Family disagreement & hurt feelings b/tween 2 ###

[Soymen]

As a mother I love both my adult sons. But they are angry at each other and have said things to each other and there are hurt feelings on both sides. They have been close until a few months ago.

 

[Articles]

We understand the deep sorrow and burden you carry as a mother watching your sons struggle in their relationship with one another. Family conflicts can be some of the most painful experiences, especially when love and history are involved. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 17:17, *"A friend loves at all times; and a brother is born for adversity."* Yet, we also know that even the closest relationships can be strained by sin, pride, and unchecked emotions. It is clear that the enemy seeks to divide families, but we must stand firm in the truth that God desires unity, forgiveness, and reconciliation.

First, we must address the root of this conflict. Anger and hurtful words often stem from pride, unresolved bitterness, or a refusal to extend grace. Ephesians 4:26-27 warns us, *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil."* When we hold onto anger, we give the enemy a foothold in our lives and relationships. Similarly, Ephesians 4:31-32 commands, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* Your sons must be willing to lay down their pride, repent of any harsh words or unforgiveness, and seek reconciliation through Christ.

As their mother, your role is to pray fervently and speak truth in love. You cannot force their hearts to change, but you can model Christlike humility and forgiveness. We encourage you to share Scripture with them, reminding them of the importance of unity. Psalm 133:1 says, *"See how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity!"* You might also gently challenge them by asking if their conflict is worth damaging the lifelong bond they share as brothers. Remind them that their relationship is a gift from God, and Satan delights in seeing families torn apart.

If they are believers, urge them to examine their hearts before the Lord. 1 John 4:20 asks, *"If a man says, 'I love God,' and hates his brother, he is a liar; for if he doesn’t love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he hasn’t seen?"* Their relationship with each other reflects their relationship with Christ. If they claim to follow Jesus, they must pursue peace and forgiveness, even when it is difficult.

We also want to encourage you to trust God with this situation. You have done your part by loving them and praying for them, but ultimately, their hearts belong to the Lord. Proverbs 21:1 reminds us, *"The king’s heart is in Yahweh’s hand like the water courses. He turns it wherever he desires."* God can soften even the hardest hearts and bring healing where there is brokenness. Do not lose hope, for our God specializes in redemption and restoration.

Let us pray together for your sons and for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this mother who longs to see her sons reconciled. Lord, You know the pain and division that has entered their relationship, and we ask You to intervene mightily. Softening their hearts, Lord, and convict them of any pride, bitterness, or unforgiveness that has taken root. Help them to see the damage their words and anger have caused, and give them the humility to repent and seek forgiveness from one another.

We pray that You would remind them of the love they once shared as brothers and the bond You have given them. Let them recall the good times and the ways You have knit their lives together. Father, break the strongholds of the enemy that seek to keep them divided. Bind Satan from influencing their thoughts or actions, and fill them instead with Your Holy Spirit, who brings peace, patience, and self-control.

Lord, we ask that You give their mother wisdom as she navigates this difficult season. Help her to speak Your truth in love and to model forgiveness and grace. Comfort her heart, Father, and assure her that You are working even when she cannot see it. Strengthen her faith to trust You with her sons, knowing that You love them even more than she does.

We declare Your promise over this family from Isaiah 58:12: *"Those who shall be of you shall build the old waste places. You shall raise up the foundations of many generations. You shall be called 'The repairer of the breach,' 'The restorer of paths to dwell in.'"* Lord, restore what has been broken in this family. Heal the wounds, mend the breach, and bring them back into unity for Your glory.

Finally, Father, we ask that You draw each of them closer to You through this trial. Let them seek Your face and surrender their hearts to Your will. May this season of conflict lead to a deeper dependence on You and a stronger testimony of Your faithfulness.

We pray all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who reconciled us to the Father and broke down every wall of division. Amen.

We urge you to continue standing in the gap for your sons, trusting that God hears your prayers and is at work. Keep pointing them to Christ, the ultimate Peacemaker. If they are willing, suggest they meet together in a neutral place to talk through their issues with a focus on reconciliation. If the conflict runs deep, it may be helpful to involve a pastor or biblical counselor to mediate the conversation. Do not give up hope—God is able to do far more than we can ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20). Stay steadfast in prayer, and trust that He will bring beauty from these ashes.

 

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We're right there with you, sister. It's heart-wrenching to see our loved ones at odds, especially when it's our own children. But remember, even Jesus wept for His friends in their time of sorrow (John 11:35). So, let's lift our voices together in prayer.

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, heavy-hearted but hopeful. We lift up this mother who loves her sons dearly, and her heart aches to see them reunited. Lord, You know the pain and division that's come between them. We ask You to intervene, to soften their hearts, and to remind them of the love and bond they once shared.

Help them, Lord, to see the damage their words and anger have caused. Give them the humility to repent and seek forgiveness from one another. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, who brings peace, patience, and self-control. Break the strongholds of the enemy that seek to keep them divided, and bind Satan from influencing their thoughts or actions.

Father, we also ask for wisdom for this mother. Help her to speak Your truth in love and to model forgiveness and grace. Comfort her heart, Lord, and strengthen her faith to trust You with her sons, knowing that You love them even more than she does.

We declare Your promise over this family, Lord. Restore what's been broken, heal the wounds, and mend the breach. Bring them back into unity for Your glory. Draw each of them closer to You through this trial, and may it lead to a deeper dependence on You and a stronger testimony of Your faithfulness.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep pointing them to Christ. He's the ultimate Peacemaker, and He's working even now to bring healing and restoration. Don't give up hope, for with God, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26).

 

[Windwold]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Naliogate]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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