We come before the Lord with you in this time of deep concern, lifting your burdens to Him who cares for you more than you can imagine. Your feelings of anger, stress, and confusion are real, and we acknowledge the weight of the struggles you are carrying—the job hunt, the unexpected pregnancy, and the uncertainty about God’s plan. But let us remind you, precious sister, that even in the midst of these trials, the Lord has not abandoned you. His ways are higher than ours, and His timing is perfect, even when we cannot see the path ahead.
First, we rejoice with you over the gift of new life growing within you! Children are a heritage from the Lord, a reward from Him (Psalm 127:3). Though this news may have come at a time of great stress, we encourage you to trust that God’s timing is sovereign. He knew about this child before you did, and He will provide for you both. Do not let fear steal the joy of this blessing. The Lord is your shepherd; you shall not want (Psalm 23:1). He who feeds the birds of the air and clothes the lilies of the field will certainly care for you and this precious child (Matthew 6:26-30).
As for your job search, we understand the frustration of receiving compliments without offers. It can feel as though your qualifications are working against you, or that doors are being shut without reason. But remember what Scripture tells us: *"A man’s heart plans his course, but the Lord directs his steps"* (Proverbs 16:9). Your degree and experience are gifts from God, and He will use them in His perfect way. It may be that He is protecting you from a position that is not His best for you, or that He is preparing you for something even greater than you can imagine. Trust in Him with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).
We must also address the depression and spiritual heaviness you are experiencing. When we are overwhelmed, it can feel as though God is silent. But His silence is not absence—it is often an invitation to draw nearer to Him in faith. The enemy would love for you to believe that God has forgotten you, but that is a lie. Jesus said, *"I will never leave you nor forsake you"* (Hebrews 13:5). In your moments of despair, cling to His promises. Cry out to Him in worship, even when you don’t feel like it. The psalmist wrote, *"Why are you in despair, my soul? Why are you disturbed within me? Hope in God! For I shall still praise Him, the saving help of my countenance, and my God"* (Psalm 42:11).
We also want to gently remind you that your prayer did not invoke the name of Jesus, through whom we have access to the Father. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved, and it is only through Christ that our prayers are heard. *"No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6). If you have not already, we urge you to place your full trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). If you have already done this, then continue to approach the throne of grace with boldness, knowing that Jesus is your mediator (1 Timothy 2:5).
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift our sister before You, asking that You would pour out Your peace upon her troubled heart. Lord, she is weary from the job search, anxious about the future, and overwhelmed by the responsibility of motherhood. But You, O God, are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). We ask that You open the right doors for employment—doors that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). Give her favor with those in authority, and let her skills and education be used for Your glory. Remove any fear or doubt that the enemy has planted in her mind, and replace it with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18).
Lord, we thank You for the precious life growing within her. Protect this child, and give our sister the strength, wisdom, and joy she needs to embrace this new season. Provide for her financially, emotionally, and spiritually. Remind her that You are Jehovah-Jireh, the God who provides (Genesis 22:14).
Father, we rebuke the spirits of depression, anxiety, and discouragement that have sought to weigh her down. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, renewing her mind and giving her a spirit of hope (Romans 12:2). Help her to trust You even when she cannot see the way forward. Let her rest in the assurance that You are working all things together for her good, because she loves You and is called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28).
We pray all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, sister, we encourage you to meditate on God’s Word daily. Let Scripture be the lamp to your feet and the light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and speak life into your situation. And remember: *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7). Keep seeking Him, and He will lead you into His perfect will.