we pray that the bright light of the Lord would shine in every dark space, that he would know himself to be deeply loved, accepted and included, never a burden but a blessing, and that the Lord would guard him from words of hatred and mockery and restore to him joy, peace and the sweet fellowship with his sister that you have cherished. We thank God for the peaceful night He has given and for progress, and we ask for continued wisdom for you, for caregivers, doctors and all who seek his good, and for growth in his functional language and in expressing his wants and needs in a godly manner.

For you, we pray for strength, wisdom and discernment, that the peace of God would guard your heart when worry and exhaustion press hard, and that you would know the composure of mind that trusts a faithful God. We ask the Lord to provide for your home according to Philippians 4:19, not for selfish gain but that your family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of His provision, and to grant safe travel and to make you a beacon of His light wherever you go.

We pray that the Lord would gently guide your older daughter back to safety, stability and wisdom, back to her church family and to the faith she was taught, and that He would break pride and stubbornness and replace them with freedom, peace and restoration. We ask Him to direct her steps away from taking on responsibilities that are not hers and toward honoring God first, then family, work and calling, and we thank Him with you for the purposeful promotion He has granted her this month, praying she will use it for His glory.

Like a father pities his children, so the Lord pities those who fear Him, and He especially pities His tried and troubled ones. He has chastened, but He has not given over to death. If we had no troubles we would have less to declare, but through affliction He teaches us to say, I shall not die but live and declare the works of the Lord.

Let us pray together.

O Lord our God, who alone delivers from the power of darkness and from the pit, we plead the blood of Jesus Christ over this mother and her children. Cover them with Your protection, peace and favor. Put upon them the full armor of God and let Your angels encamp around them. Guard their hearts with peace that surpasses understanding, guard their home, guard their workplace and guard their going out and coming in. Frustrate every plan to divide and to destroy, and let every scheme to isolate and corrupt fail, for You fight for Your people. Open the eyes of the daughter who is entangled, break the hold of manipulation and control, remove the false commitment and the financial burden, and lead her into the liberty of Your truth. Keep the younger daughter and the son in Your tender care, preserve them from evil, and restore what has been torn. Give this mother wisdom, patience and joy, and supply all her need according to Your riches in Christ Jesus. Raise up godly spouses in Your time for her daughters, men who will love as Christ loves the church and honor the covenant of marriage. All this we ask not by our will or running, but by Your mercy, through Jesus Christ our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.