Existential issues, problem inheritance, relationship ###

Natasha 2

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1) fear/anxiety that my brother will somehow trick me for my part of inheritance (he is rude to me, ignores or sabotages me, and not loyal, yesterday I cried how he hurt me with disrespect... diminishes me, it hurts even more because we had a wonderful relationship in teenage and student days

2) pray that I will not have fear around it, it really gives me big anxiety sometimes. This money would solve my existential problems and some that I struggle with for 20 years. My brother received 30 years ago already more than me. This doesn't mean that I love money more than my mom - absolutely not, but when she is gone I will have no one, no friends, my brother doesn't love me, had never time for me or will to help me even in his area of knowledge... no husband, low income and double lower pension.
 
We understand the deep pain and anxiety you’re carrying, and we want to lift you up in prayer while also speaking truth into your situation with love and biblical wisdom. The fear of being deceived by your brother, the loneliness, and the existential struggles are heavy burdens, but we serve a God who sees your heart and promises to be your Provider, Defender, and Comforter. Let us first address the spiritual foundation of your request, as it is critical to remember that our hope and security must ultimately rest in Christ alone.

It is concerning that your request does not mention the name of Jesus or seek His will above all else. The Bible is clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved or through which we can approach God. *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. True peace—even in the midst of anxiety, betrayal, and financial struggle—can only be found in Him. *"Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you; not as the world gives, do I give to you. Don’t let your heart be troubled, neither let it be fearful"* (John 14:27, WEB). Without Christ, even an inheritance cannot fill the void in your heart or secure your eternal future.

Now, let us speak to the specific struggles you’ve shared. The pain of your brother’s betrayal and disrespect is real, and it is understandable that the loss of the close relationship you once had grieves you deeply. The Bible warns us about the dangers of placing our trust in wealth or in people, who can fail us. *"Don’t trust in oppression. Don’t become vain in robbery. If riches increase, don’t set your heart on them"* (Psalm 62:10, WEB). Your fear that your brother will trick you out of your inheritance reveals a deeper anxiety about your future security. While it is natural to desire provision, we must be careful not to let fear or bitterness take root. *"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB).

Your brother’s actions are sinful—his rudeness, sabotage, and disloyalty are not in line with God’s command to *"love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another"* (John 13:35, WEB). However, the Bible also calls us to forgive and to trust God to vindicate us. *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil.’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you"* (Proverbs 20:22, WEB). This does not mean you should passively allow yourself to be mistreated, but it does mean releasing your right to retaliation and trusting God to act justly. If your brother is indeed acting deceitfully regarding the inheritance, pray for wisdom on how to proceed with integrity. *"The integrity of the upright shall guide them, but the perverseness of the treacherous shall destroy them"* (Proverbs 11:3, WEB). Consider seeking godly counsel, such as a trusted pastor or Christian lawyer, to ensure that your mother’s wishes are honored fairly and legally.

We also sense a deep loneliness in your words—the absence of friends, a husband, and familial support. This is a painful place to be, but we want to remind you that God sees you and has not forgotten you. *"Yahweh is close to the brokenhearted. He saves those who have crushed spirits"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). Your worth is not defined by your marital status, income, or even your brother’s treatment of you. You are deeply loved by the Creator of the universe, who calls you His child if you have placed your faith in Christ. If you have not yet done so, we urge you to seek a community of believers—a local church where you can find support, friendship, and accountability. *"Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not abandoning our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching"* (Hebrews 10:24-25, WEB).

Regarding your existential struggles, we want to gently but firmly remind you that money—even an inheritance—cannot ultimately solve the deep needs of the human heart. Jesus warned, *"One’s life doesn’t consist of the abundance of the things which he possesses"* (Luke 12:15, WEB). While an inheritance may provide temporary relief, true security is found in God alone. *"But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:33, WEB). This is not to minimize your very real financial concerns, but to redirect your focus to the One who holds your future. Pray for God’s provision, but also pray for contentment and trust in His timing. *"But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we certainly can’t carry anything out. But having food and clothing, we will be content with that"* (1 Timothy 6:6-8, WEB).

Lastly, we must address the absence of hope for marriage in your words. If you desire a godly marriage, we encourage you to pray for a spouse who loves the Lord and will cherish you as Christ loves the Church. *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it"* (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). However, we also urge you to surrender this desire to God, trusting that His plan for your life—whether in singleness or marriage—is good. *"Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this"* (Psalm 37:4-5, WEB).

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister to You, knowing that You see her pain, her fears, and her deep loneliness. Lord, we ask that You would draw her closer to Yourself, that she may find her security and identity in Christ alone. Forgive her for any fear or bitterness that has taken root in her heart, and fill her instead with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. We rebuke the spirit of anxiety and fear in the name of Jesus, declaring that You have not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7).

Lord, we pray for wisdom and discernment regarding the inheritance. If there is deceit at work, expose it and bring justice. Give her the strength to act with integrity and the courage to seek godly counsel. Protect her from being taken advantage of, and provide for her needs according to Your riches in glory. We ask that You would soften her brother’s heart, that he may repent of his sinful behavior and seek reconciliation. But even if he does not, Lord, guard her heart from bitterness and help her to forgive as You have forgiven her.

Father, we also pray for her loneliness. You know the deep desire of her heart for companionship and support. If it is Your will, provide a godly husband who will love her as Christ loves the Church. But even if she remains single, Lord, satisfy her with Your presence and surround her with a community of believers who will love and support her. Remind her that she is never alone, for You are with her always.

We pray for her financial struggles, asking that You would provide for her needs and teach her to trust in You rather than in wealth. Help her to seek first Your Kingdom, knowing that all these things will be added to her as she walks in obedience to You.

Most of all, Lord, we pray that she would place her faith fully in Jesus Christ if she has not already done so. May she surrender her fears, her past, and her future into Your hands, trusting that You work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). Fill her with Your hope, Your joy, and Your peace, and let her life be a testimony of Your faithfulness.

In the mighty and precious name of Jesus we pray, Amen.
 
Dear sister, we're here with you in this. We understand the worry and anxiety you're feeling about your inheritance and the pain caused by your brother's actions. Let's trust that God sees all and will work it out for your good. Let's pray:

"Dear Lord, we come to you today on behalf of our ###. We ask that you would give her peace in the midst of her storm. Help her to trust in you, knowing that you are in control and that you have her best interests at heart. Give her wisdom in dealing with her brother and the inheritance, and help her to act with integrity. We ask that you would soften her brother's heart, that he may repent and seek reconciliation. But even if he doesn't, Lord, help our ### to forgive as you have forgiven her. We also pray for her loneliness, that you would satisfy her with your presence and surround her with a community of believers who will love and support her. Help her to trust in you for her financial needs, knowing that you will provide for her according to your riches in glory. Most importantly, Lord, we pray that she would place her faith fully in Jesus Christ, surrendering her fears and her future into your hands. Fill her with your hope, your joy, and your peace, and let her life be a testimony of your faithfulness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
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