We hear the deep longing in your heart to honor God through your success, to stand as a testimony of His faithfulness, and to see others drawn to Him—even those who have wronged you. Your desire to reflect Christ’s love rather than bitterness is commendable, and we join you in praying for God’s will to be done in your life and in the lives of those around you. You’ve already demonstrated great strength by choosing forgiveness and faithfulness over resentment, and we encourage you to continue walking in that grace.
The adversity you’ve faced is real, and the pain of being wronged—especially in ways that threatened your well-being—is not something to be minimized. Yet, like Joseph, who told his brothers, *"You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good"* (Genesis 50:20, WEB), your story can indeed become a powerful witness. Success, when surrendered to God, is not about personal glory but about His glory being revealed through you. As Jesus said, *"Let your light shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in heaven"* (Matthew 5:16, WEB). Your life can be that light—a testament to God’s sustaining power in hardship.
However, we must also address something critical: your mention of coworkers who *"supported pride wellness"* and engaged in behaviors contrary to Scripture. The Bible is clear that *"homosexuality is a sin"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB) and that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20, WEB), which includes how we adorn them. Tattoos, while not explicitly forbidden in the New Testament, should be considered carefully in light of cultural associations and whether they honor God (Leviticus 19:28, WEB, though under the Old Covenant, still offers wisdom). More importantly, the lifestyle you describe—one that celebrates sin—is a rebellion against God’s design. Yet, we must remember that *"such were some of you, but you were washed... in the name of the Lord Jesus"* (1 Corinthians 6:11, WEB). There is hope for transformation in Christ!
Your prayer for their salvation is beautiful and aligns with God’s heart. He *"desires all people to be saved and come to full knowledge of the truth"* (1 Timothy 2:4, WEB). But let us also pray for wisdom in how you engage with them. Speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15, WEB), but never compromise on biblical standards. Your life—your integrity, kindness, and unwavering faith—may be the very thing God uses to soften their hearts. At the same time, be cautious about aligning yourself too closely with those who openly celebrate sin, lest it dim your own witness (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
As for your career, we pray that God opens doors no man can shut (Revelation 3:8, WEB) and that He grants you favor in the sight of those who can provide godly opportunities. Success, in God’s eyes, is not measured by worldly standards but by faithfulness (Matthew 25:23, WEB). If He calls you to remain in a humble position for a season, trust that He is refining you. If He lifts you to a place of influence, use it to point others to Him. Either way, *"commit your works to Yahweh, and your thoughts shall be established"* (Proverbs 16:3, WEB).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother before You, thanking You for his heart to honor You in all things. Lord, You see the pain he has endured—the injustice, the rejection, and the spiritual battles around him. Yet, in the midst of it all, he has clung to You, and we ask that You reward his faithfulness. Grant him success *not* for his own glory, but so that Your name may be magnified through him. Open doors that align with Your will, and give him discernment to walk through them with wisdom and humility.
Father, we also pray for those who have wronged him—those who celebrate sin and reject Your truth. Soften their hearts, Lord. Let them see something different in him: a peace that surpasses understanding, a joy that isn’t shaken by circumstances, and a love that doesn’t return evil for evil. Use his life as a beacon to draw them to repentance. Break the strongholds of pride, rebellion, and deception in their lives, and replace them with a hunger for Your Word and Your righteousness.
Lord, if there are areas where our brother needs to grow—whether in forgiveness, boundaries, or boldness—reveal them to him. Fill him with Your Spirit so that his words and actions are seasoned with grace but never lacking in truth. Protect him from bitterness, from the temptation to prove himself in his own strength, and from the snares of worldly validation.
Finally, Father, we ask that You prepare him for whatever You have next. Whether it’s a new job, a restored relationship, or a platform to share Your gospel, equip him to steward it well. Remind him that his worth is found in Christ alone, not in his achievements. May he walk in the confidence that You are his Provider, his Defender, and his Reward.
We rebuked any spirit of fear, discouragement, or self-reliance in Jesus’ mighty name. Let our brother’s story be a testament to Your redeeming power. And Lord, for those reading this who do not yet know You, we pray that today is the day they turn from their sins and place their faith in Jesus Christ—the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB).
In Jesus’ name, the name above all names, we pray. Amen.